5 Questions Men Ask When They Fall in Love with You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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Today we're talking about what men ask themselves and the thoughts that run through his mind when he is falling in love with you, whether it happens really fast, or he is taking it a bit slow.
These surprising questions will help you discover the intensity of his feelings and the depth of the connection he has with you.
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The first question I ask is … How is he showing up for me? Is he proactive? Does he take the initiative to plan dates and activities? Is he consistent and punctual? Does he follow through on the above? How he shows up over time tells me A LOT about the kind of man he is and how he will treat me and our relationship. ❤
I have always thought the same thing, and been repeatedly disappointed. The things that make a skilled dater, however, are not the qualities that make a good husband. Users and narcissists are highly skilled at dating. I know nice men who I rejected for dating awkwardness, who are now good husbands. 🙄
For me — 1) First would be career, I would like an ambitious and driven partner 2) City, place 3) Lifestyle 4) Humorous, outgoing, travel-friendly 4) Caring 5) A family man who loves kids 6) Consistently loves me and I will love him even more
Some of the questions I asked myself to evaluate what I feel for a man before jumping into relationships are:
-Is he capable enough to handle me well emotionally and mentally whenever I wouldn’t be emotionally and mentally okay at times?
-Is he willing to adjust for me too knowing that I can adjust myself for him and meet him half way.
-Will he hold me still when we go through and down that will prove his love for me as I give all my strength to hold him even things are tough for me and through our ups and down…
For me, (maybe because I’m probably older than most viewers here and a recent widow)- it’s about what I can BE with him, rather than what I can have with him. I want to be that happy, flirtatious, positive, loving, sxually alluring woman. If he’s making me feel anxious or closed or unsure of myself, then it’s a no-go.
1. Am I what he needs in his life?
2. Is he what I need in my life?
3. Can I tell him anything/ everything?
4. How does he treat/ talk to others?
5. Does he have any bad/ toxic behaviors?
6. How does he make me feel when we are alone vs. in public?
7. Family, ethical, political and relationship views?
Your explanations were very easy to understand and relate to!
If he’s worth it ladies, try treating him like he’s worth it, and let him know you genuinely appreciate his efforts! Don’t fake it. Some men tend to treat you exactly how they feel about u!
Mat, this is so very true. After 19 years I have finally met the man I want to spend my life with and we are getting engaged. I have listened to your videos and downloaded your free edocs and you are spot on. Thank you! 🥰
The questions I ask myself in relationship is
1) does he have empathy
2) can he express love through actions and in words
3) can he express feelings
4) how does he behave when I oppose his decision, his plans
5) how does he react when I say no
6) can he respect me and my decisions even when he disagree with me or is he forceful
7) what kinda wife he is looking for independent wife or house wife
8) where he stands in faith ,what he believes in
9) how many things we have in common
10) does he have stable income job ,if not ,is he ambitious and hardworking to get build his career.
11) fashion sense
12) does he understand humor
13) who r his close friends and how they behave
14) how he treats others who r younger than him or have low status than him
15) is he humble
16) does he have integrity
17) does he keep his words and promises
18) does he value other people’s time
19) What was this childhood like and what kind of upbringing he has
20) how does his father treat his mother
21) is his mother happy with his father
22) how many friends,relatives, family members he care for
23) what is his priority pyramid look like after marriage
24) he like to live in nuclear family or joint family after marriage
25) In this culture how they treat females ,wives,daughters,sisters ,mother
List goes on and on.
It is vigorous testing I do before I decide I want to marry xyz guy .
Ok, a lot of it is good!
I do wonder if it’s too much? who can measure up….
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Honesty, Vices etc
For me, it is very important how a person presents themselves to the world, not just me. I will ask myself “Does he have good relationship with people in his life?”. I know a person can’t get along with everyone, but if someone has good relationship (for the most part) with family, friends, and coworkers, it’s usually a sign they are a decent person and a green flag for me
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1. Am I falling for him or the idea of the potential I am convinced I’m seeing?
2. Do I trust him? / Can I trust myself to be 100% authentic around him 100% of the time?
3. Do we have the same values/ vision of our future?
4. Am I put at ease with his presence or absence?
5. Would I want my future son to be like him/ my future daughter to marry someone like him?
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The main thing I ask myself is do I feel safe with this man? Not just physically but emotionally. Like if we fight, is he gonna run at the first sign or trouble or is he going to wrok it out? Do i feel like I don’t have to worry about other women or him lying to me? Security is big for me. If someone can make me feel safe, its huge. Cuz if not, i can go right back to being on my own.
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I love it when I feel feminine around my man- it means that he is naturally protective and loving and masculine.
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The top questions I ask myself when considering a love partner are: (1) Can I trust him to be there for me no matter what? (2) Is he willing and able to provide for me? (3) Does he make me feel safe? and (4) Am I happy when I am with him?
I love this
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Does he REALLY like me?
Those are very strong questions. Kudos
@@madOHnna That ALL Highvaluewoman should ask.
I ask myself:
– Do we seem in sync with each other
– How do I feel about him
– Is he actually worthy of my ❤
– Does he some of the qualities I want in a man ( Communication, Trust)etc.
– Do I feel he’s the one 4 me
Just about the same questions.
Thanks alot..!!
