5 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman IRL (+ 12 Opening Lines you Can Steal)

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• Thanks Hayley for this very useful and practical video. I´m good in situations with social context but feel less natural when going in cold. Let me practice what I would tell you in case I see you around, as you tick quite some of the boxes of my type of girl =]
  I like how genuine and natural you come across, it is clear you have worked in yourself and feel good in your skin. While confident, you keep some spontaneous and cute facial gestures and expressions that seem to be very you, I like that.

  In a date and when there is more familiarity, I would maybe tell you something a step more flirty, like I like that you do not need to wear excessive make up for your natural beauty to shine, and that, from what I have seen, you seem to have just the right amount of flesh in the right places. But we are not in a date, so let's keep it politically correct here in YT ;)

  • Thank you! I’d skip on the physical compliments: the personality driven compliments do just a good job of conveying intention & feel much more personal to receive

• I was expecting something better from a dating coach

  • Would you like to share an opening line you like?

  • @@HayleyQuinn i don't use scripted openers rather observational or situational ones

  • Sorry bro. No magic pill. Especially for you

  • @@Alex-gb7sm OK bro, I hope one day you get laid

• Thanks for that Hayley! Here they are:
  1. Just say "Hi"
  2. Pay her a physical compliment (keep it generic, shift attention to what she's doing)
  3. Ask a question
  4. Use observations (physical space, use "I like how...", about something she's doing, compliment on style)
  5. Personality compliments

  • Well summarised thank you!

• Just because it's the way reality works doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it, but it has always angry and pissed me off that it's like guys or men have to know or learn all of these certain skills or behaviors or social behaviors, because touching them the correct way and talking to them the right way takes a lot of trial-and-error and messing up and screwing up and that can easily result in a lot of interactions gone horribly wrong or horribly bad.

  The touching part is obviously something that needs to be done carefully because if a guy does it wrong, he can easily be accused of sexual harassment or sexual assault, but at the same time if a guy doesn't do that, he risks getting himself thrown in the friendzone

• You are amazing. I'm definitely recommending your classes to my friends.