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How Common is Cheating in Japan? | Tokyo Love Show Ep.4

Today's panel of women will be discussing cheating in Japan and how it relates to this culture vs The Western World.

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🍙TimeStamps㊗️

0:00 : Boom Baby!

1:25 : Guest Introduction: Vii – Thai Woman

2:10 : Guest Introduction: Yui – Japanese Woman

3:10 : MLD’s been in Japan for 12 YEARS!

3:43 : Guest Introduction: Shiori – Half Japanese + Italian Woman

5:05 : Guest Introduction: Shiori 2 (Oshiri) – Japanese Woman

5:45 : MLD + Oshiri share a birthday

6:15 : Shiori 2 introduction continued

7:40 : Guest Introduction: Miho – Japanese Woman

9:10 : Today’s Topic: How is Cheating in Japan vs the world?

10:20 : What is considered cheating in Japan?

10:40 : Miho: Lying to your partner

12:10 : Shiori #2: Spending time with other women

13:33 : Yui: PHYSICALLY TOUCHING other women

15:22 : Vii: Allowing TOUCH & allowing COMMUNICATION with other women

16:10 : Shiori: If you know about cheating

17:20 : Panel votes: If someone cheats on you and you don’t know, is it still cheating?

18:50 : What is considered cheating to you? + MLD’s CHEATING BOUNDARY

20:10 : Vii: Hiding messages and lying

23:20 : Shirori #2: Allowing other women to talk to you

24:15 : Has a guy DM’ed you on IG?

25:01 : MLD: Cheating happens SLOWLY

25:42 : Shiori #2’s question for MLD: Is it cheating to keep dating apps? + DEPRESSED EX Story

28:30 : Shiori: Physical touch, intimacy and communicating

29:15 : Why you shouldn’t TRUST other men around your girl

30:30 : Why Shiori’s first relationship FAILED +

32:33 : Yui: Overly texting other women

34:35 : Vii: Is it ok to sleep in the same bed with a gay guy? + GAY friends story

36:50 : Miho: Paying attention to other women + Crazy ex CHEATING story

39:08 : Miho: Social Media is a BIG problem in the world

40:10 : MLD’s crazy dating story + Lying always catches you

41:45 : Most people lie on first dates + MLD’s experiences with LIARS

44:00 : Do men or women cheat more in Japan?

45:20 : Shiori: It’s in men’s DNA to cheat + Women are more logical

46:30 : Shiori #2: Experienced men cheat more + Women are better at HIDING cheating

47:10 : Vii: Experienced men cheat + Women feel guilty about cheating

48:30 : Vii: How men and women cheat

49:30 : Panel: Does BODYCOUNT matter?

51:05 : Shiori #2: You need variety

52:00 : MLD: Jelly experiment analogy + issue with having too much variety

53:23 : Shiori #2: The importance of having good and bad relationships

54:05 : Yui: Experience matters for men

55:40 : How many bodies is too many?

56:00 : MLD: High bodycount women are RED FLAGS + Do women lie about body count?

58:10 : CHAT

58:35 : Miho, Shiori #1 & 2: Why bodycount doesn’t matter + experience for men matters

1:01:00 : Vii: bodycount for both men and women doesn’t matter

1:01:50 : Can you FORGIVE a CHEATER?

1:02:00 : Panel: NEVER + Miho says it depends on the situation

1:03:18 : MLD: What if he’s rich?

1:03:40 : Panel: NO

1:04:15 : Shiori #1 + #2 are the only ones who FORGAVE a CHEATER

1:05:43 : Why does cheating bother you?

1:05:55 : Vii: Betrayal and loss of trust

1:06:17 : Shiori #2: Lack of consideration and emotional investment

1:06:42 : Yui: Waste of time + Yui’s FWB had a GIRLFRIEND story

1:07:40 : Miho: Emotional betrayal

1:08:15 : Panel thoughts on women who forgive cheaters

1:09:05 : Women LOVE this TYPE OF GUY + women who forgive trend

1:09:50 : Cheating + hosting (Kabakura) culture in Japan, and how is the panel different?

1:10:35 : Shiori: Only S3X is cheating at hostess bars + drinking with female coworkers is cheating

1:12:50 : Panel: Prostitution is cheating

1:14:00 : Yui’s thoughts on prostitution

1:15:20 : MLD: Men always want new girls + evolutionary biology behind it

1:17:00 : CHAT: Men are only as faithful their options

1:17:46 : Shiori #1 + #2: It doesn’t matter, he’ll be loyal if he likes you

1:20:30 : Yui: Depends on his self esteem

1:21:00 : MLD: Men are as faithful as their options

1:21:50 : The REALITY of most men

1:22:10 : Panel’s final thoughts

1:24:27 : MLD: Final remarks