If You Ever Get GHOSTED, Say This! | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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Have you been in a relationship where someone completely disappeared or "ghosted" you?
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I say to myself today, because I’m going through it currently. That he lost out on an incredible beautiful woman who has so much love, compassion, and loyalty to give.
Not only did he ghost me, he responded that he is NOT ghosting me but agrees we need to talk, so he asks when am I available to meet up and I respond in 3 days, and responded ok, I will call you to let you know. Then went silent……
Anyone whose actions and behavior will destroy my spirit.. is certainly not anyone I want to be with.
If they ghost you, THEY lose, not you! They failed to value YOU. Value yourself more than they did, and realize that it’s them, not you! ❤
Whats wrong in this time and in this World with man/ people /humans?!;) I pray that they will be happy one day , hopefully nobody treat them like they treat others !!!
Dodged a bullet – that is for certain. when a man ghosts me, it gives me time to reflect on the relationship as a whole, and I usually see where it was doomed to fail and that guy, as immature as ghosting is, really did me a favor and saved me for something better.
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If someone ghosts you they have done you a favor by showing you their true colors. It will spare you from much worse mental anguish later on down the line. Ghosting is cold,shallow and cowardly so it’s better that you don’t end up with someone like that. Respect yourself. Standing alone is a sign of strength. It’s a pity there are so many people that are so weak and spineless that don’t possess the social skills to say a proper goodbye and give their reasons for it. My guess is that these are the kinds of people that continually fail at relationships because they reap what they sow.
Have you met him😂. That is exactly who he is.
Can’t agree more!!
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This!!!
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I cut all my hair off.
@@IdaWillis-wm1ubwhat for ?
I just think different thoughts now , that I’m good enough , I’m beautiful it’s his loss , I used to cry get depressed but not worth it self love important
Why do you keep yapping bad advice? You’re like the English teacher that barely speaks the language.
1. Their actions speak to who they are not who I am.
2. This must not be my person.
3. Their rejection is God’s protection.
4. The best is yet to come.
Facts/Truths & 100% Agreed
Wow , the third one
We were in the early stages of dating and one day he ghosted on me. It hurt me a lot so I started to meditate and found comfort in my spirituality. What I discovered was that people don’t want to hurt you. They’re suffering and they don’t know how to care for people and they lack communication. Never take their issues personally . You are beautiful and you will be loved.
. I knew that he was hurting and I knew that I wanted someone who was capable of loving me. Recently he messaged me and apologized for ghosting on me. I don’t feel bitter towards him. I appreciated the apology and I’m glad I dodged someone who was toxic and insecure
Thank you for this comment, it gave comfort ❤
Best comment here!
You are so mature and deserve so much better! ❤
Same thing here. She gave me the warning signs. After 15 months of a great relationship bam in 24 hrs I got ghosted. She dropped all communication. Unbelievable pain she caused. As of today, week 6 nothing. I’m 90% over it and feel real empathy for her. No more anger.
@@santokki.007
You’ve obviously been burned. I feel the same way. People that need constant validation are never ever thinking about you. F em
Mat, you are absolutely right!… My best friend was dating a guy for months and one day he disappeared. She was devastated, and kept thinking something happened to him. He called her after a month with no real explanation, then she got a call from his new wife. The time he ghosted her he was getting married to another woman and enjoying their honeymoon. It took my friend a while to get over it, but then she met the perfect man for her. She has now been married for 6+ years. The best came for her, the best came for you. I am looking forward to my “best yet to come”. Thank you 😊
I actually agree with this Matt guy. I got ghosted by a guy, took it personally and then the next guy I dated he was the complete opposite of the guy who ghosted me and I’ve been with him now for 4 years. I will say looking back on the guy who ghosted me there was something wrong with him and I rather get ghosted at the beginning and move on instead of wasting my time because ghosting is a cowardly thing to do and it’s pointless to figure out a guy like that. Ladies, we are smart and we can move on.
@@countryfan2859 you are not all smart
I got ghosted by my fiancé, blindsided. Now, I realize the red flags in her and her Issues. Moved on and feeling ready to move forward. Meeting a new gal for coffee tomorrow and I can’t wait!😊
When someone ghosts me, I think, it’s their issue and they don’t deserve me, my time, or my energy.
When he came back around and all of a sudden I was busy he finally asked if I was ever going to meet him again. I said “after being ghosted, hell no”. Felt very good
I’m currently in this situation for a couple of days now. I’m so heartbroken and in so much pain.. 💔. Listening to you has encouraged me. Yes! The best is yet to come.
Absolutely. Good success!
Varinia I have been there too, ghosted… several times actually, and it truly is a blessing in disguise! Keep your head held high beauty! Stay close to God & trust him in all things. He created your future husband specifically for YOU! It’s a clear indication of God clearing away someone not meant for and undeserving of you! You have a future filled with more beauty, abundance and the answer to your dreams then you can even imagine! Our Lord is a God of Yes and Amen! He WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN, so do not doubt Him! He only has the very best for YOU! Trust that He will weed out those who are in the way of your beautiful dreams 💕 it’s ok to shed a tear, but why cry over someone who doesn’t deserve your precious love? Smile and thank Jesus that you are one step closer to the dream boat you have been praying for XOXO
Varinia * wouldn’t let me edit my typing
@@CL-le7km Hello, you can edit, just click on the three dots on the left and choose edit.. 😊. Thank you so much for the encouraging words 💕.
