Why Men STOPPED Courting Women (5 HUGE Reasons)

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• I clicked this video sooooo quick! I need answers!! 😂

  • Me too 😂😂😂😂

  • lol thank you for watching

  • YES I NEED ANSWERS TOO! IM SO LOST 2024! WHAT HAPPENED??? WHAT CHANGED👎👎👎🤔🤔🤔 THIS kinda stuff has definitely ended friendships and relationships. Personal experience. I'm over it!

  • *Ended

• I had more meaningful relationships before smartphone invented

  • I hear you. Don't forget social media...destroyed everything

  • Yeah technology has definitely changed things

  • ​@omarjahammed2501 Exactly, there is nothing to motivate men because women dress half naked have the exact same bodies and hairstyles and can not have intelligent conversations. They also want men for their money to post on social media as if they live a luxury life.

  • 💯👌🏽

  • ​@omarjahammed2501 Yes, mostly social media for sure

• I blame social media for the majority of our problems 😪

  • It certainly plays a part

  • I blame sin.

  • @@73odusthat too!!

  • Many/some “men” these days seem very weird according to all these male content creators. If certain men have so many issues doing the most basic thing maybe he isn’t into women in the first place. This seems very weird for a grown man to not be capable of doing the most basic thing. And if any woman is foolish enough to risk getting diseases for such dude then she has some internal issues to solve..

  • EXACTLY 💯

• You're right, no one courts. .😢 Thank goodness I'm married. It wouldn't be worth dating these days.. people seem to be into games ..not truth. If people would just be honest upfront in the beginning what they want it would resolve so many issues. 💯

  • Some men still do, but it definitely is a lot less than it used to be

  • Some us were married and it ended one way or another. So your comment is very negative to us that want marriage or a meaningful relationship.

  • @@KimmieJ1920agreed. Not everyone’s life path is to be married before the age of 30. For those of us single in this treacherous dating market I’ve come to the conclusion that the only relationship worth Persuing is a relationship with god

  • Many people are honest about what they SAY they want.. but it doesn’t mean they are ready, willing or equipped with what it takes to get there…. So your comment is pretty one dimensional

• Wow! This was so good! 100% dead on. I’m 52 and back in the dating world and I’m experiencing it 1st hand. I still want and expect to be courted and if I’m not getting that energy, I have to move on. I don’t mean spend a bunch of money on me, I mean bring the energy, passion and creativity and show your interest. The bad thing is that this lazy lack of courting behavior must be being rewarded by women because men do what works.

  • Thank you for your feedback

  • I suppose you have to factor in what women bring in too. If a woman starts sleeping w a man right off she loses her mystique and intrigue. My Mom always said why buy the cow if you're already getting the milk free. I believe she was right.

  • ​@@debbiechadwick861Amen! My mom always said the same thing.
    I know my worth and value. Intimacy only with a commitment.

  • @@debbiechadwick861sleaze culture needs to go

  • Agree 100%. If women didn't allow poor behaviour from men, they would change. Boundaries are required from all women, imho.

• Now people giving benefits without commitment is most men’s dream, cause WHY do anything else? Thats a Major Contributor!!

  • Agreed. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. And being in a so-called "long term relationship" (just a warm fuzzy word for co-habitation) doesn't count as buying the cow, borrowing for free maybe.

  • Indeed

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

• With the internet in it's current state, that also contributes a lot to the "grass is greener" syndrome, as well as lowering motivation levels because the click of a button is much easier. Takes less work, and men seem to fear rejection less this way.....again, my opinion. Respectfully. 👌🏾

  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

• I always offer to split the check on a first meeting/date... and I am prepared to do this. I don't meet up with anyone that I'm not interested in.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

• Some will court you until they get what they want then stop.

  • It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • Absolutely. Don’t give it to them. Take your time and move slow. Spirit will reveal his intentions to you. Trust.

  • Yes , I was lied to a fake engagement, so many promises , to then change his mind for some .
    He lied , a toxic player.

    I'm done.

  • when i asked the 60+ man why he had stopped, i promise he said bc he had me and there was no need to....that was MY FAULT.....but i was shocked to hear such sophmorish thinking

• “A phone call is free”. Big facts, it is possible to know if you like someone, at least enough to know if you want to continue to get to know them, in 2 conversations or less. No one has spent any money. We both spent the same amount of time & energy. We can go for coffee or ice cream after that. If that goes well then we can go on a specific date. Doing something we both enjoy and doesn’t have to be expensive. And by then we know a little bit about each other. Four interactions and not much financial investment.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️