3 Red Flags He’s An Emotionally Immature Man | Dating Advice by Mat Boggs
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People are a product of their environment. I grew up with a lot of LOVE in my life. I see the difference in behaviour of people who weren’t so fortunate.
What an interesting comment. Thank you.
When you attempt to communicate your concern, boundaries and expectations. They just roll their eyes.
Bang on
Yep! Mine literally starts acting like a child – cover his face w/ a blanket, close his ears & etc.. such a turn off. So then I start talking in my baby voice bc he’s acting like that’s his language.
At this point I’m just giving all my love and energy to my dog. He is worthy of my time and attention
Amen to that!
AMEN ❣️
Ditto….but with my cat
A man who tries to make me jealous and hurt me and can’t communicate his feelings and be vulnerable is a total turn off for me.
Same!
Yes. A ¯man should make you feel safe
1. He’s never at fault, it is always someone/something to blame for. He doesn’t take responsibility for what he does.
2. He doesn’t like deep conversations.
3. He can sulk the whole day for the slightest thing that happens.
4. It is always about right and wrong, not looking for a solution together to solve the problem.
5. When you call him out for his doings, he gives you the cold treatment and punishes you for calling him out.
This my husband
OMG! This is my husband to a “t”. My soon-to-be ex-husband.
Whoa whoa 😮 that is dead on what be happening…u literally listed them out like that’s how he does me…smh…im the kind of person that likes to resolve things ir have an understanding quickly because i don’t like the cold shoulder stuff esoecially not every single time smh
I gotta get out of there
I notice when a man is emotionally immature he will discard in-depth conversations and say a women is being a nag if we have standards. And he is unable to initiate any conversation beyond a level 1. And unable to be consistently stable in any aspect for that matter.
The 22 year old man baby neighbor I have actually started humming like a 2-year-old playing in a sandbox while trying to talk to him about important neighbor issues like his wild 175lb. dog knocking me down. As a MAN, I wanted to knock HIM down for being so disrespectful.
Currently, a week in of silent treatment for asking a question. He did this three times during our first year together, I told him it was unacceptable behaviour and if he ever did it again that would be the end. Two blissful years silent treatment free, then last week he pulls it again. Gone through the heartache again, but have to follow through. I’ve met his silence with silence. I’m moving on. Such a waste of something I thought was good.
Mines said one time don’t talk to me for 30 days it lasted 7 😢just know I feel your pain I’m getting the strength to leave
Stick to your decision, girl…..he’ll never change, in fact it will only get worse because he’s found it gets him through situations he refuses to deal with as a mature man. RUN!!!! And DON’T let him con you into going back!!!!!!
Congratulations to you. Just move on and let that adult immature toddler live his misery life by himself
He’s a narcissist that’s abuse, run and don’t look back
He hasn’t talked to me for ten days. I told him the last time he didn’t talk to me for three weeks. I don’t know if he has figured out I’m Done!!!
I left my last boyfriend because I rarely felt refreshed and closer to him when we talked. I felt like he was intentionally trying to find ways to disagree with me. Whenever we got into an argument, he would get so cold and defensive, and no matter how hard I tried he would not budge to explain his feelings and instead invalidated mine. He made me feel like I was always in the wrong, and it made me feel anxious just expressing and being myself with him. It was really hard to connect with him emotionally.
Good thing you left him! you bring up good points.
Same. Left me scarred and the men I met after him, were not better.
When a man is emotionally unavailable, you try to talk to him about how you feel and what is bothering you in a calm respectful way and he quickly changes the subject.
Yess! This happened to me every time!
emotionally unavailable is not also emotionally immature
Or he turns things around on you, or acts like you’re being too emotional (even when you calmly explained what you’re feeling)
or turns the table around and says you’re making him feel inadequate because you’re trying to tell him how you feel. It’s a vicious cycle.
@@AnayahPMcKay Exactly 💯
I was married to a man who had tantrums over the smallest things. He once screamed at me for not serving him up enough potatoes. The relationship became all about meeting his needs and nothing about me. Exhausting.
Same😢
Yes something I’m experiencing it’s all about him and not ny needs – mines aren’t getting met
Not serving him enough potatoes? Ridiculous!
That sounds abusive… If he gets really mad instead of saying how it affects his self image and triggers him. Unless of course you just don’t notice him being around or something like that @@onefiftyonepm5294
The woman who texted a man to confirm a date for the next day and heard nothing from him then or for entire previous week was NOT at fault in any way. The man dropped the ball, spewed anger on her and I’m glad she dropped him.
1. Victim mentality – blames others for everything that happens to them
2. Can’t process bad events. – lets outside events control their mood for hours/days.
3. Will punish you instead of communicating their feelings – will not talk and be cold, or will attack you.
😂😂😂 i am 3/3
Yep
It’s never too late to learn thank you for the explanation and to grow up wiser.
