He Hasn’t Texted In a Few Days – Here’s What You Need To Do
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This has to be the most underrated channel about seduction/dating ever. EVERY SINGLE point is spot on, and once you’ve heard the arguments and explanations, everything starts to make sense and feels ridiculously obvious afterwards.
There’s serious psychology and analysis involved behind every tip (and that’s coming from someone who studied psychology at university for seven years), unlike most channels only offering “ready-to-use” lame pick-up phrases “guaranteed to work on 100% of all 3.5 billion women”.
Thanks for your awesome work!
I would rather get advice from a guy… woman are the worse at this. If he doesn’t text you in 5 days…means he seriously NOT interested. Dont even embarrass yourself and harass him by texting him
Not necessarily, plenty of guys on here advise not texting much in the beginning of a romance. Sadly, it works better that way.
@thrilla72 ok well not trying to one up..but there 3 guys sitting with me that I showed this to when I responded my original comment…they all said hey guys aren’t complicated, if we really like you we pursue you, if we arent that interested.
, we dont. Very black and white.
@Kelly Define pursue, I for instance have noticed much greater interest from women when I had less time to show interest, text, make calls, go on dates etc. Before mobile phones a date was required for a couple to connect. It seems constantly keeping in touch can end that initial interest.
@thrilla72 means they go after you, they will make their interest know by actions..no question or wondering.
@Kelly yes, but define those actions? What if he makes planned, fun dates but doesn’t spend all his time texting?
For me at least 2 days of not texting is my max. On the 3rd day I’m moving on and assuming disinterest. I personally am only interested in someone who is actively pursuing me consistently. Dating before a relationship should be the honeymoon phase when the guy can’t get enough of you.
Update: My partner and I have been together almost 3 years, and he has not gone a single day without calling me or texting me since the first day we started talking. I never had to ask for him to communicate more, that’s interest. I never even had a chance to wonder about if he cared. Ladies find the man who wants you and makes that known.
I stop texting her when I start getting one word replies or closed ended replies. Thanks for playing bye.
PREACH!!
@Jeremy Menning You didn’t give her anything to work with! Not our fault. You guys give nothing, can’t expect a long reply on small talk etc! It’s on YOU GUYS!! Instead of stop texting, TEXT MORE!! Be more creative.
@SpamMan No, that is HOW IT WORKS!!
It literally takes less than a minute to reply to someone. Period.
that’s my point too!!!!!!!
Exactly!!
Women want to text all day thats the problem.
PREACH!
@SpamMan Sexist. No, it’s not the problem. The problem is guys ghost, can’t grow up and man up! No, not all day. We have lives but RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON COMMUNICATION! THAT IS ONE OF THE NUMBER 1 THINGS! Not 24/7 hours all day every day but daily, yes. No going 3-7 days with NOTHING. JS is right, it takes no time at all! People have their phone, I expect a response, period. That is the decent thing to do!!
If he is too busy to send you even a small message, like hey I am extremely busy but will call you tonight, then you know that you can drop him and move on! You are not his priority and do not settle for being kept on hold until a convenient moment.
Oh god 🤦🏼♀️ IF THE GUY IS IGNORING U- HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU! That’s it! A guy who is interested will not stop communication
Лиза X my guy was deployed for 8 days .. he was being meh so I told him I’m not talking to him the whole time he legit didn’t even try to contact me . We’ve been together 2 years and live together so . Same thing ?
That’s not always the case. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
@xotic true
it’s an internet relationship
@salami we live in different city so only communication is text or Facebook , I was friends with her male friend first before I meet her
It’s a major turn off when someone doesn’t reply, especially at the beginning of a relationship whether it is friendship or loving relationships… I tend to move on cause if a man is into you, he always finds a minute to respond.
What is he said be started catching feelings for you but you still talk as only friends…? He made plans to take you somewhere but then he ghost on it?
Should you just ignore it and let it go..or text and find out?
@Sidney Serenity late reply, but that sounds exactly what happened to me 😭😭I’m just moving on
I personally think that even if a guy is busy, he’ll text you if he like you. Like if he’s busy, he might say something like: “Hey! I’m not gonna be able to text a lot this week ’cause I have this assignment at the university” or something like that. If they’re busy and they like you, you’ll know what they’re busy with and then you just need to be ready to accept that the guy isn’t gonna text much in that period.
Lmao if he hasn’t texted in a few days it’s over honey
Just go NEXT dont go chasing after him. Trust me if a man wants you on his life , he will have you in HIS life.
Literally takes less than 1min to send a text
What if he’s just naturally a introverted person? Honestly going 3-4 days without talking to friends is not unusual for me.
@jhumenik97 i would think texting would be an introvert’s best friend. I don’t think that should be an excuse to not respond to a text, a phone call, yes; because talking on phones can be draining for some introverts, but texting?
Tania Jones Honestly I don’t like texting unless it’s more important matters. If I saw her in person I could talk to her through a whole party. But then she wonders why I haven’t texted/called her in 4 days. This is how my normal life is and I’m not bothered by staying silent for a few days. I just don’t get why people can’t understand this and not think I’m some weird kid.
