Dutch Women Wish Men Did THIS 
I asked Dutch women on the streets of Amsterdam what they wish Dutch men did more of. Here is what they had to say.
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if you dont go for it within the first 5 seconds of you thinking about it, the chances of you doing it are 50% slimmer per statistics. what im trying to get at: do it without thinking or else you think yourself out of it
I already like dutch men
letβs be the choosers not the beggers 
You mightβve said the proper amount of seconds. I usually mock comments like yours BUT i think you re right.
β@@FrivalsHuh?
good advice
Men simply donβt want to be accused of harassment.
I already like dutch men
letβs be the choosers not the beggers 
Thatβs not true
Most men donβt think like that when they are approaching women
Stop with this mgtow mentality
Exactly, Thank you!! Also women pick who are creeps or not based on wether they think your attractive. A man they like can pretty much use any opening line he wants whereas another will be spending night in a jail cell
Men took the power and now they can reject
in this 30-second clip, They show exactly why men donβt approach them.
I already like dutch men
letβs be the choosers not the beggers 
Thatβs not true and very sexist
@@jonjonboi3701 Just listen to what they are saying at the end. They seem confused.
@@jonjonboi3701 Sexist in what way?? If men donβt want to approach women, itβs their right and their choice! That woman said βmen are afraidββ¦. Afraid???! I just donβt want the hassle to dodge their minefield of behavioral checklist! You heard it βapproach but donβt make a big deal of itββ¦. Already is giving the limitations and constrains of approach, so I have to do ALLLLLLLLlllllll the work and still be worried about what I can do/say and what I cannot do/say. Why donβt they do that work huh??? If they want things their way, then they should do it THEMSELVES. They always preaching equality and alllll that stuffβ¦ How about they start to do equal stuff too??? Afterall Iβm the βsexistβ one and not them right? Righttttttttt
@@Trip4mannoone said its gonna be a walk in the park! If you know all of these βtruthsβ and just give up itβs just a loser mentality. Have some fucking fun with it and capitalise on all the bitter weak men that are out of the game instead!
Says go for it I donβt feel rejectionβ¦. then tells you youβre going to get rejected
Men literally need to have the mindset that thereβs a 50% chance of REJECTION when approaching a woman. Like, just cuz you take INITIATIVE DOESNT GUARANTEE SUCCESS EVERYTIME.
β@@erzascarlet5078so there is a 50% chance of me wasting my time and possibly getting rediculed for no reason but still have to do it ? Nah i like this dutch thing of women approaching the men , men donβt reject women as much women reject men
@@magnusallmighty5000 gl with that. Cuz unless and until youβre in them countries where women approach first, youβre more likely than not bound to die singleβ¦.. But then again, the same can still hold true for countries where the roles are reversed (ie places like the Dutch, Sweden etc), as women will only tend to approach a select fewβ¦.. So regardless GL, cuz a) either way it clearly wonβt help your cause, and b) something tells me youβll need it.
@erzascarlet5078 you donβt need to be condescending bro itβs just women not a pot of gold , it already happens to me but to be fair I wouldnβt classify them as desirable for me , my approach is to just stick to the women in your friend or work circle , they almost always have an interest in you
@@magnusallmighty5000 itβs not condescending when itβs the TRUTH! LOL, yeah Iβm sure βwomenβ approach you all the time (hence why youβre here trynna prove yourself to strangers on the net).
Must be nice to live in a society where women do some of the approaching.
Dutch women might, but American women still want to work the double standard.
β@@harvey1954what

β@@harvey1954if you think USA women are hardβ¦
yes, please continue
@@giwrgospetrou1159
soy boy xD
Still not worth the trouble lol
Sheβs not getting it
we men arenβt afraid of approaching modern women. We just donβt see the benefit anymore of doing so 
I already like dutch men
letβs be the choosers not the beggers 
Thatβs not true and just sexist
Are you American? Because those men have way more issues than men in other countries.
Theyβre talking about Dutch men, not American men.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing
Thatβs true. The feminism ruined the world
Alright, learn talking to woman without giving her the feeling of an approach. If you are the type, sheβll be interested, otherwise you go your way without being rejected. Thing is that people work to much, have less free time and are aware of own privacy. They donβt want anyone interupt own quality time. On the other hand, being in relation sucks your time, money and mental health which modern men donβt give away that easy. Myself i married since 25 years, having three kids and if i ask myself today, was it worth ? With the right oneβ¦ Yes!
Why the hell men should learn? Women should learn how to approach men
β@@indiworldentertainmentdonβt try to argue with a feminist
Lol! They seem funny, Iβd totally hang out with these ladies and girl talk
Funny if you like narcisstic bores.
SAME!
Itβs true, Iβm Dutch and I would never approach strangers in public. I donβt want to bother them.
Exactly.
I agree with you and Im Romanian. Also I would add that the bar is not a good place to find a good woman.
I am dutch and i do approach women. Tyere is a good and a bad way of doing it. Most dutch girls like it if you do approach
@@pietzaken2220 Ik weet het niet man, Ik wil mensen gewoon niet lastig vallen.
@@K55365 dat is logisch, want het is ook eng in het begin. Besef wel dat vrouwen benaderen willen worden op de juiste manier
Yep they want first right of refusal.
Iβd definitely approach you, Dutch woman are awesomeβ¦
After this video, I understand Dutch men.
Well, I know many guys that are not Dutch, but they live in Netherlands, some of them are Greeks, some of them are Serbs, Croatsβ¦and all I can say isβ¦how in the world you think that someone wants approach to some girl that constantly looks angry or mad or etcβ¦.I meanβ¦come onβ¦
Exactly
Itβs not ego ladies!!! Itβs a sense of not wanting to deal with nonsense or abuse. Too many women are down right abusive nowadays.
Abusive how? Could you give some examples?
Feminist like Dutch women
@@N3ditaInsulting, shouting, violence, basically the same thing you accuse men off.
So this basically just means that Dutch men are well educated and they donβt want to disturb emancipated women sitting with their friends
feels good
Maybe the men understand the assignment, and these ladies are giving the wrong signals.
Women: βMen never approach us, I think itβs egoβ
Also women: βJust donβt go for it too muchβ
yea, I think Iβll just avoid these two completely
βJust go for itβ, says someone who has never been rejected, ever