5 Body Language Secrets To Create Attraction
Body language is powerful. If you keep striking out on first dates (or matches at speed dating), it may not be the words you're saying but what your body language is communicating that's holding you back.
Enter the room confidently.
If you wait by the sidelines it looks like you're seeking permission to join in. Walk right in, and right up to the person you want to speak to.
Use socially smart touch.
A well-timed touch to the arm or shoulder immediately signals “I expect us to get to know one another.” 🤝
Point it out.
Gesture towards where you want to go or if you see anything interesting. Leadership = always sexy.
Lean in/out.
Coming closer says: “I’m listening and approving”. Moving away says: “I’m evaluating.” Both are powerful.
Change your position.
Struggling to hear? Want to touch the person but reaching across the table is awkward? Then get up and move closer — or even drag your chair over. A simple “I'm going to sit there” is enough to explain your actions. Increase proximity = increase excitement.
Get working on those non-verbal communication skills and start banking better first impressions on your dates. ✨
