Men GIVE Minimal Effort For THESE 4 Reasons

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• You gon be at 2 mil subs soon 😱🔥

• Unfortunately my bf is immersed in "red pill" crap. The other day he asked me if I thought he was a "simp.". 🙄

  • 😂😂😂😂 he need to log off SMH

  • Tell him you don't date simps

  • ​@@sigabou7296He confessed to me that he used to be a "passport bro" - he honestly went to India and was all set to marry an Indian virgin because he had so much trauma from dating "western " women. Thankfully his family talked him out of it. This is a Haitian black man from Brooklyn we are talking about!
    These red pill influencers are poisoning a generation of men...insecure guys who don't do good with women (my bf is wealthy but he's dorky and shy and didn't have a lot of luck w women growing up to he's insecure about women only wanting his money) eat that stuff up

    He has also told me "like almost all women you have no gratitude" and "all women lie cheat and steal you just have to catch them.". I wonder how long he expects me to be around. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    Sad thing is he's already nice guy and I love him and we'd be great together (we have so much in common - went to the same junior high and high school, only eight years apart, both went to Icy colleges, both lawyers, grew up blocks from each other, same taste in food, music, movies, literature, hobbies politics, etc... It was seriously love at first.meet for both of us. He said he was so excited when we first met and it had nothing to do with sex. We are both socially awkward dorks too lol. But I have dealt with my trauma and bad childhood experiences and he sadly hasn't. I hope this doesn't destroy us because I believe he's the man for me!

  • What is red pill crap?

  • @@helenemakuch8366 Guys who think they alone understand the truth abount women and gender relations. Basically they complain a lot about "modern" and "western" women and whine about wanting to return to "traditional" gender roles...you know, when women knew their place and stayed in it. 😅

• 4:50 also theres a common notion “Less is more” (which is true in a lot of cases but some dudes take it to the extreme lol)

  • Exactly! 💯

• My boyfriend is like this. Sometimes I don't even know if we are together or not. He never makes an effort 😔. Everytime Im the one asking, let's meet.

  • And you still being with him (even getting with him in the first place) is the reason why so many males get away with straight up unacceptable behaviour.

  • It's called friend zoned, like you did it to him...

  • and I would be the one to leave him alone too!!!

  • Sorry to hear this, but turn the tables around. Stop being the one always making the effort and see what happens. Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally in case things don't turn out well. Goodluck 🌻😊

  • Geeze! 🙄😳💔🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🙏

• One guy that liked me, I rang him twice and he didn’t answer so I never called or never even texted cha……..Couple months later he said I am met to chase him. My reply was I rang u twice and no response so I must keep ring u I don’t think so 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 whatever they put in I put in the same. But communication is the key for me💯

  • Most of the men I met on dating sites and a man I was recently involved with gave minimal effort. I was reaching out and showing interest more than them. I finally said enough is enough and I’m done ✅ chasing men and done ✅ with dating sites. 💯

  • ​@@QueenRonnyThat's what you deserve "minimal effort"

  • @@josevarela4271 keep your negative comment to yourself. BE GONE!!! ✌🏽

  • True facts as you should of

• I appreciate the way you show up in the world. You make a positive impact on those who need to hear, see, and meet people like you. Glad you exist, best friend, aka Mr. Steph-fine... not Urkel. Thank you for being in your purpose. 💕💯👋🏼

  • Thank you so much 😊

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks  You're very welcomed. 🙏🏽

  • @HalfSweetness Beautifully said!

  • I second that.

  • Thats so fabulous Miss lady..

• The first one was a big reason why I left my last relationship. The last straw for me was when I found out he was taking relationship advice from a ex he was with for 10 years...

  • I would of left 👈 to 😮

  • I would have left too 🤦‍♀️ smh!

• You are speaking to me!!! I was recently involved for a Minimal Effort Man for 2 years. It’s past time to move on from him because I want more than this. Stephan, thank you for always giving great advice and your advice always helps me. 🙏🏽💙

• This came at the perfect time!

• Men are too complicated for me.

  • Amen

  • Or too simple
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  • I feel the same way!

  • They not complicated! They are demonic, apathetic and selfish! 99.9%. Many think women are to be used and abused and any man should qualify for any woman! Regardless of status