@@pinkithecat9101 try therapy, it could help 🤍
1. How do they respond when something goes wrong? Should own their part.
3. Stonewalls or tries to take away from happiness or retaliate.
Emotionally immature men hurt women not only through their harsh actions and behaviors but words as well. Words either grow an individual or crush and stunt them. We need to build relationships by speaking LIFE over one another and behaving respectfully towards eachother.
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He intantly called me na es after I had cancelled PR postponed dates
He instantly called me names after I had cancelled or postponed dates
I would add a fourth to your list. A man who is emotionally immature will always try to get his way through coercion, bullying, manipulation, intimidation.
… And abandonment.
And don’t forget game’s they play.
Those were great examples!!! @oceangirl2661
I’ve seen all 3 but many more.
Unable to own up his mistakes.
Unable to say sorry. Unable to forgive others.
Revengeful.
Unable to handle conversations about conflicting views.
I almost married a man who sometimes wouldn’t talk to me for days… I was supposed to figure out why he was upset without him telling me what I did wrong 😠 what a baby. so glad I left an emotionally immature man. we would have not had a happy marriage
You did the right thing! Stonewalling is so painful
Did he happen to be a Scorpio?
Narcissistic behavior. My ex did this and he is a covert narcissist. Covert meaning covered or hidden. Also known as vulnerable narcissist. It’s definitely a trait of narcissism. You dodged a bullet.
I did marry & divorce one like that! He never did it during dating for 2 years, but once we were married his true colors came out. He’d stonewall for weeks at a time. Thankful to be away from that BS.
Lord
When you go to them with a concern or worry and they take it as an attack, they don’t create a safe space for you to express yourself
This is SO true! You feel guilty at the end of the day.
Yep I was dating a guy three months and it was exactly that. I immediately addressed poor communication. In two weeks everything spiraled quickly. Three separate times he got upset and would say this exact thing – “you don’t have to worry about me anymore!” Then storm out/hang up call. The first two times he’s calm down after 20 mins and apologize admitting he acted like a child. The third time it was right after I said “you’re being sarcastic to me right now as I’m trying to talk about poor communication.” He said “well someone has to bring humor to the situation!” Then he grabs all his stuff and storms out saying “you don’t have to worry about me anymore!” 48 hours later I get the long apology text about how he had self improvement to work on and sorry for his impulsiveness – that he acted out of character and now had to live with it. Yep, Buddy you sure do! Three strikes you’re out. I think he’s played this act out many times before dating me and someone tolerated that behavior from him. I don’t think he’ll be successful working on this alone without therapy.
This is what I’ve been dealing with but I’m about to throw in the towel
Yep, you try to talk to them about anything contentious and they flip the script on you and don’t give your feelings any consideration. They claim they didn’t do anything wrong and you’re just misconstruing the situation. I had a relationship with a man like this and ultimately just walked since I didn’t feel safe speaking my truth.
An emotional stable Guy will never yell. The best way is to notice how he treats other persons. The bartender, waitress… If he’s acting disrespectful or making other people feel less. Big red flag. He will speak his mind and if he does not agree, he will tell, but always in a calm respectful matter. Guys are wired totally different then women. If we are having a problem, we get in a solving mode and we need time for ourselves to fix the problem. Advice for women: Give him the space and time. Just say, if you want to talk about it, let me know and let him be. 100% sure, when he solved the problem, you (as his partner) will be the 1st he talks about. Moreover he will love you more for this.
When a man lies and tricks you in order to protect himself he is treating you like his mother. This is immature. When you call him out on his dishonesty, he invalidates you and tries to make you feel like you are the crazy one. This is like gas lighting. This is emotional immaturity turned to abuse.
Yes its called Narcissistic abuse . Narcissists can never make anyone happy…you or themselves. All others can do is RUN!
@@mandyg5747 I ran. I saw all these signs and broke up with him.
I’m still reeling from the pain of the split although he is the one who called it off for me to look back objectively but all my friends are telling me he is a narcissist
I hope to process the pain and begin healing asap
Big YES
Narcissism – run run like the gingerbread man!!!!!!!!!! Run for your life really !!!!
Last month I was walking along the ocean boulevard and it was very busy. I saw this guy see a kitten that was alone, stuck in the crosswalk. It was obviously stray and he stopped all the foot traffic, picked the scared kitten up, soothed it after seeing there wasn’t an owner anywhere, git on his phone to call a vet. Now, that’s a man
Yes!
Oh yes, those moments that restore the belief in the male sex for a second 💘💘💘
True 🙂♥️
I’ve met men very pleasant to animals. But in the other hand, it did not ooze over into his treatment of people. Don’t be fooled.
@@rrb2895 that is true sometimes 😉