Woman REGRETS Leaving The Man Of Her Dreams

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• My son who is 23 doesn't date, he says girls are just a waste of time and money. He is focusing on himself, currently his career. He is adamant that he will not marry, says it is just a bad deal all around. All of his buddies are the same way.

  I was spending the day at the range with them and they all are against the idea of marriage. These are well put together guys, all of them fit, educated, hard working, well off. None of them want marriage, they say why risk it for the type of woman that are available. I was shocked by this as I never felt this way when I was young like them. So I spoke to my wife of 23 years and she was in agreement with them! I was taken back, but she said woman aren't like they were anymore. They abuse men, they look at men differently now, they look at what they can get, they aren't loyal. She told me woman know they can get everything a man has, then move to the next one and so on. She said there is a reason young men feel this way, they aren't making it up.

  She just feels sad for our daughter who isn't that way. She has been raised with good principles and morals. She thinks that our daughter is going to have a hard time finding a man that will trust her. Because the current breed of woman are untrustworthy.

  • With your guidance I'm sure she will find a quality man. There are a lot of men who feel the same way as your son. Men of worth are becoming more discerning with whom they share their attention and love to.

• Dude, this one hits close! This story LITERALLY happened to me! Married my HS sweetheart at 19. Three years in I wasn't "progressing" fast enough, so she left me for a guy she was banging. I ran into her 5 years after we'd split up. I discovered she was now TWICE divorced. She said to me, "It's too bad we didn't meet later in life. We probably would have made it." I looked at her, downed my beer and said, "Don't count on it" and walked away.

  That was the last time I ever saw her.

  I remarried when I was 31 to a woman a year older than me who is an amazing woman and exceptional mom. 20 years on, we're still going.

  • Good man!! A lot of weak males would have jumped on the chance to try again..congrats on a real woman and a real love!!

  • 💯

  • “The best revenge is massive success.” - Frank Sinatra

    Ol’ Blue Eyes would be so proud of you Bro! 😎

  • you re the man ;-)

  • Had a similar experience was dating a girl after a year really pressuring me to get married but I wasn't ready or willing to get married
    She first found then left me for another guy older and far less fit than me
    I actually saw them together in a restaurant I was at with a friend
    I took one look at him and said to myself buddy she's gonna take you to the cleaners AKAA D-gRaping better you than I
    Sure enough she got married to him had a kid and divorced him.
    Seams we both dodged a bullet

• I was drilled by my parents to respect women & talk to them with dignity. This got me nowhere in a relationship, nor did it get me a date. The more I talked down to a woman / talked trash the more dates & sex I got.

  • @Yahia Mohamed And NEVER let her have her way with you. You must ALWAYS put yourself first. Never let her make decisions for you, you be the leader. She might think you’re a jerk, but I can guarantee she will have more respect for you when you do this. You trust a woman’s actions not her words. You might think this sounds cruel, but what kind of guys do you see women knocking down doors to be with, dudes who worship them, or dudes who keep them in the back burner? Case and point.

  • @Yahia Mohamed I wish you all the best, friend. I grew up similar as you, in a Christian household with two loving parents. I envisioned becoming a family man at one point and that never happened. And I’ve made peace with that. It’s not so bad though. I’m responsible, financially stable, debt free and free to do whatever I want. Hobbies are very important.

  • If you don't mind, can you tell me more about that? I am not trying to be necessarily evil but I have the same issues. Late 20s and struggling with the same issue TBH cuz I was raised up with similar values + I grew up in a religious background which conditioned me in the old traditional way. Now I realize I don't know anything literally about dating nor how to play the game. What I was taught had no application in the real world...kina like a college degree lol. I would love to talk to you in some length to learn what I am doing wrong.

• I recently had my ex wife , whom I haven't spoken to in years, call me to tell me that I was the best thing that ever happened to her and she made a huge mistake and was so sorry etc etc missed me bla bla bla... I thanked her for her courage in admitting this to me and hung up the phone. I must admit that hearing that affirmation from her made me feel better.

