Show Him You Have Class…Do This! | Relationship Advice for Woman by Mat Boggs

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• Great loving story ❤

• What a beautiful love story ❤

• Congratulations!!! Powerful story!❤❤❤

• I am only 5 minutes in and I am LOVING this story 😭 OMG!

• I do think much of this is true, but ironically, and people may very much disagree, she was only successful with a man that she wasn’t initially crazy about and found less attractive. Therefore, she was able to stick to her standards. Had he been “smoking hot” she may not have managed the situation the same way. The biggest take away isn’t just about honesty and standards. It’s also about self awareness. The more you want someone, the more you act like you reeaaally want them to like you, and it shows in your choices and how you act with them. It’s “pick me” energy. It’s your ability to still stand your ground despite all those feelings and hoping he likes you that make the difference. You have to honor what you want from a relationship more than you chase the butterflies you feel.

  • Bingo! I agree with you on all points here. I had a coach tell me that when looking at online profiles to read them first, and if what they said matched my standards and resonated, then go ahead and look at their photos.

  • So you've pretty much just described what Chris did I think. Hot, fit woman who wasn't attracted to them then put him in a situationship but it was okay because she was "honest", and he just kept agreeing to her terms. At no point did this story include Chris saying "that sounds good and this is my standard". I dont think this is as feel good a story as it's being made out to be simply because it had a happy ending.

  • @@catche85yes, Chris did act this way. And that’s unfortunate. It’s hard to say how nice of a story it really is because all we really know is that she wasn’t that attracted to him and he agreed to anything she wanted. And he also lost weight. For his own happiness or because he felt insecure- because he knew she was disappointed in his weight and trying to look past it? I didn’t really get warm fuzzies with this story.

  • I agree 10000000%%%%% because otherwise this story would had ended otherwise 😂

• I never give hope to a person I am not into him and I see that he has feelings for me!!! I have friends to hang around!

  • Actually, me neither. I don't see the point. The same when I am into a man who doesn't correspond and only wants to catch up, I immediately take distances.

  • It's a diff way, she told him she wasn't feeling romance for him but they still hung out and were friends got too k ow each other . ...he celebrated her n showed love toward her they enjoyed the level of love friends love,..n she included physical touch hugging n dating,..he understood the limit n still stayed with her..she eventually fellin live with the love he gave n the comittment he showed to them. She knew him n opened her heart finally fully. I get it n he was physically fit finally in the end he lost 60. pounds

  • @@BetterTogether300 the way he went all out for Valentine’s day….he was way more in love with her and hoping to be more. Her own dad even spoke up that everyone could see he was into her and not to tease him. The only reason it’s not a bad story is that she happened to develop feelings for him. I think it’s hard for most people to risk breaking another person’s heart.

  • @@Mayfloweralways ur right, u don't want any hearts broken, being honest n upfront us imp. Finding a different way that worked for kthem was OK too as long as both ppl weren't getting

• Please thank Mel for sharing her story IT was beautiful and resonated with me deeply.

• I would die from feeling guilty 😮 maybe its her truth but i would horroble knowing someone is developing feelings for me , getting used to , get into me by touch, intimate conversations and investing in me while I date other people and tel him to wait , wait, wait … it’s not classy to me . What if she left him ? Would he gain 100 kg? Would he kill himself ? It’s a happy ending but it could have been a case that would broke him for life !

  • I agree, this has to be the exception not the rule. If this guy was really attractive he would have told her to take a hike, I think he didn't have enough self esteem to say no and for that I feel sorry for him, and I am a woman.

• This is such an amazing story. I love this.❤😊

• Hello Mat, I always feel enlightened by your amazing relationship advice videos, these words of wisdom are so true. 💜