Why Men STOPPED Courting Women (5 HUGE Reasons)
Why Men STOPPED Courting Women (5 HUGE Reasons)… I want you to know why men stopped courting women and how societal shifts and changing cultural norms have redefined traditional relationship dynamics. When you know why men stopped courting women, you gain insight into the complexities of modern relationships and can better understand how societal changes impact dating and relationships. If you pay attention to this relationship advice, you will understand men better and why men show low effort in dating.
The modern dating world has evolved, and men stopped courting women due to evolving social norms and a shift toward casual dating culture. I want you to understand why men stopped courting women so you can navigate the dating landscape with awareness and adaptability. Take heed of this dating advice and watch the whole video to understand why men stopped courting women.
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I clicked this video sooooo quick! I need answers!! π
Me too ππππ
lol thank you for watching
YES I NEED ANSWERS TOO! IM SO LOST 2024! WHAT HAPPENED??? WHAT CHANGEDππππ€π€π€ THIS kinda stuff has definitely ended friendships and relationships. Personal experience. I’m over it!
*Ended
I had more meaningful relationships before smartphone invented
I hear you. Don’t forget social media…destroyed everything
Yeah technology has definitely changed things
β@omarjahammed2501 Exactly, there is nothing to motivate men because women dress half naked have the exact same bodies and hairstyles and can not have intelligent conversations. They also want men for their money to post on social media as if they live a luxury life.
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β@omarjahammed2501 Yes, mostly social media for sure
I blame social media for the majority of our problems πͺ
It certainly plays a part
I blame sin.
@@73odusthat too!!
Many/some βmenβ these days seem very weird according to all these male content creators. If certain men have so many issues doing the most basic thing maybe he isnβt into women in the first place. This seems very weird for a grown man to not be capable of doing the most basic thing. And if any woman is foolish enough to risk getting diseases for such dude then she has some internal issues to solve..
EXACTLY π―
You’re right, no one courts. .π’ Thank goodness I’m married. It wouldn’t be worth dating these days.. people seem to be into games ..not truth. If people would just be honest upfront in the beginning what they want it would resolve so many issues. π―
Some men still do, but it definitely is a lot less than it used to be
Some us were married and it ended one way or another. So your comment is very negative to us that want marriage or a meaningful relationship.
@@KimmieJ1920agreed. Not everyoneβs life path is to be married before the age of 30. For those of us single in this treacherous dating market Iβve come to the conclusion that the only relationship worth Persuing is a relationship with god
Many people are honest about what they SAY they want.. but it doesnβt mean they are ready, willing or equipped with what it takes to get thereβ¦. So your comment is pretty one dimensional
Wow! This was so good! 100% dead on. Iβm 52 and back in the dating world and Iβm experiencing it 1st hand. I still want and expect to be courted and if Iβm not getting that energy, I have to move on. I donβt mean spend a bunch of money on me, I mean bring the energy, passion and creativity and show your interest. The bad thing is that this lazy lack of courting behavior must be being rewarded by women because men do what works.
Thank you for your feedback
I suppose you have to factor in what women bring in too. If a woman starts sleeping w a man right off she loses her mystique and intrigue. My Mom always said why buy the cow if you’re already getting the milk free. I believe she was right.
β@@debbiechadwick861Amen! My mom always said the same thing.
I know my worth and value. Intimacy only with a commitment.
@@debbiechadwick861sleaze culture needs to go
Agree 100%. If women didn’t allow poor behaviour from men, they would change. Boundaries are required from all women, imho.
Now people giving benefits without commitment is most menβs dream, cause WHY do anything else? Thats a Major Contributor!!
Agreed. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. And being in a so-called “long term relationship” (just a warm fuzzy word for co-habitation) doesn’t count as buying the cow, borrowing for free maybe.
Indeed
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback π
With the internet in it’s current state, that also contributes a lot to the “grass is greener” syndrome, as well as lowering motivation levels because the click of a button is much easier. Takes less work, and men seem to fear rejection less this way…..again, my opinion. Respectfully. ππΎ
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you β€
I always offer to split the check on a first meeting/date… and I am prepared to do this. I don’t meet up with anyone that I’m not interested in.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback π
Some will court you until they get what they want then stop.
It definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best π
Absolutely. Donβt give it to them. Take your time and move slow. Spirit will reveal his intentions to you. Trust.
Yes , I was lied to a fake engagement, so many promises , to then change his mind for some .
He lied , a toxic player.
I’m done.
when i asked the 60+ man why he had stopped, i promise he said bc he had me and there was no need to….that was MY FAULT…..but i was shocked to hear such sophmorish thinking
βA phone call is freeβ. Big facts, it is possible to know if you like someone, at least enough to know if you want to continue to get to know them, in 2 conversations or less. No one has spent any money. We both spent the same amount of time & energy. We can go for coffee or ice cream after that. If that goes well then we can go on a specific date. Doing something we both enjoy and doesnβt have to be expensive. And by then we know a little bit about each other. Four interactions and not much financial investment.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that β€οΈ
What I am observing is men 40+ are seeking these IG models who are young, slim and trim, having hot girls summers and out and about and then expecting them to be a wife/mother, home maker and so forth. Who we want doesnβt want us and whoβs chasing us, we wonβt let them catch. πππ Iβve been married 27 years so Iβm out of the game but I do listen to what others are saying and just pray daily the Lord keeps my husband alive and well so I donβt have this foolishness to contend with. I pray those of you who are earnestly seeking companionship and marriage find itβ¦
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback π
I’m been needing someone for a long time to make this makes sense! Us old school women don’t intend on changing from knowing our worth and allowing a man to date and court us!
We our good queens and feel that we should be treated as such. We dont expect a lot and we know what we bring to the table when all of the courting is all said and done. What are we to do because I’m so over this 2024 new no courting thing! This has destroyed good friendships etc… I can’t do it anymore. Bring back the 80s and 90s.
I’m happy this has been helpful to you π
Interesting insights and video!ππΎ
β€οΈ π Thank you!
First of all… Thank you for this video, I actually requested this topic and feel seen as a loyal viewer. My POV: If everybody and their momma could see that the man is wrong, is it really a loss?? Maybe that man needs to change the perceptions he has of that woman rather than get disappointed. Also… Alot of men do tend to go after women that are “popular” and desired by many. A woman that is desired by many might have a different approach. Some men could benefit from looking for an attractive woman that could also be a 10 but just not “poppin”… I do see a trend of alot of men breaking their own hearts by just chasing looks or a certain kind of woman for “status” instead of truly dissecting their character
I appreciate your longer form videos, Stephan. Cheers for sharing this ~ it was incredibly helpful in terms of male perspectives, and relatable regarding trauma both in childhood & early relationships. Thank you for continued dedication toward quality content.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
I just love how Stephan gives us encouragement to not lose faith about finding the right man despite all the challenges we face in modern day dating . It really shows how experienced and understanding he is.
β€οΈ π Thank you. I appreciate that!
As an older woman i can say that my husband courted me. Now after his passing i look at what people are doing,i just shake my head and pray for those who are out there dating. Stephan you are wright on all points. I say ask the Upfront Hard questions then you know if you want to proceed.
It’s getting real sad in these dating streets
As a 68 year old woman who has been dating online for over six months, I can say with a fair amount of certainty that many men over the age of 55 here in Australia, are not truly looking for long term relationships. They are seeking casual or part time relationships where there is little to no responsibility involved. I understand that men have been taken advantage of, but I can say with honesty, I am not one of those women. In fact, I was the one who supplied the material assets in my relationships.
I attribute this phenomenon to men being unhealed emotionally, carrying so much baggage, more so than being physically unwell. They have energy to play sport, work, socialize, drink, but when it comes to courting, they seem to be unwilling or unable to commit to even trying to see where a relationship goes. If testosterone levels are indeed low, why am I finding that all the older men I meet, are very interested in getting me into bed.π There is no effort on their part to court, it is as though they expect to become intimate simply because they are male. Things were very different “in the old days” ππ
Btw I am an attractive, young at heart, peaceful, evolved feminine, and love male companionship and respect men for the hard work it is to be masculine. Thankfully, I enjoy my own company so if I remain single, I am still happy.
Thank you for your work Stephan, I have learned and continue to learn so much from you. Sending much love and light to all on this journey. π«β£
Courting is a sweet experience. Getting to know someone.