EXCLUSIVE PART ONE: “Sorry, Mrs. Jackson” | Da’Naia Jackson Breaks Her Silence
What if your worst day was televised? What if your lowest point was plastered all over social media for strangers to judge your sanity? Would they assume you were crazy? Da'Naia Jackson is no stranger to online persecution. She's breaking her silence and giving a voice to the voiceless. This interview was so heartbreaking we couldn't help but name it, "Sorry, Mrs. Jackson."
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Her husband is the best relationship coach because he was telling people about avoiding people like him. A serial killer can catch a serial killer
Exactly! In his videos, he was describing himself.
Exactly. I hope she remarried someone that is a million times better than him.
So well said 💯
Listennnnn
FACTS!!!
Situations like Da’Naia’s are why being single isn’t an insult and being married isn’t always a flex. Just because someone is married doesn’t mean they’re in a GOOD marriage! They’re plenty of wives out here being lied to, cheated on, disrespected, embarrassed and generally mistreated. I hope black women learn to love themselves enough to stay single until they find healthy, loving relationships.
THIS! some people’s grandmas had marriages like this throughout their youth, which is why i don’t think the number of your years of marriage means very much. it’s the quality, not quantity. i have an aunt who testified about her mother sticking with her abusive dad through years of abuse and cheating as if it was a triumph.
Or just enjoy having fun, recognizing that is what it is… having fun… don’t try & turn your f*ck buddy into your husband. Let people play the roles you invited them to play & keep it pushing. No muss no fuss. Not every guy we engage intimately with is husband or father material
Being married is a flex, so is being good picking a man. But most black women can’t pick a man because their fathers weren’t around because their mother’s were horrible pickers
@TabooTableTalk Podcast what’s the FLEX 💪🏽? Tell us please 🙏🏽
So true.
Look at her. Hair. Makeup. Shadow work. Healing. Self worth. I’m proud of her.
Amen 🙏🏽
Me too JESUS is Lord. He is a healer and deliverer for real!
She is barely recognisable! Not just the looks, but her whole state of mind has completely changed! THE SPELL IS BROKEN! OUR GIRL IS FREE!!
Yes! Her energy is so much lighter!
@Taylor’s Past & Present iiiooik😊
She’s cute. She’s witty. She’s likable.
She’s gonna be just fine.
@Xanadue Da Spirit…Divorced, kids, 3 abortions, willing participant in a sexual rotation….that’s debatable🤔
@BE she’ll be just fine people have done worse and have found God and Grace and move on. Some people don’t believe in God though.
I felt the same.. She is super cute!!
Agreed!! She’s very pretty, well spoken, & saved by the blood of Jesus!!
She’s a well spoken woman and absolutely gorgeous!!! I hope she builds a platform for herself and really enjoys her new found freedom from that narcissistic man.
This is one of the best comments I’ve seen.
@jolietamichal AGREED
YES!!!
AMEN
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I hope she is writing a book cause my goodness!!! Look at God, look at healing look at all that work! Her soul is just oozing joy!!! I am super super happy for her. ❤
Look at God how??? She wanted to marry him even though she knew how he was. She was playing mind games to get him. Like most women do.
@CreativePower. Did you even listen to this interview?
😊
@CreativePower.Why you taking this stuff personally?
She is a survivor of narcissistic abuse. She is going to be ok as long as she never deals with him again. So many of us have the same story but the best part is getting out.❤ to anyone going through this, I’m praying for you. You will break free!!!
Amen!! Took me 7 years but I’m finally free!!! This was one of the hardest battles I’ve ever had to deal with!! I lost my 1st spouse to cancer 10 years ago and I jabe destroyed divorcing an extremely unwell narcissitic person was harder than burying my 1st love to cancer…. and that was no walk in the park itself. I now know what it’s like and when people say “why didn’t she just leave…” they truly don’t understand the toll of narcissitic and mental abuse… manipulation and gaslighting can make you feel like you’re going crazy … So thankful she got away safely ❤ 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen
Amen. 🙏🏾
No, she’s not. She knew exactly how Derreck was before she got married, even in college, and she continued to pursue him and still wanted him. Ladies, stop playing victim…suck it up!!
I need her to write a book and I need Lifetime to make a movie about their relationship! This girl deserves to profit off this trauma in EVERY way.
Glamourising the BS helps fuel others.
Just don’t let Tyler Perry get his hands on it. . .
Yep, I totally agree. Squeeze this trauma for all the money it’s worth.
@LB Brown But this the type of stuff that goes on with TP movies and then yall try to pretend these type of women and relationships don’t exist
With you on that one
She defaults to silence. That’s her natural response to trauma. In that space she can protect herself and plan next steps. Think about how many times she has kept things, cried in the closet, snooped and watched quietly. She has a rich and deep internal space that she creates to protect herself. 😢 Her silence 🤫 made her even more easy to target, abuse and torture. He was cruel.
This!!! Omg! I can definitely identify with what you’ve described as the “default to silence” mechanism used to protect oneself.
I respect her because this podcast means she recognized that her silence emboldened her and no longer served her purpose. There aren’t many places he can hide. More importantly, she will be more at peace with herself when she chooses to go within.
I am not a quiet person.