Tania Jones Like I said even my best friends for years I am always the most quiet out of the group and even though I don’t say or text much they still have stuck through thick and thin because they know I’m an intelligent and compassionate person.
We had a very sporadic texting thing going on for years, but after meeting in person, I feel more attached and wanna talk more, but we still only text every few days. He talked more for the first couple days after we met up though. It’s hard to let go but my instincts are telling me it’s either going nowhere or just fwb. This sucks because it’s the first one I’ve actually been this into. I feel led on
Seriously, If he doesn’t text he doesn’t care. When you’re into someone you literally can’t resist texting them, it’s an addiction. Either he isn’t bothered or he’s playing games, both are a no no. The person who cares the less has the most power
Hi miss Hailey.thanks for this video. I’ve learned something in this video about how to be patience when it comes to relationship. Thanks for the advice.I get some very clear pointers
I am a guy, and believe me: if a guy does not text back for days on end, he is not interested in you except for having sex.
Think about it: if you don’t text back a guy for days on end, what does this mean?
FavouriteSongs So how do you think they girl should end once she comes aware of this?! She just not respond to his advances?
SO DISRESPECTFUL!!
Personally its because i forgot or dont feel like texting
Well in my case it’s been 2 days since he last texted me and this was a guy who texted me daily. He did mention stress at work the last time we spoke, also he is married yet separated from the wife. I’m not chasing after him anymore. It’s been going on 3 years now ( our affair), I’m not texting him back because I refuse to chase after him continuously, it’s tiring and a waste of my energy.
You make it too simple.
If I received a txt in 2weeks , pulling away test or not, I’m gonna wait at least a week or ten days to reply if I feel to, if I don’t really care I don’t ever reply.
I don’t use phone from time to time because that’s the generation I grown up
I am a dude. I’ve been browsing tons of these dating advice for women video channels because I’ve been perplexed about women’s behavior lately. This is by far (men’s and women’s channels included) the most accurate high value video I have seen. Its not even close. All the other videos just feed into womens’ insecurities and advise them to move on after simple things like a slow down in texting frequency.
You immediately tackle this appropriately. No need to make a big deal, if you are interested and unsure about them then just bring it up for a straightforward answer instead of feeding your own paranoid insecurities. I wish more guys and gals acted this way.
This is an impressively honest and mature video, good job Hayley.
Notice how every girl here is absolutely certain that he has to be the one to always start a conversation?
Little secret – If a guy feels like he’s the one who is always supposed to start the conversation every day, he won’t start the conversation at all. You want him to like you? Every 2-3 days, send the first message. A simple “good morning” or “how is your day going?” is enough to make him understand he’s not alone here. That you’re into this too.
Bottom line – Don’t always wait for things to happen. Sometimes you have to make them happen, regardless of whether you have a penis or a vagina.
Men: don’t text her too soon, you’ll look needy. She’ll text you if she’s truly interested.
Women: don’t text him, you’ll look needy. He’ll come around eventually.
Hmmm…
haha exactly
Evan Andrews ohhhhhhhh 😆😆😅😅😆😆😆
This comment needs more likes 😛
So true
What to do? NOTHING AT ALL ✌🏾 very easily said than done, but work at it…Your presence is golden, access to you is riches…I’m working on it myself, ladies let’s learn our worth! ❤️
A real man goes after what he wants… If he wants you, he’ll keep the line of communication open and flowing…
Agree with you100%!
Ashley Victoria ~ Tell me about it 😇! The worst ugh.
I never start the conversation but when they make the attempt I always engage. However, lately I’ve been asked why I never “reach out” first… It seems like men nowadays want you to chase them, they’ve forgotten their roles.
Daniel B. ~ When a woman likes a man she will reciprocate the energy. If she doesn’t, she won’t reciprocate. This is an indication to stop reaching out to her and move on. If she’s a game player why would you want her anyway?
There’s more to it than that. You need to pay attention to when and how they ghost you. Don’t just notice the ghosting without thinking any deeper than that. For instance during those first few days you text with this person …make a conscious effort to get a feel for how available they are when you text, WHEN they are available and when they seem to take longer. Get an over all feel for this persons text habits. Pay attention and make a mental note, so as to have a baseline for their habits. This way you can compare when the persons habits dramatically change. For example:: take note especially of his/her habits on the weekends. If the person normally still finds time on the weekends to chat, but for some reason one weekend around 4pm on Friday afternoon when you text , there’s no reply, and then Saturday rolls around and they still can’t be reached until around noon. All of a sudden they text saying Hey what’s up? When you casually ask what happened you couldn’t get in touch with them, and they give you plausible reason . but highly unlikely. It’s safe to say they were with someone else. You might think this is dating 101, but you’d be surprised how many people never connect the dots, and buy into the BS. It is important to be aware and logically piece it together because you don’t have time to waste or be second place. If that person is into you, they will move heaven and Earth to make time for just you. They won’t stop off and be with someone else first, and then start the relationship lying and investing a distrustful environment.