Because most men are immature/insecure and/or just looking for a hook up.

@@Mayfloweralways ur right, u don’t want any hearts broken, being honest n upfront us imp. Finding a different way that worked for kthem was OK too as long as both ppl weren’t getting

I agree 10000000%%%%% because otherwise this story would had ended otherwise 😂

I agree, this has to be the exception not the rule. If this guy was really attractive he would have told her to take a hike, I think he didn’t have enough self esteem to say no and for that I feel sorry for him, and I am a woman.

Here’s what is hard when dating– realizing that more guys will leave than stay. Or guys that want to use you, they stay in orbit but never commit. I can only say that when i found a wonderful man, i had been burned so much that i was rooting for the wrong ones to go- even if i liked them. There’s immense peace in being happy yet open- and knowing only a great guy is going want to make the effort to fit himself into your life. Other than being kind and interesting, you’re kind of a spectator- observing who hasn’t run away or tried to manipulate you.