How to Confirm a Date Without Sounding Desperate | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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In this video, I’ll share a 3-step formula you can use to ask your man what the plan is for your date, feel confident and relaxed, and inspire him to take ACTION!
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‘you can’t mess up if this is a right guy” – that’s so right on. If he is a jerk and planned to drop /ghost you anyway, your confirming won’t change his mind about you, you will just learn sooner what kind of flaky careless person he is, you will spare yourself from wasting time and frustration, and being stood up. If he is a right guy he will appreciate that you taking this process seriously. Confirming dates is a win-win situation
I literally say 3 days before during conversation: I’m so excited to see you Saturday!!!
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I love the strateggy #3,brilliant,thanks😊😊😊
The man should be the one eager to confirm plans, not the woman!! If he doesn’t confirm plans in a timely manner, I’m simply not going on that date, period, and he may not get a second chance. I think that women need to raise the bar on the requirements that it takes for a man to enjoy the pleasure of their company and presence.
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Omg! Amazing timing with this video! This happened today! Invited to lunch next sat and I said yes. Grear ideas for text IF I need it. Thank you and your work has helped me so many times the last 3 yrs. God bless! Also really like seeing your pretty wife on to help educate us.
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I think u are correct. The earlier the better and giving him the feeling that you are looking forward to seeing him.
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If he asks if I’m free on Saturday, I would probably say “when exactly”? Because I usually have multiple things booked (different times, of course). And if I don’t, I’d likely ask what he had in in mind right then… I’m not big fan of surprises.
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i wouldnt be so hassle. i’d let him wait for my schedule confirmation
I’d wait for Saturday and see: if he contacts me by Saturday, I’d accept the invitation. If he doesn’t, I’d block him. And if I don’t find him attractive, I would refuse his invitation at the moment he invites me. It’s so simple! 🍀
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I would NEVER reserve an entire day for anyone because I’m too busy. I’m very active. So, if someone (in my case a woman), would ask me out, right away I would ask what are they thinking? What did they want to do and what time frame so I can plan my day.
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Hi Candi, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
My bumble meet & greet turned into a date. I just wanted to meet for happy hour in the bar but I found out he got us a table. It went great. 2nd date he let me plan it. Both of us are outdoorsy so I said “let’s go sit by the river”….yes I let him drive me out into the middle of the forest to a secluded spot & we sat on a rock & fell in love. We then went out to eat for dinner that night after chatting at the river for several hours. On our 2 month anniversary we went & bought new fishing lewers & went out to “our rock” where we fell in love & unpacked them & filled our new tackle boxes. When you love yourself you attract love. To me that was key. We don’t need eachother. We choose eachother. Hope you all find your bestfriend & lover too💜😀
That’s so beautiful! Good luck to both of you!!!!!
I can’t tell if I think you’re brave or silly for letting someone you barely know drive you to a remote spot… Lol. Good on ya for finding the one though!
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I’m so happy to say this I wouldn’t have done it if not for the God’s sent man who helped me with my relationship thank you once again,his channel ( Dr osayande great powerful healer, )
Love this advice. So friendly and helpful! Thank you 🌻
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Passive Patient and centered. I focus on me… I don’t help him, no nudge, I trust no matter Iam Gonna have good weekend if it’s with him or Plan b. Train him with kindness and respect without a time place you moved on.
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Much easier & more confident way to avoid being strung along by a guy…don’t accept a date without knowing what “the plan” is. Asking “are you free Saturday” is NOT a date, it’s an option!
Well said!
Well said. People do what they want to do, and shouldn’t need to be prompted. Why can men be like “hey i know this great (fill in the blank) you wanna go on Saturday?”
If confirming a date time looks desperate then I think you need to change your concept of what desperate is. It’s called planning ahead.
But are you looking desperate or confident while confirming the date. Did you watch the video?
@@reikidreams9265 if he’s not going to make a real plan, then there is no plan and you can do something else then too. If there is no scheduled time, then it doesn’t exist.
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Give me a hint for Saturday… how should I dress? 😉
Also, it’s too often the case that a man throws the planning to me. I find that very frustrating as I believe men should be the hunter and females are the gatherers.
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100% agree
Good advise!👍
I’m not so sure. You totally can scare off the “right,” guy if you’re not in alignment with yourself, being insecure and putting off that energy. People only reflect your self worth and concept. Confidence is key.
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@Anita, agreed. ❤
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Asking him on Tuesday for Saturday? They even don’t know on Friday… Its the era of last minute “hang out”, not even “dates”. That’s why is not that easy to go out with guys these days. They get scared if I say “I can’t as I ve already plans”. They don’t plan in advance as they don’t know how will they feel… Moody, bipolar or ADHD or whatever affects the way they choose to date 🙄
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I agree, asking Tuesday for a date on Saturday is very early, guys ask for dates (if the ask, many times they want the woman to ask, specially here where I live in Canada) kind of last minute.
Absolutely, agree Rudina. Too many men (and I’m talking of educated types who ought to know better) these days want to wait and “see how I feel”, in other words they just aren’t interested in you, or not interested enough, and are worried in case something/somebody better comes up, like a re-scheduled football match on TV, or some other none-world-shattering event. Kick their backsides, and tell them to feck off.
You forgot the monthly hormonal swings/changes for women, the vehicle starts making strange noises, the lights on the dashboard start lighting up – mine looks like an airplane cockpit – you need AAA to tow it to your fav mechanic, last-minute changes in plans (your bff/fam, sibs, kids, pet is ill, mom just got into a serious car accident at age 82) that pop up in life, creepy peeps that you know nothing about except that you don’t drink, are a vegetarian/vegan and he wants to take you out for a nice steak dinner, he could be a creep w an extensive criminal history.
Case in point? I know this one from personal dating history, and…
My little brother is handsome (has a great smile/dentures compliments of the Federal Prison system – as an inmate), charming (a con artist), screwed a dear friend out of $5K in 1997 to replace his roof, and has over 170 Criminal convictions that spans over 9 States.
Needless to say, I do not speak to him – over 30 years.
Not arrests.
Convictions.
It’s a crazy World out there; especially this past 1.5 years. Can I get an Amen, anyone?
Stay safe and well everyone, ok?
Much love and prayers, from your eternal sister in Christ somewhere near Seattle.
Finding “the one” needle in the haystack? Put the brakes on, ID your fav hobbies, live your true self, do not give out your personal info (cell number, address, etc.) to strangers, when you leave the date, head in the opposite direction for awhile (safety first), don’t let alcohol/drugs/deviant lifestyle be your common denominator, find wise counsel amongst your peers/friends/fam/Church, and people that are older than you (they can give wise counsel), do not trust anyone who refuses to wear a mask indoors (given C19 and the Delta variant) for they do not respect their own health, let alone yours or the public, at large)…
Ok… I’ll stop rambling, lol.
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Hope this comment saves someone from future pain…
Love you.
It’s also called ghosting.
My millennial child used to say, “MEH.” Put that one to an immediate stop:
You’re hungry? I was thinking of making fajitas tonight. MEH.
Want clean clothes? MEH.
You want: Clean dishes, tub, friends over (food, games, crafts, movies), shampoo, hot baths/showers, TP, clean sheets, shoes, transportation w a friend to the Park… ?
MEH? Stopped that one in its tracks, pronto. 🤣
Great advice! I just want to add that I’ve done that and it’s not worked out, but remember that if that’s the case it isn’t always because of you.