Why Men Choose One Woman Over Another | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• Matt - this video made a lot of sense but I also want the foundation of friendship & soul I think as we age we just realize more & more what’s important. It needs to be solid. I personally don’t want to ever go through what I went through when I was married or when I was in long term relationships. So to me it’s important to have that foundation & connection.

  • Man aren’t spiritual woman are. If there is man who can connect spiritually with woman they think he is weird. Look up at the history. Many BC ago woman considered to be Goddess and we would give advice to man based on our spirituality and intuition. There was spiritual and physical harmony to balance our relationship. We lost that today. It doesn’t matter what guy woman meet and how she is trying to please him if he doesn’t have appreciation what is in front of him he will never be satisfied and look for another.

• It's mutual respect, commitment, to have each other's support, a man who knows how to honour her woman protecting her dignity through his actions he must be aware, to feel an ease to be yourself and the maturity

  • You’ve got such a charming grin that indeed God gives you each chance to smile.

  • Thanks😊for your lovely compliment

• Most woman are gave up on man and prefer to be alone. Just like someone recently said to me: “why get entire pig to get a little sausage?”

  • Lol 😂 not the sausage

  • Haha best comment ever ❤😂

• Last night while I was out a man came over and complimented me on my style. Later in the evening I happened to walk past him and he stopped me to ask me if I have children. When i told him that I don't, he told me I would be a great mother. Yet here I am, most of my life - I've not really even been given a chance by the men who I actually feel there's a connection with and with whom I have enough common ground. (BTW - The guy was a lot younger than me and I thought I saw a wedding band on one of his fingers.) I've found in my life, that the majority of men are not as thoughtful as this video lays out. : )

  • I agree. I'm 42 going 43 now, and I am childless, not by choice just haven't happened yet and found men like in the video 😢

  • Honestly! that smile on your profile picture looks good on you. if I may ask who did you get it from? I guess it is from your mother❤️

  • Agree

• Thank you for including older couples in your photo examples.

• Probably one of the best and most helpful videos you have done for me personally. Great info!

• I once read that dance Maxim Chmerkovskiy said of his wife: "She makes me a better man." That's totally what I'm hearing here. I have a girlfriend who I love to spend time with, because I feel like she makes me a better woman / person. That feeling is addictive (in my not so humble opinion).

• 1. Do we share the same vision of the future?
  2. Do you want the same things at the same time - kids especially? Are you ready to launch the relationship at the same time?
  3. Do i enjoy my time with her? Do we have a lot of fun together?
  4. Do we have great physical chemistry?
  5. Can I live with her? Can we spend a lot of time together and enjoy it? Do we have the same life rhythm?
  6. Do i like her family and friends?
  7. How do I feel about myself when I am around her?

  • Thanks a lot!!!🥰❤

  • ❤

  • Meanwhile women are expected to be like:
    1. How can I compromise myself to fit into his future?
    2. If he's ready for a relationship, then so am I. We'll have kids when he pressures me. Especially if he makes more money.
    3. Time to get into hiking even though I prefer tennis.
    4. Am I physically hot enough for him and look like the first crush/movie star he whacked off to?
    5. Can I cook and clean and pick up after him fast enough and settle on a later bedtime?
    6. Again, all about if he likes MY family and friends. His? I better find a way to win them over.
    7. For every 100 times you praise me, you are only allowed half a criticism. Thus stroke my ego.

    All of these are so selfish and center around the man. Women's wishes are like: "Is he kind? Does he have integrity?" and then are called too picky.

  • Iam a woman but I go through the same places as iam making decision to accept his offer.

  • ​@@SunitaDeThis sounds more like you focus on all the negative in life. Could be the problem. It's interesting how you felt the need to write this and complain. What would it look like if you flipped things on a more positive note? How would that make you feel? What would that attract?

• This advice is what children and the next upcoming generations must be taught. Great wisdom for love, fun & harmony. 🌅🌺🌴✨

  • You’ve got such a charming grin that indeed God gives you each chance to smile.

• The man who I want to be with values the things that I value and has character , loyalty and integrity. He is genuinely generous and shares with me in many ways. He acknowledges and appreciates what I bring to the relationship as much as I do what he offers. He views us as a team.