Women Push GOOD MEN Away When They Do THESE 5 Things

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• I'm here for it Stephan...❤

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• Absolutely right! Great video Stephan. Every woman should watch this!❤

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• Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s the listening 👂 part for me , one the hardest thing for me. I be ready to pop off. However I’m working on myself

  • Same 🙃

  • Lol I hear you

  • I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • Same here ! I'm still over like what should I say to start a conversation after work 😫

• Wow😮 this video is right on time💯. I needed to hear all of this♥️

  • Glad I could help 🙏

• I kept thinking all men were the same, but after a year of counseling, I realized that in my broken state I was attracting the same type of narcissist man as my Dad. This definitely wasn't conscious. I would always say to myself, I need someone who is opposite my Dad... And then end up with someone who has alot of similar qualities as my Dad. You definitely need to heal yourself from these past negative relationships with men before you can find a good man. Good men will definitely see any red flags you might be projecting and avoid you.

  • The narc man made you feel comfortable. You were right at home. I married a narc. We went to marriage counseling. After I began to share, the counselor said, You married your mother. It felt comfortable to you.
    My mouth dropped open. My ex was sitting next to me laughing it up, holding his stomach type laughing. It was funny to him.

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  • ​@@SheriL1 Yes!!! That is exactly it!!! It felt comfortable because that was what I was used to from childhood...

  • @@SheriL1oh honey 😢

• What many women, including myself, had to learn was that being defensive is NOT a strength. And often, we think we're strong, but we are just on defense mode. It seems to appear strong, since we seem to be immune to what may hurt us. But true strength is not going full berserk mental self-defense on any man. We tend to "read minds" and jump to conclusions. But true strength is being vulnerable and having the skill to cope with what may hurt us. It's being able to recover from falling, not avoiding to fall at all.

  • But you don't have to be vulnerable for everybody or every man that walks by.
    ETA: I say that as empath that had to really learn to block people out.

  • @@ChantaBrite I totally agree. We should not be vulnerable with anyone. And not be naive. My comment was especially referring to the „independent woman“ part. I mean, many good men actually do like a mature woman, who doesn‘t need a babysitter. But this is minimum requirement for them. It‘s nothing to be extremely proud of and particularly nothing that should be a whole female identity. It‘s often the weak, who think it‘s strength. And good men can sense the hidden weakness behind the „I don‘t need a man“ one. It‘s ironically often actually the needy ones, who find security in being hyper independent. Not being judgdemental here. Just an observation of myself

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  • @@ofkgjslPreaching 🙏🏽

  • Wonderful and please keep up the good work

• I'm not talking to any men right now. I don't know if I will again. Dating sounds exhausting.

  • And it is.💯

  • Before you give up on dating, try changing your focus from dating to learning, and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!

• My guy tried to lead in selfishness and it became obvious the longer I knew him. I broke it off after the 6th month. I truly gave it time to work out. He’d cut me off when we talked to take calls from
  Others, he’d choose to allow our dates to be interrupted by his family and friends, I caught him
  In lies and exaggerations.

  • 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

• Number 5 was huge for me. His family and friends truly came before our relationship repeatedly !!

  • I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

• Thank you, awesome tips, personally the one about friends and family getting involved in the relationship. I've learned to zip 🤫 🤐 my relationships issues because that way it doesn't give them a right to have an opinion about it.

  • You're absolutely right. Thank you for sharing!