He Hasn’t Texted In a Few Days – Here’s What You Need To Do

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• I would rather get advice from a guy... woman are the worse at this. If he doesn't text you in 5 days...means he seriously NOT interested. Dont even embarrass yourself and harass him by texting him

  • Not necessarily, plenty of guys on here advise not texting much in the beginning of a romance. Sadly, it works better that way.

  • @thrilla72 ok well not trying to one up..but there 3 guys sitting with me that I showed this to when I responded my original comment...they all said hey guys aren't complicated, if we really like you we pursue you, if we arent that interested.
    , we dont. Very black and white.

  • @Kelly Define pursue, I for instance have noticed much greater interest from women when I had less time to show interest, text, make calls, go on dates etc. Before mobile phones a date was required for a couple to connect. It seems constantly keeping in touch can end that initial interest.

  • @thrilla72 means they go after you, they will make their interest know by actions..no question or wondering.

  • @Kelly yes, but define those actions? What if he makes planned, fun dates but doesn't spend all his time texting?

• For me at least 2 days of not texting is my max. On the 3rd day I'm moving on and assuming disinterest. I personally am only interested in someone who is actively pursuing me consistently. Dating before a relationship should be the honeymoon phase when the guy can't get enough of you.

  Update: My partner and I have been together almost 3 years, and he has not gone a single day without calling me or texting me since the first day we started talking. I never had to ask for him to communicate more, that's interest. I never even had a chance to wonder about if he cared. Ladies find the man who wants you and makes that known.

  • I stop texting her when I start getting one word replies or closed ended replies. Thanks for playing bye.

  • PREACH!!

  • @Jeremy Menning You didn't give her anything to work with! Not our fault. You guys give nothing, can't expect a long reply on small talk etc! It's on YOU GUYS!! Instead of stop texting, TEXT MORE!! Be more creative.

  • @SpamMan No, that is HOW IT WORKS!!

• It literally takes less than a minute to reply to someone. Period.

  • that's my point too!!!!!!!

  • Exactly!!

  • Women want to text all day thats the problem.

  • PREACH!

  • @SpamMan Sexist. No, it's not the problem. The problem is guys ghost, can't grow up and man up! No, not all day. We have lives but RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON COMMUNICATION! THAT IS ONE OF THE NUMBER 1 THINGS! Not 24/7 hours all day every day but daily, yes. No going 3-7 days with NOTHING. JS is right, it takes no time at all! People have their phone, I expect a response, period. That is the decent thing to do!!

• If he is too busy to send you even a small message, like hey I am extremely busy but will call you tonight, then you know that you can drop him and move on! You are not his priority and do not settle for being kept on hold until a convenient moment.

• Oh god 🤦🏼‍♀️ IF THE GUY IS IGNORING U- HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU! That’s it! A guy who is interested will not stop communication

  • Лиза X my guy was deployed for 8 days .. he was being meh so I told him I’m not talking to him the whole time he legit didn’t even try to contact me . We’ve been together 2 years and live together so . Same thing ?

  • That’s not always the case. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @xotic true

  • it’s an internet relationship

  • @salami we live in different city so only communication is text or Facebook , I was friends with her male friend first before I meet her

• It’s a major turn off when someone doesn’t reply, especially at the beginning of a relationship whether it is friendship or loving relationships... I tend to move on cause if a man is into you, he always finds a minute to respond.

  • What is he said be started catching feelings for you but you still talk as only friends...? He made plans to take you somewhere but then he ghost on it?
    Should you just ignore it and let it go..or text and find out?

  • @Sidney Serenity late reply, but that sounds exactly what happened to me 😭😭I’m just moving on

• I personally think that even if a guy is busy, he'll text you if he like you. Like if he's busy, he might say something like: "Hey! I'm not gonna be able to text a lot this week 'cause I have this assignment at the university" or something like that. If they're busy and they like you, you'll know what they're busy with and then you just need to be ready to accept that the guy isn't gonna text much in that period.

• Lmao if he hasn’t texted in a few days it’s over honey
  Just go NEXT dont go chasing after him. Trust me if a man wants you on his life , he will have you in HIS life.
  Literally takes less than 1min to send a text

  • What if he's just naturally a introverted person? Honestly going 3-4 days without talking to friends is not unusual for me.

  • @jhumenik97 i would think texting would be an introvert's best friend. I don't think that should be an excuse to not respond to a text, a phone call, yes; because talking on phones can be draining for some introverts, but texting?

  • Tania Jones Honestly I don’t like texting unless it’s more important matters. If I saw her in person I could talk to her through a whole party. But then she wonders why I haven’t texted/called her in 4 days. This is how my normal life is and I’m not bothered by staying silent for a few days. I just don’t get why people can’t understand this and not think I’m some weird kid.

  • Tania Jones Like I said even my best friends for years I am always the most quiet out of the group and even though I don’t say or text much they still have stuck through thick and thin because they know I’m an intelligent and compassionate person.

• We had a very sporadic texting thing going on for years, but after meeting in person, I feel more attached and wanna talk more, but we still only text every few days. He talked more for the first couple days after we met up though. It’s hard to let go but my instincts are telling me it’s either going nowhere or just fwb. This sucks because it’s the first one I’ve actually been this into. I feel led on