I Approached 2,000 Women In 5 Years… Here’s What I Learned

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• Hard to find any women to approach. When I do always get rejected straight away. Spending another birthday by myself. Hoping to get a girlfriend before Christmas. But in the last twenty years I’ve never had a long term girlfriend, actually never had a girlfriend. But I’ll keep trying. 😊

• 12 minutes and no one word talking about the 80% of success chances in cold approach...LOOK

• Good advice. Will share with my son when he is a bit older.

• Advice in videos like these reminds me of the Kecak dance in the movie Baraka. Everyone sings the same chant, the "truth" about how to be loved by women, until someone says something new and then everyone follows the new "truth". But I guess it pays good money on youtube.

• Great advice. As a veteran of the "approach wars" who is now happily married, I submit the #1 requirement for success is to TAKE ACTION. Get out there and do it. Don't watch endless videos to learn and succumb to analysis paralysis. Forget the cold feet and just jump right in.

  • Yes!

• Did you have a manual counter?

• This is all nonsense. So what? Everybody is out there faking confidence. Nah. If she is attracted to you, you will know it. No matter what you say or do won't matter if she is not attracted to you. Signs of attraction are easy to spot -- obvious.

  • @@paulsmith5611 I've worked on my confidence for many years, so I could see how important our confidence is for women. It's mostly body language and the way you speak, and, of course, what you say. I'm cocky, bold, and funny. If the girl doesn't get nervous in a minute, it's not worth trying. Nervousness is by far the best sign of attraction. When she gets nervous, I usually accuse her of being in love with me, which makes her even more nervous. If you do it in front of her friends, it works wonders. You can even hit on them too, which makes you look extremely confident.

  • @@pinbota Look confident how? A simple conversation won't work if she isn't attracted to you and you can't change that, at least not in the few minutes or seconds you have to talk to her. And over confidence is pushy and annoying. I'm confident enough to start a conversation but not stupid enough to keep going after I figured out she isn't interested. Think of a random salesperson you see on the street or going door to door. If I'm really not interested and say no I mean it...yet they continue with the sales pitch. And it pisses me off. If I truly am considering buying the product they will know right away.

  • Looking confident works wonders.

• Here is what I would have learned. Don't cold approach women. Very little return on investment. Can be seen as creepy. Can be seen as desperation. Now if they give you signals? Sure. If you are at a mutual social event? Sure. But in public? 99.9% of the time they just want to be left alone.

  • No, a man that is confident and carries himself a certain way will never be seen as desperate or creepy by a woman he approaches in public! Please understand this fellas .. I’ve approached a decent amount of women and I’ve never got the sense that women saw me as lesser. Most cases the women lit up and liked that I approached her. Most women want to be approached as long as it’s a sensible time and place

  • I’m sorry to hear that. Truly.

  • If you are an average guy, you can know 5-8 women out of 100 tries. It worth despite all the negative things only if you not have other possibilities with better odds (like warm approach).

  • @@TrippAdvice It's been my experience

  • Not my experience nor my friends nor my clients

• Great job Tripp, love your work mate. 💪👍

  • Thanks bro

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