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How Do You Deal With Loneliness? Lexi Allen Married The Wrong Man Out of Loneliness | EP 814

Loneliness can show up in all forms. How we self-medicate during our lonely seasons can provide growth or emotional death. Lexi Allen keeps us laughing on social media, but it was birthed from navigating her darkest moments after losing the love her life and marrying someone who was degrading. Her journey of self-discovery created the woman she's become today. Watch this dynamic episode titled, "Healing My Soul."

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  • @Passion84GodAlways says:

    I am SO GLAD KevOnStage 🎬 introduced me to the AMAZINGNESS of Lexi Allen!!!
    I’m sure she’s gonna have me laughing and crying and she’s gon’ sprinkle gems 💎 throughout the interview! 😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @cshell75 says:

    Laterras, can we start doing these as premiere’s so the LIT fam can chat while watching?

  • @kimsturdivant9926 says:

    Hey Lexi – it’s so good to hear and see you. Your Keyser Elementary friend. I had this loneliness after my Mom passed but had a child out of wedlock. Then he got married while I was 12 weeks pregnant. I love your honesty ❤

  • @ellechance2344 says:

    WOOOO DOGGY!!! Abba AINT playin wit me!!! Just this morning I wept acknowledging my sadness and loneliness to Him. He then graciously revealed that it was a cover for the grain of unbelief that kept sprouting in my heart. BUT GOD!!! I confessed! LORD, I believe. HELP MY UNBELIEF!

  • @j.rogers1911 says:

    I want to add light to her experience..If she counts the time they were just friends, God gave her more than 5 years with him. She was his wife for 5 years but she had years and years of friendship with him, which I’m sure added to the devastation. Losing a friend is death in itself, so I’m sure it felt like she lost twice. Her memories of him are still so current. She loved him deeply. It’s beautiful and sad at the time.

  • @siadams9241 says:

    All women listen up especially when a love one or anyone in your life transitions beware of wolves praying your vulnerability the Lord showed me that and till this day I am forever grateful to him for keeping me from falling 💕

  • @kitadenise2800 says:

    “Loneliness can show up in ALL forms”, 🤯listennnn! I’m just sitting here thinking over life and my lonely periods!

  • @tinalarmond1531 says:

    When youll have sarah Jake’s Robert’s, Stephanie ike or Dr.jackie Greene on your show??? Blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @user-Mimi333 says:

    😂😂😂😂😂 I LOVE LEXI!! She is The best. She Tells it like it is and is a master storyteller. She’s hilarious and brilliant. Her story is heartbreaking but her growth and healing is so inspiring. ❤🙏🏽

  • @deeamos says:

    “Come out the grave.” My God. That gave me chills. Thank you, Lord for your true servants you’ve given the ability to speak to your people.

  • @quichequiche4274 says:

    After my dad ascended. I didn’t know I had checked out either. I thought I was handling things well, too. Until I saw a quick glimpse of myself in a mirror in Target. I heard myself thinking, “Ooo, she’s tow up. She looks familiar, tho.” And then I realized it was me. The cry I cried!

  • @georgenep1082 says:

    Loneliness allowed me to go back to a person that disrespected me on so many occasions expecting different results.

    • @l.t.3857 says:

      It could’ve been more than just loneliness; maybe it was a lack of boundaries. I did the same thing, but I just lacked firm boundaries in my life. I was also going through spiritual warfare at the time, so other factors were at play as well, unbeknownst to me at the time. A witch was manipulating my destiny with witchcraft, causing me to go on the wrong path and make bad decisions. Things were just not working out the way God intended. I am now fully healed and delivered, so I would never date anyone like the people I’ve dated in the past. I’m currently in my 11th year of abstinence and it has never crossed my mind during that time to settle, which is why I don’t think my previous choices were solely due to loneliness. Sometimes we have deeper issues that we are not aware of until years of choosing wrong.

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614 says:

      You are worthy of love. Don’t accept less.

    • @wonderwoman122 says:

      Same girl same

    • @brandonplays702 says:

      Same

  • @RoyalMasterpiece says:

    When you are lonely and broken, you will settle for not God’s best. Heal yourself with God. Speaking from experience.

  • @therichauntie says:

    Loneliness will have you in places and spaces that you definitely wouldn’t normally be in.

  • @gck_replayzz1029 says:

    I had climbed into the grave when my ex-husband / kids dad passed in 2021. I understand exactly what she is talking about the grief! It is truly a dark place! But God!

  • @praizeyah says:

    Lexi is NUTS! She’s not supposed to be this funny talking about grief!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sahara.O says:

    I hope we continue to recognize as a culture the power of mental health! Proud of her!!!

  • @meenameena-dd2zy says:

    Lexi is literally a one woman party…….She is so entertaining. She is truly God’s precious jewel to humanity. May her latter be greater than her former. IJN Amen

  • @Callmeharlowe says:

    I’ve been following Lexi for a decade and remember her posting videos of herself on the beach when she broke her engagement! I remember when she started her weight loss journey! I can’t believe she’s in her 50s looking amazing and STILL killing it! Hearing her story never gets old! I love her transparency and sense of humor 😂😂

  • @ladiesofiron says:

    I found Lexi in March of 2016 on YouTube, I watched episode after episode after episode nothing but LAUGHTER and healing❤ my children and I just happened to be watching the episode “The things black people say at funerals” we were laughing hysterically!!! IRONICALLY as we were laughing, my 1st husband of 30 years, the father of ALL 7 of my children was falling to his death in the same hour. The Lexi Show was the show that I didn’t KNOW we needed in that season. My LORD. I’m Loving this 💜💜💜

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