How Women TEST You and How to Handle it…
In this presentation, we cover 4 of the most common tests a woman can throw your way in the early stages of dating and exactly how to handle each of them so you can increase her attraction and love for you instead of losing her. Even the sweetest, nicest women will usually test you at some point when you're dating them or even if they're just THINKING about dating you, so learning to pass her tests is a MUST…
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I’d rather die all alone than be manipulated by women… there’s something called self respect….we shouldn’t be this desperate
essess essess finally some guy with a pair of balls in these pua videos to say that today’s women are frauds!we shouldn’t change who we are and have to play childish mind games just to get a girlfriend!before feminism almost everybody got a partner. Now its almost impossible to dos with how picky and bitchy women have gotten!
SaintTrinianz. Don’t care, don’t want them. If I can’t get a quality woman with old fashioned morals better to be alone. The little enjoyment upfront isn’t worth a lifetime of suffering, which I witnessed others have first hand.
+SaintTrinianz. I don’t believe in any double standards and I totally believe in dating without sex until things are very serious (e.g. considering person for lifetime partner). Sex and dating are separate, you can have sex without dating someone and vice versa. If I can’t build a deep friendship with a woman I’m only going to be heartbroken and more depressed than I am. Obviously I’m not a “catch” for many modern women, but I know the quality of women that DID want me. I do not like fuckbuddy arrangements, I truly believe it is special for two people to share for a lifetime. I am also health conscious and don’t want to go there. I’m generation X, so I’m a bit older too. I was raised mostly by women, so maybe that worked against me. A woman with more than a handful (preferably NONE) sex partners could never pairbond. The guy is never special. I mean, people are concerned about buying a used car with more than 2-3 owners, and you can cut your losses from that quickly. Maybe not the best analogy but some things are just not meant to be passed around. I don’t judge anyone for doing what they do but I have my preferences.
Whenever a woman challenges me I just look at her straight in the face and say “sure”.. and then I let her deal with the shock factor that I don’t give 2 shi@$ and I move on with my day. The next time I see her I see that she see’s me as a no-nonsense type guy and a deeper sense of respect for me. End of story.
Twin Turbo 😤
Best channel I have ever seen about dating. Straight to the point with great topics and logic
I am constantly in awe at how much we men have to look out for when dating a woman…being nice isnt enough, doing favors is bad, practically everything will make her lose respect for me, bending backwards and being chivalrous makes u look like a beta, and now there are fucking ‘subconscious’ tests as well. And money is big factor for them as well…seriously
So true😁😂🤣😃
So after 4 years how has your dating life turned out? I’m just curious.
There’s just waaaaaay too much room for backfire when one reacts in an uncharacteristic manner. Jealousy is not always a bad thing. I know a lot of ppl- women and men who tried to be the cool gf/bf (by not reacting to threats and cheating behaviours from the other person) just to find out the person was a serial cheater. Cheaters and players watch these videos too.
I remember that a girl and I were going to hang out but she tried to flake. When she said “Oh I can’t make it because…” an hour before, I left her in open for about a half hour and when I checked my phone, she left me three messages. We ended up hanging out and catching up. Ahhh living the life!
A lot of these dating advice channels are b.s. but this one is spot on! I know I know but for me and my experiences this is pure gold. Agree 100%. I realized that I failed their tests but only because I thought “naw she’s not playing games or testing me” but in fact consciously and subconsciously it was happening and I had a gut feeling but didn’t go with my gut feeling when I should’ve. Now I know and knowing is half the battle…Go Joe!!
moment of silence for those who are ignored and think they are being tested😂
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Boys..im about to pour out some liquor for our homies..
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My rule is this: If she cancels, then I will not ask her out again. It is then up to her to make it up to me by asking me out.
Just like sales negotiations, always be prepared to walk away.
Ian Butler exactly like sales negotiations. Whoever cares more about the sale will lose
Be wary of the ‘princess test’ as my step-mother calls it… the idea is basically a knight devotes his life to a princess and to prove his faith she tosses a napkin into a pit of dragons telling him to get it. She doesn’t value your life and is just testing to see how far you’ll go until you break.
She is not worth another thought
Both genders test each other when you’re dating. It’s part of getting to know one another. Or you can be straight up and tell her what you feel. Why any one settles for someone they have to walk on eggshells for, is beyond me. Her, “You’re lame.” Me, “You aren’t funny, learn some manners.” If you let her get away with rudeness aka bs. That’s how she’ll be for all of the relationship.
