Doing THESE 3 Things With Men Will Not WORK Out Well For You

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• I was just discussing this, get a man who loves you more, with a lady who was advising us on what her mom told her, i told her that is just toxic advice. Doesn't matter if her mama told her or of she believes it or not....and it's because i heard it from you!

• Thank you so much I have heard ‘man should love you more’ so often this advice really confused me because if I followed it I would be settling! I want a partnership where we love each other equally!

• I agree with everything you said, but I’m just sort of grossed out by dating now. I’m a woman, not a commodity and the world increasingly makes us feel that way. I’m just too vulnerable to be cheated on again by a person that doesn’t see a woman’s value in ten years. It seems like this world’s current view is to just have no shame or responsibility and instead just impulsively go for things that make them feel good in the moment. You’re a really good man, it seems like, but I just think that’s rare and I don’t want to invest my energy into something that drains it.

• Stephan is right about the advice he is sharing. Over a year ago, I broke up with a toxic guy who kept trying to come back into my life even though I didn't want an unhealthy relationship him. Unfortunately, I had to get a restraining order against him, so that he would leave me alone. That was one of the best decisions I made in my life! I have peace and happiness. I know God will help me to position myself to meet the right guy.

• another word for finding someone whom loves you more is settling!

  • Yep, because it's not right either way.

• I will use this as my mantra LONGEVITY is not SUCCESS
  Thank you man of excellence aka coach Stephan

• Thanks yet again my coach Stephan. I've actually received this advice from my friends n I'm still single until I listened to you and things have changed. I always appreciate your unbiased advice!

• This is 100% true and happened in my life almost word to word

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• Wow! My mom taught me that as a very young girl. All my past relationships failed in the end, although I’m kind, reliable, dependable, thoughtful to them I’m like that with everyone. My past relationships said I didn’t make them feel needed and I give them the affection they needed. I didn’t know how to be a woman and let them lead. Fast forward now disabled, alone working on me so I’ll be ready for a mate when the most high sends him to me. I wish I knew these things earlier in life now 49 will be 50 in January. Life lessons.

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• Yay. Last but not least. I met the love of my life online. We're both blown away. So are our friends. We've been together for nearly a year and I can't imagine anyone being better for me. ❤️

  • I'm happy to hear that 🙏