Feeling emotionally exhausted by dating? You’re not alone.
So many of my coaching clients report that they find dating DRAINING.
They’ve had too many interactions that haven’t led anywhere and now they’re struggling to feel MOTIVATED to even try.
If this is YOU here are 3 quick tips to rediscover your motivation:
1. Take the pressure off yourself. If you feel demotivated, then feel bad about yourself because you feel demotivated, you will heap on emotional pressure. Instead reassure yourself that it’s natural for motivation to ebb and flow, and yours will come back.
2. Find the level at which you can engage with dating right now. I love to teach people how to meet one another IRL: if you’re into that great (take a look at my other videos). If that’s too much then dial it back. Try taking up a new hobby or interest instead.
3. Keep your expectations set to neutral. Rather than getting really excited, then really let down, take a more step by step approach to dating. Your mindset is “they seem nice right now, let’s see what happens.”
Finally consider what you actually find fun (!) the more enjoyment you can find in dating, the easier it will be for you to motivate yourself to continue.
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Why do you need me to be motivated to date?
funny how I don't want to date but such videos just get recommended 😂😂
meh. Woman only want the 0.0001% of hot, tall, successful guys. But those guys most of the time don't care about settling down (because they have options). So they'll just use woman. Which leaves woman single and lonely, longing for their 'perfect' husband. If you want love, don't look for it. 'make it.'
Men: lost motivation to date*
Women: "We need you to feel motivated to date!"
Men: "If you need us and we don't need you, why don't you chase us and show us why you're worth it?"
Women: lost motivation to date*
Dating is a waste of time. Girls make up their mind in the first 5 seconds.
Changing it up today, wish the ladies a bit of luck...