Brazilian Girl on Dating Swedish Men

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• Perhaps there is a reason

• She doesn't know that feminism in Sweden has created this scenario where taking initiative is labeled as harassment so Swedish men play it safe and intentionally avoid interactions.

  • Same in Spain.. so sad

  • Men in Sweden are not going to do that. She is used to that in her culture. But you can express that with him and he can do that with you specifically. But a lot of Swedish men are not going to do it based on their culture.

  • @@andreqgeleva4459 que caray

  • @@michelleg7 But that begs the question: What's the origin for that behavior in Swedish culture?

  • harassment-in LEGAL law or just is by some or many consider not polite?? This is very important difference

• She needs to go somewhere else then. Maybe Turkey or Italy. 😂

  • @@greenytaddict I don't think those are the safest places anymore 😂

  • Italy has become a feminist shithole too, you have no idea of the crap I read online from Italian women. Listen to me and stay away from the big cities, crime is also a major inconvenience.

  • Come to Greece :))

  • You need to grow some chest hairs.

  • ​​@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726They have never been the best places to find good respectful, faithful, husbands 😆

• They're afraid of being called harassers

  • Bull crap.

  • @@ruthnoronha8206 Oh?

  • This is an incel excuse to justify his insecurity in approaching a woman.😅

• I like this Brazilian girl she have confidence

  • No she doesn't.
    If she had she would approach guys herself.
    She is afraid of being rejected.

  • You have money?

  • ​@@anotherone769 it's a cultural thing. Brazil has this culture of courting, where the guy approaches first always. Of course, feminism takes a part of everything, however is not in every country that girls want to and are confortable to take the lead. In Sweden, they are more hold back by the fear of being called harassers, that plus the fact that they are naturally shy and "calm", more laid back, yk :)
    Cultures are different around the world, it's really awesome when people overcome their differences for love. ❤️

  • ​@@annesaldanha3142I haven't been to Brasil 🇧🇷 yet but can confirm the same happens in Argentina 🇦🇷.
    Men approach women and not the other way around.

  • @@annesaldanha3142 That's not always true, brazilian girls approach me a lot. And they are fast, no courting.

• Maybe is there in Sweden,like in other Western countries, the fact that men don’t want to get involved in this circus anymore: do all the efforts, inviting, spending money and time.. Just to be the number 1256, or even get a divorce at the end and loose all their assets as well as their mental health.

  • That’s a chance you take it applies to any place in the world. Men are a bunch of lazy cowards.

  • I agree with you. Its absolutely ridiculous !! Men taking care of their women made sense in those times when women couldnt work, were nothing more then a good and hardly had any rights in general. But now? Its 2025 for Gods sake!! 😂
    Why do women expect men to come up to them, talk and flirt, prepare dates, spend money and take care of them, when they CLEARLY would never ever do the same for them! Grow up.... If a man wants to do all those things for you because he simply loves doing that, then great, but dont expect those things from anybody, we are all equal. Men deserve some effort too, they deserve nice compliments and to be treated, they deserve just as much attention.

    Like, when a man stares at you and doesn't come up to you its an issue, right? But when YOU have interest, you only smile and sit still, while he instantly has to come up to you and court you and treat you like some kind of superior being? Whatever people think, but I really dont believe this to be a right thing to do.
    I believe that in an equal society and any relationship, both parts have to invest in each other and do something. Both parts have to be willing to do the same and not expect more then you are willing to give. Otherwise both will never see eye to eye.

    Also....I wonder if there is a direct or indirect correlation between countries where the typical role play of man and woman prevails, and between violence against women? I have no numbers to be honest, but I feel like in those countries domestic and sexual violence against women is so so much higher.
    As said, I dont have any numbers and statistics, but it wouldnt surprise me.

• She's in Sweden! She needs to adapt to THEIR culture, not the other way around.

  • Yah that’s the problem. 😜

  • As brazilian living in Europe for 14 years, I can confidently say: young brazilian women like this one here are delusional spoiled daddy's princesses and they need to spend some time with european men in order to get a reality check. It's the best enlightening, maturing experience to become realistic down-to-earth women

  • 100%

  • She was asked a question and answered it honestly.

• I remember reading that in Sweden it's more common for women to approach men than vice versa. I don't know if that's true, but I think that's a better system.

  That would mean women who want to be left alone would usually be left alone, and women who are interested in someone can start the interaction.

  • I've seen videos and read articles about that, it'd be nice if a Swede can confirm that haha.
    If it does happen then, as an introvert myself, I'd be in heaven 😂

  • @@dernachtsteher5741 haha same!

  • I agree 100 %

  • American man who used to be married to a Swede, here. Swedish women only approach first, in-person, when they have had enough to drink. They may approach first on dating apps, though. Swedes are socially awkward and just can't bring themselves to be forward and say what they want.

• I mean you can’t expect them to adopt Brazilian dating attitudes in a country that is not Brazil. I get it might be frustrating but that is just the culture.

  • I am Brazillian and I agree with you.

  • true she is just gonna get the pickup artists

  • This is not about "Brazilian dating attitudes", this is about male dating attitudes. This is human nature, the masculine leads, takes the first step and makes things happen. the masculine is active, he is the one who pursues. the feminine is passive, she attracts and the man takes action. It has always been like this throughout the history of humanity, however in the modern world society has adopted the woke mentality and decided that men should behave like women, and vice versa... The result is what we see today, the majority of young European men are incels who are afraid of doing the most basic and instinctive thing in life: approaching a woman... This is a cultural decadence that is happening in much of the Western world.

  • That's true, but she was asked what she thought of Swedish men and answered honestly.

• Maybe she should learn from Swedish women how to promote interest in a guy. I sense that Swedish women take more initiative and approach the guys.

  • Brazilians are the ultimate hypocrites…