If youâre always hesitating before asking for their number, chances are you might need be overthinking flirting.
Instead of being a fun part of talking to someone youâre attracted to, so many people I work with feel like flirting is this big, special performance they have to do⊠and because they donât yet feel comfortable flirting, assume that theyâre missing the secret recipe to asking someone out.
If your lack of confidence with flirting is holding you back, letâs keep this far, far simpler.
If youâve started a conversation with someone (online or IRL), if youâve expressed that youâre enjoying speaking to them, and youâve asked them to meet up. That is enough!!
In fact, much more than that in a first interaction could feel like way too much.
So donât let your fear that you havenât done âenoughâ, or youâre not good enough hold you back from asking someone on a date. #shorts
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Ooph now this is a tricky subject. Iâm not here to shame you for feeling attraction to her, but you do have to be careful about how you express that attraction. Women deal with A LOT of unwanted attention, and you donât want to accidentally put yourself in the âurgh, not againâ bracket when you talk to her.
So youâve got to balance expressing interest in a way thatâs clear enough to be understood (that rules asking for directions outâŠ) without over shooting and ending up making both of you feel awkward.
My rule of thumb for this is to avoid all bodily compliments (that means no mention of her eyes, her smile, her legs!) and instead complimenting how she does something. âI like how confidently you just walked in hereâ, âI like how elegant you areâŠâ walks the line! But only just đ If youâre relatively inexperienced with meeting women IRL and would like some help getting started head over to www.hayleyquinn.com/attraction – I have a free online masterclass for you starting on September 6th. âșâș Watch the full version â
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