How Men View Sex: What You Need To Know

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• “If they run away because you’re diving deeper they’re not for you” I love that-so true. I like the way this man is explaining everything straight out even though it’s hurting some feelings😂 online dating has felt like such a waste of time

• I’d just rather be single for life than trying to decipher this whole dating thing🥴🥴 I wish everyone the best of luck 😁

  • same, if he loves me good, if not out the door, im done with the mind games

  • Agree

  • @Alyssa Smith yes, too much mental gymnastics for me.

  • Omg I know I been single cuz I don't want games

  • Same girl same. #overit

• I'm with her. I can't be with someone I don't like. And it hurts when you've been with someone that only wants you for sex.

  • Reason men have side chicks. Only for the sex, men 90% of the time never leave his woman for another woman.

  • My feelings got real hurt this episode 😂😭😂

• I absolutely LOVE her questions and how she’s conducting this interview! I’m learning SOOOO much from his answers!

  • I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

• "your intuition will tell you if he's lying" Love that it's the responsibility of the woman to discern when men are bullshiting 🙄 and if we get tricked by literal lies we're "playing ourselves" 🙄

  • Also, when women are tricked with lies, they still stick with the men due to some reasons whether it be the fear of missing out or the emotional attachment to them, they still choose to not leave them. That's what he meant by getting played, because it's easy for some men to say that since they are not in touch with our emotional nature

  • I don't think you got the message. Most women only go for the players thinking they would commit to them.
    But how are they having expectations from the player that he would commit to them? That's just women getting themselves played. I've seen many instances of this types of situation.

  • I agree it is bullshit and shaming women. Yes you need to know your worth and build a strong emotional connection/friendship first to feel safety. But it doesn’t mean it’s your fault if he wasn’t honest or withheld information. Wtf.

• I loved this conversation so much! It was such a healthy dialogue. Giving facts, no bias. Just a neutral, friendly conversation that has many helpful information. It did not awake any negative feelings in me so I had this space to stay receptive. I'm glad Youtube recommended this video to me 😊💗

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• I feel like I am so aligned in my feminine energy but when a man comes into my life, I get so thrown off because I don't really know where they are coming from in their mentality. I just have past (terrible) experiences that have kept me from being able to see the positive things a good, healthy masculine energy can bring to my life. So I really appreciate this conversation!

  • If you are thrown off then you know that isn't the man for you. He should be your balance ☯️, not throw you off your Feminine Energy.🧘🏿‍♀️❤

• 90% of what my Dad tells me. I am happy I have a Dad who talks about these things to me at 14 years old.

  • Same!!

  • i wish mine did too but in my family, it’s considered weird for a man to talk about such things to his daughter, the mother should do it, and now when a convo of fhat subject comes up when i’m with my dad, it’s just plain awkward

  • i have similar convos with my dad lol. he's a very open person, and i like that he's transparent about sex, drugs, drinking etc.. he explains that although these things can be enjoyable it's also important to be aware of the risks and how you can stay safe.

  • I wasn't allowed to date at your age and I feel it has hindered me when I got older. I never knew what to look for in a date. Don't chase men. It's exhausting and it back fires. Let them come to you. You're the master of your own destiny.
    It's good that your dad talks to you. 80's and 90's sex talks were still a little taboo.

  • You are so lucky to have that! I was born and raised in the 50s and my parents never said a single word about anything related to sex relationships anything so consider yourself very very blessed!

• How we perceive ourselves is not always how others see us. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • Be with people who perceive you as you do.

• This is healthy dialogue. Stephan is experienced & well versed in relationships. He touched on many key points & as a women there are many take aways I will apply to my personal life moving forward. 👏🏽

  • I agree.

  • I agree, it's such a healthy dialogue, so pleasing to listen