Why Men Are VERY ATTRACTED to Women Who Don’t Try Hard! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• Thanks that all make sense

• BIG thank you from overseas, IRAN. It's interesting regardless of different backgrounds and culture that I grow up with; what you say is a golden key which woks in any human DNA❤😊

  • Big thank you all the way to Iran 👍🏼

• Good morning.

  The mindset that I usually have when things are flow and in that sequential synchronicity that (back to back blessings) is just gratefulness.
  I verbally and mentally show appreciation for these things before I recieve them. I show even more gratitude and gratefulness in the midst of the waiting period. And I basically lose it (🤯 mindblown in a good way) when I finally have it in my possession.
  I seriously get so happy that sometimes I even break into dance 💃🏾 like no one is watching. 😅

• Hi Mat
  I’m 71 and had my first date since my husband died in 2020…a guy I knew in the 70s…
  Second date tonight and I appreciate what you say and do!! Thanks to you and Irene ♥️
  Of course at my age, I know some but the jitters of this new element of dating naturally has me thrown a little 😄 Otherswise, it’s like we haven’t changed and things flow good.
  His wife died the year before my husband but has dated plenty.
  I have watched sooo many of your videos and I am very selective 🥰
  Your videos are just so very good and helpful and TIMELY!! 👏🏼
  Thanks again and God bless!!

• The simplest way to describe the feeling, is how you met your best friend vs. someone that you speak to once and a while. You’re friendly but you’re not best friends. You didn’t make a best friend happen. It just did. And every woman you met, you weren’t wondering if she wanted you as a best friend. If she didn’t want to have lunch, so be it. The thing that happens with love is, we think it’s different. We think if we push enough and try enough, we can make it happen. And that’s never going to be the case. And by that i mean, if you’re kind and considerate, and you’ve shared things that authentic about yourself, and the guy is stringing you along-you can feel he’s not all in- be ok with letting him go. There’s a guy who will call, who can’t wait to take you out, who thinks about you as soon as he wakes up and he smiles. He’s like meeting your bestie. He’s just as happy about you as you are about him.

  • Ooo, very well said, yes.

  • Love this ❤

  • Brilliant comparison! Thank you

• This is sound for anyone. I'm attracted to ppl who don't try hard anyway. Not just in romantic relationships, but in general. I don't wanna see ppl put on a show, I can turn on the TV for that.

• If you've suffered a abusive relationship sadly subconsciously you don't have that self belief and you've been trained through fear to be a people pleaser as to not be means you're in dangerous place also having a disability, being a bereaved mum can scare people away.... Fantabulous video Matt as always, sadly we don't all have the ability to vibe as easily as some others depending on what our lives have been.
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• Mat really stepped it up with this vid 💖💫

• Great video! Thank you! 🤩

• Great video mat ❤️😊