“The 9 SECRET WAYS To Make Him Worry About LOSING YOU!” | Stephan Speaks

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• No amount of peace of positivity can make a man appreciate you and not want to lose you. It's about them and what he wants and what's to be at that particular time. Women don't bend over backwards always, these men treat us like trash nomatter how soft, feminine, loving etc we are

• Nobody wants to deal with war but what do they expect when they stopped being who you met? People create havoc amongst themselves and then blame you for not allowing them to play on you and your emotions. Like you said, you have to be your own peace.❤Thank you.

• If they really Love you they will not make it hard for you. They will not make you feel confused or left out. How they treat you is how they feel about it. So no matter how smart, sexy, beautiful if they are not into you it will show on how they treat you. Lets focus on our own self and make a better version of ourselves.

• Pray that God sends you the Man that's for you! That's how you get the man you deserve! Blessings Everyone❤

• The part about being my own peace and making sure I didn't have my own demons deeply resonated with me. No one wants to come home to war, but you bring home war when you walk with your own war all the time. Thank you for this perspective, you're so insightful

• So true. I have work, kids and school. But I have dedicated myself to loving myself. I’m down three dress sizes, I’m working on myself and asking the Lord to help me in the areas where I’m struggling. And I have cut off all the negative folks. I have decided to be by myself.

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• It's not that difficult: show love, be his shoulder, ear & rock, don't threaten his stability, be affectionate, forgive without throwing things in his face & be his friend. If you have a real friendship the rest happens naturally anyway

  • All of that?

  • Our relationship is satisfying but at 70 yo my husband gets frustrated & depressed. It effects his mood & he’s always had a sharp tongue and I’m sorry, afterwords. I finally realize that it affects my attitude towards the relationship now and it’s difficult I imagine for both of us we’ve been together for 43 years and I see how this is a negative affect on our relationship that we didn’t have over the years. Sure we had our ups and downs.

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• While you might have clicked on this video to “keep him” if you implement these changes to yourself, you grow to be a person NO ONE wants to loose. This is a manual on how to increase your value for yourself and others via self growth. Aye 🙌🏽⚡️

  • BINGO!

• No wonder some relationships are so draining. You do your best and they take you for granted. It seems that the only time they are afraid of losing you is when they are actually losing you.

  • That part

  • So true I agree

  • Exactly! 100%!

  • When they actually *lose you

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• A goddess doesn’t chase. We attract. Be the Energy you look for in others & fulfill yourself with that. You then will attract the energy you “seek”

  • You're so right Goddess we don't chase we attract

  • Wow. Great point ❤

  • Not always. Some horrible men will see you have good values and good energy and will be attracted to you due to those traits. No matter how good you carry yourself or how much you love yourself can keep bad away.

  • I was married 23 years. He got everything he wanted. Sat on the couch drank or was golfing . Expensive gifts. When it came to what i needed and desired. Nada dang thing. He would say he was the king. Well i asked for counseling. I paid for it. No matter what day it was he had a problem at work for 7 months every week. So i did not go to counseling that week i drove to the divorce lawyer. I even held thru his cheating. I was a hot fun wife.. but he refused showers, brush his teeth. Takes 2

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️