  • Was this a confession on her part, wanting forgiveness from you? In the hopes of you taking her back? You played it right, bro.

  • @Jonis Strods you're 💯 % right. They always want back when the pool of options dry up. In short, this is only a confirmation that when they do this you weren't their first choice. What I do then is to treat them like the way that they treated me. I let them know that the door is locked and they are a non option to me. I told one of those women that left me to "have a nice life, have a nice death and goodbye" 👋.

  • That's the oldest trick in the book. Glad you didn't fall for it 😂😂

  • You did the right thing. Hope you are happy now Mark. 👍

  • If she knew what you would do she wouldn't have called. She just had no other options.

• I must have intuited this early on. Married a great guy in my 20s and just weathered through the hard times. Sure I sometimes longed to be single, but then I thought about the perks of having a long term loyal partner. I never wanted kids either, but did have one in my 30s. Best thing I ever did - married long term (48 years now) and had a child. Every single woman I know now without exception (a lot!) is still alone, many childless. They just have dogs and cats as company. Every one bitter and isolated with resentment.

  • Good story, thanks for sharing it, young women need to hear this. And some older ones, so they can repent of what they've done to some good men, I'm sure.

  • Good job! My wife and I married very young, she weathered it with me until I found my niche. We had 3 beautiful daughters and been married 36 years and counting. I couldn't imagine going through what these people go through.

  • A very nice testimony. Wishing you continued many happy years together... All those childless w; m subconsciously consider that to be theft from m and society. Lived their entire lives succubus'ing from m, and never contributed anything - theft.

  • Society is going to crash because of this this is unprecedented for this many women to be single

• I’ve dated several women who told me they left their husbands for other men they thought were better. They all got dumped and the former husbands moved on a made a better life for themselves. The regret was in their eyes.

  • Pump and dump!? Attaboy!

  • @fazor mcghee and it makes the women madder because they think why couldn't he just be ambitious to level up on his own. Why did he get better after and now I lose out on it. Lmao

  • Yup. Because after a man experiences this betrayal, the only thing on his mind is making himself so valuable that no woman would ever even consider doing this to him again. That's why alot of times they level up

  • Yes. My wife. Left me. For a. Guy Tried to return after I got even remarried I will never hurt my new wife and I learned from my past mistakes expensive lesson

• My grandmother once said "Women are their own worst enemies."

  • Wise woman indeed!!

  • You have a very wise grandmother

• The same thing happened to me. 10 years after she divorced me my ex sent me an apology letter telling me that she is sorry and clearly regretted her decision. I told her that I forgave her in my heart but I moved on and I am living a different life now. In the meantime I retired from my old job, became a full time landlord and I am a proud owner of 20 acres with 3 houses on it. I will NEVER EVER marry again.

  • ​Edward Will What helped me move onwards with my life was acknowledging the original woman I married changed to a completely different person. People change with time and it's not always for the better. The lady of your dreams today can become the witch of your nightmares in the future.

  • Sorry that happened to you Marc, you deserved better but glad things worked out for you.

  • Well done bro

  • Amen brother, glad to hear it. Stay single but always mingle.

  • Respect man. Thanks for sharing.

• She doesn't regret her decision, she regrets things didn't turn out for FOR HER as she expected. Still only thinking about herself.

  • Wow nice way to put it, so real

  • @Charles Taffe if it had worked out they wouldn’t even think of looking back or reflective fashion.

  • 100%

  • That’s right that’s why they don’t deserve another opportunity because it’s not repentance it’s remorse based on circumstances.

  • Truth!

• My ex girl friend from college called me 10 years later after I had a good wife and kids to say she made a mistake wtf. I told her don’t call me again and I was happy!!

  • and what did she say to that??? please tell man

  • I feel I had this girl I loved so much. She got a good job and started making more money then and the she started cheating left me. Not even a year she got fired got a DUI all cus she wanted to have friends. 6 years later she looks for me and tells me I'm her soulmate but I had already moved on at the time I had a new girl who was pregnant with my now 5 year old son. Now I'm 34 and she's 30 and I bet she's still sleeping around