If a woman tries to make me jealous by telling him how awesome her ex is, where he took her, what he drives or how much he spent on her…I would say, that’s nice…you should get back with him he sounds awesome…and watch how they react lol
absolutely!!!!! …also say if he is so great why is he your ex
Wrong wrong wrong both of you. That’s failing the test
Yeah well I simply told one girl after about 3 weeks that ,no I’m done trying to impress you if your not interested or if you dont know that your going to stay with me by now. I guess you should leave. I’m not going to compete so make up your mind so she stuck around for about another month and I say so be it .good by .
@Denaro Fair why should u let women test u ? instead u should test them as this man said 😉
@Shital Jit it’s natural for us to test each other. We do this unconsciously rather we know it or not. That’s the nature of masculine and feminine relationships. Wouldn’t you think that we both want to see if the other is worthy. There is a really good book that’s I’ve read it’s called the way of the superior man. It’s available on YouTube as an audiobook. It’s a great book that gives great insight on masculine and feminine interactions
Unfortunately the testing never ends no matter how good you are at passing them
1. DIRECT VERBAL CHALLENGE
A. Agree and exaggerate it
B. Ignore it completely
C. Take it as a huge complement
2. JEALOUSY TEST
A. Don’t react negatively
3. FAVORS TEST
A. Don’t be easy, ask her to do a favor too.
B. Politely decline her big favor at the beginning stage
4. FLAKE TEST
A. She’s not interested in you
B. She could be testing you
C. Emergency came up (rare to happen)
Response positively, be cool about and let her re-engage with you.
Gentlemen, be cool and don’t be an easy prey. All the best.
The big favor part is really crappy. I declined a friend/date who is a model and way too ego-oriented who asked me to pick up a dress for her, to which I politely declined. She once left a bra in my backpack and I returned it to her job as a package deliverer… I think that beyond the occasional sex, nothing good is coming out of that and I only have that purpose as well. Such a bad thing.
Im a woman and just realized I do numbers 1 and 3 often, subconsciously. But I never do the jealousy test that’s childish and a red flag imo. I only “flake” for an emergency and I’ll always offer to reschedule if I’m interested.
“S-Tests” are good for the guy too, because they tell you more about the particular nature of each specific woman.
Here are the ways I’d advise to respond to these 4 tests..
1). Direct Verbal Challenges:
You simply respond authentically. And, if you [authentically] get emotionally bent out of shape from her verbal challenges, then this means you may not be adequately equipped to handle a relationship with this particular woman. Because, these tests are indicative of who this woman is and what there’s likely to be more of. So, if you inauthentically “pass” her tests, you will eventually fail them in the future, bcuz the authentic “you” is not equipt to handle everything that comes with her. This “authenticity” rule applies to all 4 tests.
2). Jealousy Test:
Speak up and voice if you were uncomfortable with her behavior and you felt it was inappropriate. Respectfully state your feelings and boundaries. Give her the opportunity to decide if she’s willing to respect and agree to your boundaries. If not, then you know she’s not the right woman for you. Thence, you’ve saved the both of you time, headaches and possible heartaches. And, you’ll have eloquently done so whilst honoring and maintaining your own sense of dignity.
3). Favors Test:
If favors become too big, too frequent, or inappropriate, then let her know how you feel. Then, allow her to decide if she’s willing to respect your feelings and boundaries, or not. If she does like you and/or respect you enough, then she’ll stop asking for these favors. If she doesn’t stop, then simply let her know that you won’t tolerate it and she’ll have to either change her behavior, or you’ll have to end things with her. Then, the ball is in her court. (And, you’ll maintain your power and your dignity).
4). Flake Test:
Respond exactly the same way as the “favors test”. Be reasonable and fair. But, express how you feel if it’s crossed the line into disrespectful behavior (whether being excessively late with no calls, or making excuses, or being frequently late). Whenever she begins displaying disrespectful behavior in any way, respectfully
let her know that it’s not okay, and it won’t be tolerated. Then, it’s up to her to decide if she’s willing to put in the extra effort to change her behavior. If she’s not, then you know that you aren’t that important to her, and you can simply cut ties with her. This way you’ll prevent yourself from wasting any extra time with the wrong person.
Brilliantly put. I wish I could give you a hundred thumbs ups.
The jealousy test is an interesting one, until now I didn’t know about it. My ex-used it on me and it completely messed with my head coursing retro-active jealousy. Wish I had seen this video a while ago! Keep them coming.