How to Attract a Man Who Will Accept You for Who You Really Are | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
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I love this! I lost a guy I was dating recently because I’m still friends with my ex-husband. I was worried it would be a red flag to him and that was the case. But I love reframing this! Because the right guy will see that I’m forgiving, caring, warm and accepting, emotionally mature and that I value friendship and good people. Thank you so much for this video! 😊
I love this video, I was really sad cause I thought I was not enough for having a romantic relationship but after following your advice I found out the great woman I am and all things I have to offer. I don’t see myself the same way I did before this video. I am not sad anymore, actually I admire and accept myself the way I am. Thank you so much Mat for sharing this video.
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Im 24 and i was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis since 2018
I became such a powerful person and i have so much compassion and empathy towards everyone around me , I don’t know why but it made me wiser and patient and guess what I AM the prize 👏🏽💛💛💛
This has to be my favourite post so far, Mat. Incredible advice, so powerful. Like the women you mention, I always thought I had accepted my autoimmune condition, and yet it is so true that my projection came from seeing it logical that men would be put off by it. Reframing that projection to concentrate on all the values and strengths I’ve developed because of it will be the game changer, I’m positive! Thank you so much for this!
I have had to move into my mother’s home and start everything from scratch (almost) and am starting a new job I am insecure about at age 50. I have 3 beautiful children who are rooting for me and their love is my anchor. I want to lead by exemple. Just working on the steps I need to get back on my feet. Sometimes the end game seems far, but resilience and self compassion is what I am keeping out of this. Still vulnerable, but determined. Grateful for my mother’s help. Grateful for my children ‘s encouragement.
Yes, Valerie, I had to move back to my mother’s at 50 also. Something I never imagined happening. We don’t have the best relationship but still, she cared enough to insist I move in. It wasn’t easy for either of us, so I am grateful. Unlike you I was a complete mess about it, you sound much more grounded than I was, but I kept going as best I could. It took me 8 years to move away but I got there and at 61, it doesn’t matter any more that I had to do this. It’s great that you are surrounded by love, you will be fine ❤
@@chchwoman9960 thank you for that! Came in Just when i needed it! I was expecting to move out this July, I Just realised i don’t have the means yet to move out. I am feeling uncertain about the future. My temporary stay may be longer then i though. I am dealing wih the dissapointment , and the realisation that i have been standing stil. I can no longer wait till X happens. I have to deal with this situation as it is. Waiting for X or Y to start “living ” again. I focus on the next year to come, one day at a time. Thank you for letting me know you have been through this also. Hoping i Will see contentement both for me and my Mother 😊
You are both showing a tremendous amount of courage. No matter what age you can always reinvent yourself.And that is a great role model for your children
As a widow, who had been best friends with my husband for over 30 years, I think having learned what it takes to have a successful relationship, makes me a good partner with experience. I’m only 50 and I’ve encountered a lot of loss in my life but it makes me appreciate that it’s created more freedom to bring something new. I’m willing to move somewhere new as I’m not tied down. I’ve done a review on how I could be a better partner to someone and their family. I have a lot of love to give. I’ve gained more empathy, patience and compassion for those who’ve gone through much difficulty. I’m rebuilding my life as if I’m starting it anew.
Similar here. Forty years with a wonderful man until he passed away. I’m in my 60s but I’m young at heart & don’t look my age. Working on finding someone who I can spend the rest of my years with.
@@Ziggimomspal68 I’m so sorry, Carmela. It absolutely sucks when this happens. I wish you the best in luck and love in finding another to bring you the happiness that you dream of. <3
I’m sorry for your loss. Sometimes we ask questions why does the universe take away good people? How have you been able to go through this experience, losing someone you’ve known for 30 years?
@@HarryJHunter Answer to the first question: I don’t know but I can easily ask, why not? When you’re sitting in a room of people for a bereavement support group, you are absolutely humbled. While there you realize that death is non-discriminating and it’s hard to get to that place of acceptance. However knowing you’re not alone in that deep sense of loss, it softened me to be even more empathetic.
My husband told me a couple of weeks before he died as he had been watching his mother’s mental health decline as her husband, his father, was slowly “disappearing” with Alzheimer’s. He told me if he had to die, he would want it to be quick and by having a brain aneurysm, it pretty much was. It took me a long time to understand that it was his time. So, in addition to attending bereavement support meetings for a couple of years, I read Megan Devine’s book “It’s Okay to be Not Okay” which helped a great deal as it’s written by a pychotherapist who had also lost her husband suddenly at a young age. I also journaled as much as I needed to process the emotions I was feeling and brought on a therapist for a few months to deal with some of the unfinished business of my relationship with him that couldn’t be addresed with the bereavement support group. It certainly helped to be meeting and spending time with a lot of other new friends who were also widows / widowers or who are experiencing a profound loss; and finally, my faith. I’m not religious I don’t subscribe to any particular dogma but I know from experience that there’s “MORE” than our observable reality. So, I would observe publically each month of that death for those first 31 months and out of the woodwork, aquaintances that I knew came forward because they are widows as well. To see them thrive on the Other Side gave me hope that I can manage this as well as other losses I’ve endured since then. It sucks but only delaying the grieving process just comes back in unexpected ways. There’s only one way and that’s to go through it.
