Swedes Want Women to Pay for Them on First Date ๐ธ๐ช
Swedish men are not against women paying for them on the first date. And this is why…
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Ok then, I’m moving to Sweden๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป
Full video is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnYw3UtOE3k&t=308s ๐ธ๐ช
I’m happy i’m from Poland๐
Relevance?
@@_MC529 No, i’ m a woman and our men pay for women, very nice of them๐
@@HannaMDx so you’re a prostitute??
โ@@HannaMDxthats why in polish interview, you said you find them “boring” and that you prefer foreigners.
@@gliboperuta9213 not me; sorry to hear that though
One of the few truly emancipated countries
Lazy woman spotted
@@Me_di man here but ok
โ@@Me_dihuh?
And then they go and get themselves a little wife in Asia because it’s a mess in what they expect…๐
yeah its a bit weird. seems like the swedish equality feminism-based model doesn’t work well for men there. it only enables women to be hypergamous more. lots of them can’t find wife there, thats why they are forced to travel abroad to search for a wife. lots of swedish dudes in Thailand and Philippines with beautiful asian baddies, but they can also be found in Brazil and Colombia with hot latinas. its not a perfect system and it has flaws. but even some swedish women complain a bit about the swedish system, guys not paying or approaching and needing alcohol to talk to them as we saw in swedish interview where swedish women dragged swedish guys for being boring and not dominant enough and some of them claiming they prefer foreigners because of it. they dont have a concensus.
โ@@gliboperuta9213 let’s be honest, it’s exactly the same for western europe and scandinaves countries.
Well for the white dudes anyway.
@@broflo8859 yes and also Russia and neighbor countries, but slightly different, it`s women who are always seeking a foreign man
Yes, yes, I’ve noticed.
But in reality it’s a way of doing things that’s only good for the short term…
Let me explain:
You can see a woman at ease in her country because that’s the way it is, she can’t do otherwise.
Then she may see you as a way out (some of them have not so bad situations but just want to rest…. Women talk a lot, you know ๐ )
So once they’ve arrived in Western countries, they opt for a different way of behaving, because they say to themselves why should Western women be like that and not me? The best thing is for you to go and live in your own country.
There’s another problem: if you have children and you break up with her or not, but she decides to leave with the children without your consent…
But otherwise, this phenomenon of excessive feminism is new in my country, France, and I don’t want to be mean, but it was Sweden and especially the United States that introduced this thing to us just under 10 years ago.
No kidding, we didn’t have this in our country before!
There are always exceptions, but it’s starting to take off unfortunately. But we’re not like the Swedes.
Then I noticed something horrible
Swedish men, as soon as they have the courage to talk to a woman, are too outspoken, bordering on perverse. I think it’s the result of a lack of experience ๐
It’s a shame to see a beautiful man and then when a word comes out of his mouth it’s vulgar.
The scales are shifting ๐ฅฒ
@@murielleh9809 everything you said can be use for occidentale women aswell
Also we had feminism in France way before the last 10 years. It’s just push to the extreme nowadays.
I just turned 30, as soon as I discovered other cultures then France, I’m not even bothering anymore.
When men compete for women at home, you genuinely meet and date in other countries.
Itโs a different culture, they have a different perspective. Their men donโt pay for the dates but they surely respect their women more than other parts of the world.
Indeed, I like this attitude
I’ll take it any time
Parasitic behavior does not beget respect.
@@MCPunk55you would know
I don’t know it sounds weird for me. I always feel proud when I pay for a woman.
Happy Friday, Marina โค! If the woman offers to pay on the first date and if everything is going well with her and I throughout the date, I would absolutely go on a second date with her. It’s always a nice move
Women who have money are awesome not a burden.
Love this attitude!
I like this additude overall, I will argue that the one who invites is the one who pays. If swedish society is such that both men and women invite on first dates equally, then great. ๐
No Most of the time men invite
@@marvin2678 well, thats not so good.
@@marvin2678 are you tracking me or somdthing? ๐
God I love swedish men โคโคโคโคโคโค๐ข l am going to Sweden โคโคโคโคโคl wish all men around the world like them ๐
Well then you should meet danish men – the values are mostly the same. But we have cheaper alkohol and better Beers ๐
โ@@Rex1987you man German ?
@@Rex1987marry me
Nordics and Iberia are Ws for dating
BOOM! Since the woman is an adult, she’s expected to be self-sufficient! My man just spoke the frigging gospel!
1. 100% self-sufficiency is a toxic myth) Why did two self-sufficient superdudes even go on a date with each other? hmm… are they treacherously lacking something?
2. A self-sufficient person, as expected, provides for his daily life, fills his frige with food himself, pays his utility bills, is able to buy clothes and shoes for himself, etc. (in the material aspect). And what does romantic dates and other courtship rituals have to do with it? Yes, she has money and she can pay, but then what can he do for her?
@@GreenJasmine7 Simple. Emotional support, love, actual financial help – splitting bills, etc – children. You know, the very basic things women refuse to provide. Don’t what’s going with number 1 but whatever, you thought what you thought…
โ@@MCPunk5550/50 only works out for the man. The truth is you can’t split pregnancy or childbirth. When the kid is born, most of it falls on the woman. She splits the bill but does 90% of the household chores and child rearing because people feel it’s a woman’s job. He gets half his bills paid and she does the rest of the work.
This is true independence
First guy’s accent is so cute.
If this happened in Nigeria, nobody would ever go on dates.. cus one party could never pay..
Why ?
@@marvin2678 nigerian ladies exclusively believe the man pays for dates. Dates include a restaurant and fine dinning..
It’s 50/50, but I guess it depends on the culture. We are all adults here
They respect women more in that regards
i love smart educated independent women
Yeaahhh! AUTONOMY !! No female submission! ๐ช
I’m a man and I’m telling you , there’s something wrong with your mind if you want the women pay for you my friend.
what’s happened to the men in this world ?!! how the European men reach too low like this ?!!!
they want to save a few euro’s!!!!
Feminism buddy ๐, equals
So what exactly IS wrong ? Why should i pay for the Woman, an Independent adult ?
lol you are a funny guy. You think paying for someone makes you masculine while in reality it only makes you prone for being played and being taken advantage of. Having to pay women to get dates with them sounds pretty pathetic and desperate to me.
โ@@cobrakaineverdies5006Then don’t. Men expect to be fed and fcked. Prostitution still exists in Sweden and because men look for it but thesr men are used to have everything given to them by free
Yh exactly lol if your paying for everythink it’s makes you more feminine tbh