“The 9 SECRET WAYS To Make Him Worry About LOSING YOU!” | Stephan Speaks

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• If a man doesn't truly love or care about you, no matter what you do, he wont care if he loses you or not.

  • 💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

  • Most definitely!

  • He's not speaking about those men who don't care. Why are women wasting their energy with men who don't care for them is more the problem IMO, not the men who don't care.

  • Exactly. Is all about how the guy feels also

  • If he never have feelings for u in that term. No matter what u do. He won’t be feeling u

• WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY AND FINALLY MOVED ON WITH YOUR LIFE THAT'S WHEN THEY WANT TO COME BACK!!! IT NEVER FAILS ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY KNOW THEY LOST A GOOD PERSON 💯💯💯💯

  • Boom 💥 💥💥

  • That part!!!

  • Every time!!!

  • @shay Marie so true

  • Peace and quiet balance is not his Cup of tea !

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  • What is it by when a man says after you ask him what do you need? And he says All I need is your love...instead of saying your all I need.

  • @marilyn Serrano-Soto I love

  • @katlego kelesitse this really work out for me

• Great points: 1) Be your own peace in order to be his peace 2) Speak love and positivity into him 3) Find out and tend to his desires and needs 4) Take care of yourself 5) Be transparent & learn to listen to him 6) Create your own world in your relationship 7) Learn how to find balance in the relationship as a team 8) Give consequences and rewards 9) Be willing to walk away . Powerful instructive words to execute and see if he is truly the correct man. Thanks.

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  • Thanks so much. I'm already listening to this at triple speed. It's a common thing for me lately.

  • Thanks Simone for sharing the points!

  • Yes ma'am thanks so much.

  • Nice thx you for listing

• Stephen I’ve learned no matter how positive, uplifting and encouraging I am to my Kings. If they’re struggling with their own Demons nothing positive will manifest except for the peace of leaving. I’m Happy and wish blessings and Happiness to all!!! Life is too short to deal with ANYONE man OR woman that don’t know, love or respect themselves.

  • Yvonne I have learned that as well. You said the right thing”demons”. I have been there, gone thought it for years with a few people and being a growing Woman in Christ … It is what it is then battling with demons

  • Yvonne, well said! Yes and amen!

  • You are correct I was all this to a man who has demons, insecurity issues, gossip like a woman etc.

  • Amen exactly what i just dealt with. I loved my husband with all my heart but he’s dealing with his own demon/issues so i had to leave

• 1 be his peace. 2 speak love and positivity 3 needs and desires 4 take better care of yourself 5 appearence 6 have your own world 7 balance in the relationship 8 consequences 9 be able to walk away.

  • Ty

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  • You're perfectly on point!

• I've catered to this man. I've loved him. I've fed him. I've been quiet. I've spoken calmly. And I've gotten nothing but a man that takes. He's under the belief that I'm here to serve him and has given just enough when he deems the time right. Flowers on Valentine's Day and my birthday. Because that's "common."
  The only time I get the proper attention from him, is when I lose my cool. THEN I get reciprocation. This is not the type of relationship I want. I don't want to have to get angry to be properly attended to and loved. Who does that?
  I refuse to keep repeating myself.

  • I've been through that ...trust me leaving was WONDERFUL

  • Ditto . Amen

  • I wasn’t sure if you wrote this or if I wrote it! I felt this whole post. I think we have narcissistic men.

  • Exactly

• A woman treats you how she wants to be treated first. Then she treats you how you treat her.

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • yep

  • Very true

  • True

  • Real 💯

• After 18 years, my former became someone who I did not know. It was not worth endangering my life, so I:" learned the lessons;, forgave him,; forgave myself; closed the doors and left". Peace is what's important. No harm, no foul.

  • your so brave!amazing.

• If a man really loves you, he will never let you walk out of his life and if he knows that he's the cause of all of the problems but doesn't want to be held accountable, then that's when he'll let you go. I realized that i was a gem and i wasn't valued or appreciated, so i left.