Won’t ask you out? He might be afraid of rejection | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs #shorts

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• Green light like what? Please advise x

• We have the same fear of things getting weird. And we do not want to throw ourselves at someone. And who knows, then you find out he has a girlfriend or he's married and doesn't wear his ring rock climbing.

• Oh !! ❤ ok

• Do I have to wear a green light? To make him know that I like him too? 😁😁😁 kidding aside please advice how to give green light and not be too insistent or pushy?

  • Men love being praised & doted on, throw him lil or direct compliments like:

    1) I like your shirt or pants etc
    2) You're cute
    3) You look really handsome
    4) What's you name..??
    5) Wonder where you're going looking that so clean like that.

    Just flirt with him a little..!! Just not to many compliments...!!

  • @@dashiajames1882 Let me give a man's perspective. These certainly help, but some of these could be interpreted as you just being nice.

    Take interest in what he likes and remember what he said before.

    Ask help/opinion on something light.

    Never mention other dudes to make him jealous. It works against you. Men don't like women with a lot of dudes around her. And be careful when you talk about what you did/where you went and be clear. "Yeah I went out last weekend to this Thai restaurant with my girl friends and food was delicious!"

    You could talk about food/restaurants/bars and a restaurant/bar you want to try out. If we've been talking for a bit and you said that to me, I'd jump on that and ask you if we should go check it out.

  • Ask him out, most men love that, you wouldn't believe how hard it can be to figure out if a woman likes you, the woman may think she is giving big flashing "I'm interested" signs when in reality there is just an unnoticeable difference in how she blinks when she is interested or something and she wonders why he isn't picking up the signal!

  • Thank you all for your advice I really appreciate all your Insights but honestly the only thing I didn't do with all of this strategy is to literaly ask him out. Maybe that's a red light for me to stop because I am way too old for him a 15 year gap is not that conventional in our country and the fact that people around him may not approve of this kind of relationship I guess I won't throw myself to embarassment and heartbreak. But I am open and willing to take a risk with him if he stand up for this kind of love. Thank you again God bless you all😘❤👍

• If treated with respect 🙏🏻 ❤

• There was a cute guy at church ... one day he greeted me ... loke really went out if his way to greet me which kind of looked like flirting ... not sure ..

  • I can understand why that would be kinda confusing because it is church and most everybody is friendly and greeting each other 🤔 the only thing that comes to my mind is if he makes a point of coming over to say hello and making small talk with you and I think you just have to feel it out because he may be a little shy and maybe you might have to be the brave one and see if he wants to maybe go for a walk or go hang out and go get some coffee, tea or ice cream I hope this helped a little good luck and take care 🤗

• What if you told him upfront that you like him too after technically pushing you to confess and still nothing.. but treats you the same like I didn’t said anything. That means he wasn’t really into me, just wanted to know? Still calls and text everyday, share’s his personal things and accomplishments first to me than even his family. What does he really want? I’m very confused because feels like we are not just friends since some physical has happened before confessing but we didn’t go all the way. His treatments makes me like we are already a couple but he doesn’t say it and I have asked but he jokes around to avoid it. It’s confusing. 😢

  • When they become confusing, I would say back off. Relationships should not give off confusion. Men say they know what they want and they go after it. Don't let him play with your emotions.

  • He's scared and/or doesn't know how to push forward. If you really like him, you gotta nudge him. You gotta meet up and help him escalate. Lean into his arm when sitting next to him, touch his knee, etc. You gotta have sex with him.

  • I would cut all contact abd find a man who doesn't play games.

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• I love Matt!

• The man that I love knows he has an open invitation to call me anytime he wants. But he fails to do so. Seems like I am the only one reaching out to him first. I love him so much but I’m about ready to give him the boot.

  • You are his side chick.