How to Tell if a Woman is Interested in You

zig zag says:

I’ve always said this . And you can use it. IT ISN’T WHO YOU LOVE . IT’S WHO LOVES YOU.

Scott Oh says:

One thing to remember is that differences do exist between cultures. I have been in countries where women can be pretty direct in their interest in you. And I have dated women in cultures where kissing on a second date is definitely not the norm.

Theodora Kimmel says:

The thing that I would want to make clear, is the majority of women take it upon themselves to create a pleasant social atmosphere when it comes to interactions with men. This means being polite and nice top the list of attitudinal responses. Another thing is that some women may not want to upset you, so consider where you are, if you’re completely sober, and if you are indeed being a bit predatory and she’s vulnerable and/or does not want to rock the boat. What to do then? Check in on how to not be predatory (chances are, if you care and aren’t bothered by this idea, you already have a good idea of what this means) and do not expect the woman you most desire to be alone when you approach her. A lot goes on about lone wolf women being good catches, but they are also in a vulnerable position, so don’t play into the idea of you being special and allowed into her corner. Give her lots of space, and keep it as public as you can. Men typically move way too quickly in terms of making things private. Current lore from men like Jordan Peterson is that women who are loners are the best kind. The problem with this argument is women who are withdrawn, introverted, or possibly healing from something, are the ones who are alone. You should want women who don’t follow the crowd, I think is his true idea. Anyway, predatory behavior begins with you thinking if you like a woman, that she also likes you. You should not ever entertain the idea that you know how a woman feels, or will love your attention and will respond positively. Are you attracted to women who you know are more likely to appreciate your attention because you know they don’t get it often, or not from people like you? You should really examine why you feel that way. If anything, that’s a very good indicator that men can also entertain unreal romantic – esque fantasies like women do. That’s putting it nicely in some cases. Anyway, women often take it upon themselves, for whatever reason, to be nice and polite, congenial and even soothing to your ego if you make them nervous or playing into your ego to hold onto some control because she feels threatened. If I were you, find a reason to talk to her other than your own personal physical and emotional interest for sex or something more. If a man asks me my name, I’d probably tell him. If a man asks me for my number right afterward, I would probably say no. Actually, I definitely would. Introducing yourself and then doing something nice for her that has nothing to do with you and what you want or how you feel, including paying her a compliment on her appearance, because not all women like that and it is intense. Introduce yourself and then ask why she is here, or who she knows, or better yet, complain about something as a way to end pretentious airs, and make what you complain about make you look a little foolish. Self-effacing joking is the best way to start talking to a woman, even before you ask her her name. You’re not telling a joke, you’re not using someone else to make a joke, and you are not teasing her. You. Look, Foolish. If it does right, it’s endearing and will produce genuine laughter of some kind. The end. Good luck.