Next month, it’ll mark the 5th anniversary of his passing. It’s been a long, hard road and if there was anything that could help from moment to moment, day to day, year by year, I tried it. In perspective, those past 5 years have passed so quickly so I can only imagine by focusing on myself and the new life I want to live and what I want to achieve is made all the more pertinent. Life should never be taken for granted. Everyone gets one but to choose to live it is even better. What doesn’t kill you, doesn’t just make you stronger, it also makes you smarter.
I’ve learned to live w/an autoimmune disorder so your story about your client developing resilience & compassion is SO relatable❣️
I love this perspective and how supportive you are Matt. This is so healing 💕
This was a great video. I had never considered how challenges in my life have built my character. Because of what I have experienced, I have more patience and empathy. Aging has brought physical limitations that I am learning to live with. I’ve stopped allowing them to sideline me. I’m building stamina and the resilience to do what I need to do to build strength and balance. I also have a partner who is so patient, kind, and caring in regards to my limitations. I volunteer with the local police department, and I am stepping up and doing activities and events regardless of my walker. Felt so good to have people actually thank me for my service. Yes! I plan on doing more of the things I used to do.
I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes 50 years ago. Living with this condition has taught me to be disciplined, to value my health, to rise above the condition, to advocate for myself with doctors, nurses, hospitals, and insurance companies. I researched and have implemented what I’ve learned in my life about nutrition, exercise, pharmacology, and meditation. i am an advocate for patient autononmy.
I’m a vibrant 66.5 years. Reframing that would be- how I appreciate and enjoy all the experiences I’ve had and the wisdom I’ve gained and the learning I’m continuing to do. Thank you for this mind shift, Matt!
My loose skin, I worked really hard to lose one hundred pounds , and I’m proud of myself. However, with clothes on no one can see my loose skin. I’ve done an excellent job covering those parts I don’t like about my body. Despite the fact that I dislike certain parts of my body, I want to embrace them. The time has come for me to relinquish the things that are holding me back from attracting my person.
Congrats on the weight loss! That’s a tremendous accomplishment! U should be proud and celebrate. Don’t let anyone take that away from you. God bless.
I like that this, in a lot of ways, is about what you bring to the table and how does that align with. a man that’s right for you. Not the man that checks certain boxes about money and fitness and looks. The man that’s right for you. Just like we women come in all shapes and sizes and circumstances, and we hope someone will accept us- so do men. If you’re experiencing men who you think only want T and A- “waiter, check please.” I think besides accepting ourselves, the second biggest hinderance is holding on societies ideas about what is attractive. What is sexy. I’ll tell you. My ex was a lesson in that for me. He didn’t provide what I truly needed. I think it goes both ways. We need to define sexy men as the man that doesn’t hesitate to drop everything because you’re sick and you need him. A sexy man is the man who sees you had a hard day and wraps you in his arms. A sexy man has his life together and is ready and willing to bring you into it not expect you to fix it. We need to redefine what sexy really is in who we choose as well.
This is very insightful, Mat. It’s a great mindset to remember to hold, esp when our insecurities kick in for approval.
As a religious/spiritual person, all the things I’m called to do in the world, the ways I express my being, seem controversial in my mainstream faith community. This felt like a huge roadblock. The reframe is: the right man would perceive all I’m doing, my sincerity, and would witness my bravery, faith and trust. Thank you Mat (and team)!
My tough, intensive crisis and challenges, both physically and spiritually, six years ago till now – still living under stressful environment that creates different physical body dia-eases.. But I still survive …proved that I passed them and ready for new life to fulfill all my dreams with real confidence… Who I am
Best video ever! My bi-polar diagnosis started me on a journey of inner work which has given me a greater understanding of others
I must be the exception to the rule.
I have never liked, let alone love myself.
But, through the love that my Man has smothered me with, I’m at the point where I can tolerate myself.
How I view myself has never deterred his desire to be in my life.
@@LoralLee(sorry it’s so long)
because of him, I’m learning what Love actually feels and looks like.
I’ve tried getting professional help. I seem to get worse when “working through” my “issues”.
I was raised and taught that a woman is only worth the pain from a man’s fist.
I was also raised and taught that my value is determined on how well I’m able to sexually gratify a man.
I prayed HARD for so long for someone like him to come into my life. I stopped praying for him when I realized that he doesn’t exist. . . 23+years later (after child bearing prime) he just appeared, like a magician.
I have worked through more and learned more and experienced more with him then I ever did in a shrinks office.
Sometimes his kindness becomes too much and I fight him, to push him away. . . He’s like a bad habit and won’t go away.
I don’t know how he’s able to be as strong as he is for me. It’s because of him that I’m able to tolerate myself. It’s because of him that I’m learning that I have value. It’s because of him that my faith in my Creator had become as strong as it has.
Thank you for allowing me to share.
Renal failure actually shaped me into having empathy and sympathy for others. Respect for people’s feelings and the ability to uplift, problem solve and resolve others issue. I pour into people’s lives daily. I see the good even in death.