Why Men STOPPED Courting Women (5 HUGE Reasons)

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• Courting is a sweet experience. Getting to know someone.

• As a 68 year old woman who has been dating online for over six months, I can say with a fair amount of certainty that many men over the age of 55 here in Australia, are not truly looking for long term relationships. They are seeking casual or part time relationships where there is little to no responsibility involved. I understand that men have been taken advantage of, but I can say with honesty, I am not one of those women. In fact, I was the one who supplied the material assets in my relationships.

  I attribute this phenomenon to men being unhealed emotionally, carrying so much baggage, more so than being physically unwell. They have energy to play sport, work, socialize, drink, but when it comes to courting, they seem to be unwilling or unable to commit to even trying to see where a relationship goes. If testosterone levels are indeed low, why am I finding that all the older men I meet, are very interested in getting me into bed.😁 There is no effort on their part to court, it is as though they expect to become intimate simply because they are male. Things were very different "in the old days" 😉😂

  Btw I am an attractive, young at heart, peaceful, evolved feminine, and love male companionship and respect men for the hard work it is to be masculine. Thankfully, I enjoy my own company so if I remain single, I am still happy.

  Thank you for your work Stephan, I have learned and continue to learn so much from you. Sending much love and light to all on this journey. 💫❣

• It's getting real sad in these dating streets

• As an older woman i can say that my husband courted me. Now after his passing i look at what people are doing,i just shake my head and pray for those who are out there dating. Stephan you are wright on all points. I say ask the Upfront Hard questions then you know if you want to proceed.

• I just love how Stephan gives us encouragement to not lose faith about finding the right man despite all the challenges we face in modern day dating . It really shows how experienced and understanding he is.

  • ❤️ 🙂 Thank you. I appreciate that!

• I appreciate your longer form videos, Stephan. Cheers for sharing this ~ it was incredibly helpful in terms of male perspectives, and relatable regarding trauma both in childhood & early relationships. Thank you for continued dedication toward quality content.

  • Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

• First of all... Thank you for this video, I actually requested this topic and feel seen as a loyal viewer. My POV: If everybody and their momma could see that the man is wrong, is it really a loss?? Maybe that man needs to change the perceptions he has of that woman rather than get disappointed. Also... Alot of men do tend to go after women that are "popular" and desired by many. A woman that is desired by many might have a different approach. Some men could benefit from looking for an attractive woman that could also be a 10 but just not "poppin"... I do see a trend of alot of men breaking their own hearts by just chasing looks or a certain kind of woman for "status" instead of truly dissecting their character

• Interesting insights and video!🙏🏾

  • ❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

• I'm been needing someone for a long time to make this makes sense! Us old school women don't intend on changing from knowing our worth and allowing a man to date and court us!
  We our good queens and feel that we should be treated as such. We dont expect a lot and we know what we bring to the table when all of the courting is all said and done. What are we to do because I'm so over this 2024 new no courting thing! This has destroyed good friendships etc... I can't do it anymore. Bring back the 80s and 90s.

  • I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

• What I am observing is men 40+ are seeking these IG models who are young, slim and trim, having hot girls summers and out and about and then expecting them to be a wife/mother, home maker and so forth. Who we want doesn’t want us and who’s chasing us, we won’t let them catch. 😂😂😂 I’ve been married 27 years so I’m out of the game but I do listen to what others are saying and just pray daily the Lord keeps my husband alive and well so I don’t have this foolishness to contend with. I pray those of you who are earnestly seeking companionship and marriage find it…

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