@virginia luvega, by this u mean a man engaged your romantic feelings drew them out kept u going romantically and dropped u ? was.sex involved? better to keep sex off the table …until the relationship forms and becomes solid.
“Their rejection is God’s protection” is very true. He ghosted me suddenly after chasing me. I was in terrible mess for a few months. Now we are communicating again and then absolute silence on his side again. Found out he’s avoidant attachment style and everyone on the Internet said to RUN! as dating an avoidant is tiring. So yeah, I am just gonna let this “relationship” end for my own sanity!
@Richard Nwoko what and where is this number
@@gemstonefoundations5817 these are all spammers ..dont get into it
Omg don’t lose 1 year of your life on this man I did that and regret it when you’ll be there without a child and commitment
since everyone is not For everyone, look at it like this, 1 in 10 will buy whatever sales ppl sell, n u r like that, u r selling .yourself …1 in 10 guys will buy, (average sales numbers) whatever the reason…so look at it like u need high numbers of men to burn thru, lots of exposure…..1 guy out of that number will buy…you.. then u have to qualify him… do u want him ?
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u can play n practice on guys that u do Like, the moves on him, practice on him,.plan pick up.initiate…they ll like that…n let u do all the work,…u can practice,..get smoother w men that way,…
its like fishing, a good fisherman will tell u they take some off their hooks n throw back in the water, some u will throw back in the water…u dont want them…others u dont want will let u practice on them….your other moves n scenarios, til u rrelaxed with any man and dont take it to heart always.
rejection has to happen lots, for u to find ur ďiamond guy, so get uswd to being rejected and rejecting men, dont take it so seriously,..stop lerring rejection hurt you by gerring used to it. men grow tough skin by having had many beautiful women reject them.. qwhen they ask for dates.
Men r surprised if u ask them out…so do it..use this as practice…llet them reject u if they want…u can keep a whole relationship going urself by doing all the asking date pla ning..picnic making etc..initiating loving. they may even let u marry them. Try it. Just dont let them hurt you, grow a thivker skin..con trol your own emotions..n enjoy yourself.
If a person ghosts you it means they don’t know how to behave in an emotionally responsible way, if you take them back with no sound justification please be aware that you would send the message that you accept being treated poorly
Excellently, stated! It’s the truth! I’ve experienced the being Ghosted recipient. It’s shattering!!
“Emotional responsibility.” I like that.
We want to know what happened with you though and how long it took for her to explain why she moved out without telling you??
Did you contact her???
We teach people how to treat us. If we take them back it’s in essence telling them it’s ok to treat us poorly.
And they will do it again….over and over until you stop allowing them back
Someone said, ‘if you get ghosted 👻 just move on, do not disturb the dead 💀’
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Haha I love that!!
Yup respect the dead..
My condolences 😂😂
@@tabithabryan😅
This guy ghosted me in February. I never called or reached out to him via social media. 3 months later, ( May 2022), he’s all over my IG liking my posts and leaving comments. I ignore him and like and respond to everyone else’s comments but his. I NEVER made a post about him because he is not that important for me to be bashing and crying over. He sees how I’ve moved on with my life ( still single, but living) with a smile and I know it’s KILLING HIM! People who ghost you are players. In the end, they play themselves cuz they missed out on a good thing and THAT’S why my “ghoster ” has reappeared after 90 days. I will not respond or entertain a conversation with a gutless coward.
I love this ☝🏻….
Ditto. They are gutless cowards.
So you are just as bad as him then
@@doranicholas438 LMAOOOOO! Nah, I’m BETTER than him! I inadvertently beat him at his own game. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Thank you for your video
I was ghosted n then I found the love of my life! It hurt but was the best thing for me.
I say to myself that I don’t want someone that disrespects me like that in my life. I don’t want to be with someone that is so careless of my feelings.
Unfortunately, it is still hard to not wonder if all that was experienced with that person was real and true, since it was so easy for him to walk away…
a rule of thumb, dont let your heart into it until its proven solid
I feel this. You so wonder if it was real at all.
He obviously was wearing a big mask.
Exactly what I’m feeling atm. Mixed emotions
If he’s an avoidant then his feelings for you would make it harder to stay
When someone ghosts you, it’s not because you did something wrong, it’s because they are either immature or don’t have the courage to communicate and be honest with you. 💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
I hear ya – Goddess of Love!
Getting ghosted – it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it!
But you can reframe it – and start thinking of it as he doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway?
He’s basically showing you his hand early as opposed to later on – when you have wasted all your time and energy on him!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde – Dating Tips
He is showing you who he is.. Forget him. Dont’ let guys’ like this waste your time ladies .
Preach! Bad communicators get the boot 👢 Selfish dumbasses! I ain’t got time for that level of immaturity!
@@suecole5543 truth woman.
I dare to disagree. I think with normal, healthy and good people it’s better to have the talk. If they are toxic, or could pose danger ghosting is fully acceptable. We need to stop treating every situation the same. YES in MOST cases, ghosting is not ok. But in other cases, it’s a protective measure.