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The lady who’s man says he loves her within two months and she is still figuring him out is most likely being love bombed. You two should be on the same page. A narc that I was dating claimed he was “in love with me” after 3 weeks. I said,”how can you love someone you don’t know?” Narc alert!
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Yep! Just had 2 ‘Narci’ weeks with one. Wow. Love Bomb all the way #stilllearning
Some people date for years or are even married for years and then decide they’re not in love 🤷🏽♀️
I found my life partner and I an see how he processed through those things quickly. We fell in love fast but it was because it was a definite energetic connection. A few things we dealt with was our past is our past. We both used to be different people and have both done a lot of personal growth. We are continuing on a personal growth journey together now. Also a big one for me is that he must be smart & intuitive. I am now with an alpha male but have dated so many beta males. I am an alpha female and the beta males just weren’t a good match for me. I need someone that is as strong as me and then some. I need a man that I can look up to and respect meaning he needs to be my equal or more. I love my boyfriend and he helps me to be a better person and continues to encourage me. Also the openess that we have is amazing. There isn’t anything I can’t share with him. I can cry in front of him and be vulnerable when I am processing and releasing negative emotions and energy. So vulnerability is key for me too. Thanks for this video. Even though I found my life partner in part because of your videos I continue to watch them to keep my relationship growing. Thank you!!
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Oh wow bless you so much. This is beautiful.
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1. How do I feel about her?
2. How do I felt about myself when I’m around her?
3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life?
4. Do I have what it takes to make her happy?
5. Can I see myself with her long-term?
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1. How do I feel about him?
2. How do I feel about myself when I’m around him?
3. Is this what I want at this stage of my life? Or am I making excuses for his bad behavior?
4. Do I have what it takes to make him happy?
5. Can I see myself with him long-term?
All good questions that will eliminate narcissists.
6. Does he respect me as a whole person apart from his needs or care about my own dreams and wishes?
7. Does he put me first the same way I put him first?
8. Does his word have integrity? Does he follow through on the promises he makes? Does he always tell the truth?
9. Does he like himself? Is he truly confident? Does he take care of himself or expect me to? How is his hygiene?
10. Does he have positive feelings about his mother and father? Was he raised gently with love? Did they model loving behavior towards each other daily?
11. Does he communicate in a direct, kind, emotionally intelligent way?
12. What are his coping behaviors and to what extent can I live with the damage they can cause – drinking, pot, workaholism, addiction to gaming, phone, social attention, porn, drugs, etc. Am I really thinking that I can “help him change?” lol
13. Does he enhance my life or make it more stressful?
14. Does he keep good friendships, family relationships and with his community?
15. Is he on medication for depression, bipolarism or for other mood disorders? How is he managing that?
16. Is his relationship to managing his finances healthy?
So many more questions…
17. Is he kind to children and animals and people of lower financial or social status?
18. if he has had a bad day does he take it out on his loved ones, or does he actively try to see things in a positive light?
19. Did he vote for Trump or does he belong to a white supremacist group or does he blame his misfortunes on immigrants? Has he ever used the phrase “pull yourself up by your own bootstraps”?
20. How is his anger management? Is he patient, or is he easily frustrated?
21. Are our libido levels compatible?
22. Are our basic values about what makes life worth living and what are our life-fulfilling goals and are those things compatible?
23. Do we each think the other is sexy on a basic level? Do I feel “wanted” and highly valued? Is there enough there once desire wanes? Is there passion on any level whatsoever?
24. Are our spiritual, political and emotional values even compatible?
The fact that I could go on and on and on with this list, knowing that each element is important to me tells me that I might best be alone until certain patterns I have in myself that attract the wrong person every time start to change. In the meantime, I’m not such bad company to spend time with myself for a while 😌
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My questions I ask myself, is he respectful of my wishes, does he listen, how do I feel about myself around him, does he make me want to be a better version of myself, do I feel at home with him
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Why would any woman be asking herself anything? Seriously and with no disrespect intended but if a woman is thinking things like this when in a relationship with a man then I feel that the answers are right there for her to see……I genuinely can’t see a reason to even have questions.
Whenever a High Value Woman is in a relationship she should need nothing from a man that she cannot already provide for herself or do for herself, however……as much as I can and do provide (more than adequately), I have an expectation that my man will be an amazing cook, be extremely thoughtful enough to cook a meal every evening and weekend when not booking a table or cleaning up and doing all the laundry.
I’ve only ever had serious relationships and while I know my worth, my ex’s have also felt a deep desire to show me theirs which included not only doing all house work, providing all meals inc breakfast in bed, asking if I would like him to scrub my back or offer to wash my hair for me but also asking if I mind if they can have a cpl of friends over to entertain on whatever the console of choice is but also ask if it’s ok to have a few beers. If you expect certain things you will receive….such as expensive jewellery watches, clothing etc So I do not understand why you would even consider having questions for yourself about a man. I would focus more on the expectation of those things and if they weren’t being displayed constantly and very clearly then I would either outline my own worth and what he could expect from me and was getting from me, just to give him that chance, and then I’d wait for everything to fall perfectly in place. In all honesty I’ve always had Men run around after me and do things for me…..so if anything, I would have a list of expectations, as in what I would naturally expect from him, I most certainly would never even consider having questions for myself! As a High Value Woman you should know your worth, you should also if writing a list about what you expected from a relationship….have a few things, while opposite that list of what you would expect from a Man you should have a very long and constantly evolving list of the things you would NOT expect!