7 CONFUSING Things Men Say & What They ACTUALLY Mean

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• Oh, that too independent hit a bit too close to home. I realised recently that my walls are always up, because letting someone in, asking for help, receiving feels unsafe. It's definitely something I'll be working on. Thank you for sharing ❤

• Thanks for translating Stephan!😊 Confusion is for the birds...I thrive on clarity! My take-aways: 1-Ladies keep your panties on. That way if men want to go with the flow, play the field or whatever reason they come up with you can be just as unbothered. Also less hurt, disappointment and heartbreak. 2-Take nothing personally. There are millions of men in the world.

• I fully understand and I always appreciate your wonderful advice Stephan..👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💚💚💚🙏🏽🙌🏾

• It’s so funny how men like being like that but soon as he finds the female he really wants and then she treats him the way he treated all the other females.

• Thanks for all the truths even though we may have a hard time excepting it. I have learned to move on quickly and not take it too personally. As you say, men have a different way of thinking than women.❤❤❤❤❤

• I just think that women need to create their own timelines when getting involved with men. He doesn't need to know your timeline. Once you have reached that timeline, be prepared to walk away.

• 6:43 nah f*** that s*** 😂 lol

  • lol 😂

• I’m actually comfortable with the “go with the flow” approach. We are literally getting to know each other so it’s ok very early on. I also appreciate men not making any promises they know they can’t keep. However, after dating for a while, and I know that I’m starting to feel attached, then I will simply revisit the conversation with him and if he’s still on the fence, then I will end it. I think it’s pretty simple.

  • @ I’ve had two serious relationships flourish from “go with the flow” situations so that hasn’t been my experience. In my experience, when men didn’t want a relationship, they just told me they didn’t want a relationship or wasn’t looking for anything serious.

  • The problem is that most men that say they just want go with the flow are lying when they say that. They know from the beginning that they don’t want a relationship. No matter what you do, he’s not going to commit to a relationship so don’t even waste your time.

  • I only go with the flow if they don't sleep with me if they do then either I have to leave them or they have to leave me it'll never workout tbh I was never attatched I just don't like being lied to used and sleeping with someone that I'm not in a relationship with sleeping with someone that doesn't love me I'll block them or make sure they block me

• Thankfully somewhat that there are men who can openly say how they
  feel and not just expect women to be superwoman reading their minds 😂

• Coach Steph theese statements were POWERFULL
  " to help you all its gonna hurt a lil bit " and " can,t just put two people
  together and make it work " thanks a million , powerfull statements
  deserves several powerplays , God bless you