4

Choose… Don’t Chase Them

You’ve got to let someone know why you like them.🤔

Whether you’re on an app or in a bar, if you ask them out without knowing anything about them, they’re almost certainly going to say no.

People need to feel like they’ve earned your interest.

If you’re just interested, it signals low standards. (They may even assume you say the same to everyone.)

So before you make your move, tell them why 💬

Explain that you like their humour, their candour, how they make you feel.

Then shoot for the date.

Say, “I like how you are ____. How about we ____?”

This presents you as someone who chooses—not someone who chases!