I have to talk things out. But, I do shut down when I am ashamed of myself. I lose my words. I cling to stillness as my thoughts race. My ex husband benefited from my shame. So, for me – it’s about creating safe spaces and having people I trust around me to preserve my energy and allow me to restore myself and find my words, practice my voice. Trauma is such a thief. It goes for broke. It steals everything you allow. So, I’m constantly addressing it and protecting it from stealing my confidence and joy, which is hard to get back. It’s been 5 years and I have times when I’m triggered by the oddest things, situations and people. I’m set to write a book about my life at that time, I’ve procrastinated on writing because I am forced to relive that dark part of my past.
Today – I will find the words and shame the devil.
Wow I’ve never heard it described like this. This is exactly what I do! Default to silence. Woww.
I drafted my first chapter. Hardest thing I’ve done all year. I procrastinated for six months to write 12 pages.
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This pinned post should have been the first comment… not just posted 7 minutes ago
Derrick running out of alimony 🤣
Currently out of the country, I’ll when I get back to the USA.
Deff showing her love, I hope she makes a lot of content in the future on YT and TikTok. She earned a fan off this.
@Incognito I was definitely wondering if she was going to get paid for this interview that is his highest viewed and part two has almost 300,000 in 1 day. Hope she has a publicist
She is the example of the saying, “never judge a book by its cover”. I had so many negative ideas about who she was but seeing this completely changed my mind! Her husband never deserved her and I’m glad she’s free to live her life as her true self. Doing this interview was a good look for her!!👍🏾👍🏾
Someone folks won’t get a platform or the opportunity to share their story. Learn from this, never judge what you don’t fully know!
@MissAki1 😂😂😂😂
I saw her as wounded and exploited and used by a demon seed. She was with a predator. He sniffed her out and knew he could bend her tear her and control her because she was vulnerable when he met her. He was like yessssss, perfect victim!
Raise your hand if you for real love her? ✋🏾Keep healing sis because healthy looks good on you!
@Jendayi exactly 💯
I knew this was worth watching from the first 30 seconds of the podcast. When DJ stated she met him 3 weeks after being raped…my heart dropped. The fact that she can now be on the other side of it all…priceless. The universe is ALWAYS working in our favor. It’s up to us to have the courage to face and acknowledge those parts of ourselves that have been broken. Our lives will always reflect what we refuse to heal.
Ok that’s maybe explains why she made the mistake of marrying him
Her testimony is nothing but the Lord working through her 🤎🤎🙏🏽
The fact that he didn’t give her aids or hiv is a miracle
Or any other incurable STI 🤷
I kept saying that throughout the entire interview
THAT, we don’t know.
that usually happens to wives of down low men JUST BEING HONEST. this man was cheating with all chicks (as far as ive heard).
When people called her crazy, I said she is a victim of narcissistic abuse. I knew because survivors have ‘a look’. Look at God! God heals!
This part!! That’s why it’s SOOOOOO important to speak up and out about Narc abuse and narcissism bc we really don’t realize what we’ve been dealing with especially if you’re an Empath
I think she enjoyed the drama. He showed her who he was multiple times and she accepted it I’m sorry
@faith reader so he cheats on her and emotionally abuses her and yet you still blame her?
Her story is an eye opener and would make a good lifestime movie…All you single women, please do not envy anyone’s marriage or relationship because you truly never know what is going on.
I say this all the time 🙏🏾
exactly I say this all the time, we don’t know what happens behind closed doors
I was so comfortable on the yellow couch with Laterras that I was able to crack these jokes and unpack the trauma. I was delighted that he caught all my dry humor and could 😂😂😂 with me about some hard life lessons
I don’t know what everyone else was watching, but I totally understand why you both were giggling. You are hilarious and congrats on your healing!
You’ve healed and it shows
You did great! I would of done the exact same thing! Humor helps us deal with the pain!!!! Your whole story resonates with me!! Your healing looks good sis!!!!!
What a powerful light you are. Laughter is the best medicine.🎉
Sharing your story took courage. Happy to see you healing 💯🔥‼️.
When she said “I got 3 therapists” I stood up. Respect. Fix you. So many women don’t have boundaries. She’s not alone. It’s possible to find a real one. Smh.
She is stunning and able to so beautifully articulate herself and her story. I wish her so much healing and happiness in this next phase of life. She deserves it. It’s definitely her time.
She is, indeed, very beautiful. Her features are incredible.
Morale of the story: No matter how handsome a man is, never compromise you self-respect. Never chase a man. Never move to a different state to follow a man. Never tolerate disrespect and cheating, especially before getting married. Have sexual and emotional discipline. Heal before seeking a new relationship. No matter how painful it is to walk away, do it! The probabilities of turning a cheater into a good husband are extremely low don’t think you can change a man.
Very true and very wonderful statement! And he’s not even all that good-looking LOL… I’m not sure why black women were so caught up in him
So glad she did this interview. Seeing her charm, intelligence, how she tells her story completely changed my mind about her. I wish her well on her healing journey
I’m curious… What’s were your previous thoughts about her?
I don’t understand why y’all thought badly of her in the beginning. Are people really this blind to believe a guy just because he has dangly parts, can articulate, and is good-looking? I don’t get it. She always seemed broken and like a little sister that needed help from the evil predator.
@HandsofGlory1 girl, I’m asking the same thing LOL… So many sisters are so quick to blame and judge other women. It was apparent that this girl was suffering, yet people still blamed her. It’s disgusting.
@serious I only gave her the side eye after she sat down with him on live to discuss his cheating. Then after that the helmet of salvation thing was weird, and the hexing of people who,spoke against her didn’t help.