The SECRET of the NATURALS – How To Overcome Fear Of Rejection By Doing What The NATURALS do.

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• Kezia Noble: improving my game since 2016!

• Idiots are full of confidence.
  While nerds are full of self doubt.

• Kezia, are you in a successful relationship? If not, why should we trust your advice?

• I have a question, when going with the freeze-out method you gave as an example. Let's say the girl said she only sees me as a friend, or nice guy, or whatever, and I say the things you said. That I agree and that, based on past experiences of sleeping with girls that were buddies, it would change the way I saw her, and I would stop seeing her as a dorky friend, because I would see our relationship as hot or sexy or whatever. After I state this, it wouldn't make sense to ever hit on her again or make a move, because it would be incongruent with what I just said. So what would be the point? Do I then expect her to make the move? Or is it just one of those "let her go and find someone else" kinda cop-outs?

• Thanks.

• Kezia, off topic of this video....on a post in a group I'm in, on facebook back a couple years ago, the post said..."What trait do women find most unattractive about men?", and this one woman said..."Baldness", I replied underneath her and said..."Like me, Lol" and she replies..."You'd look better with a goatee"...Lol, smh. I've always felt more confident clean-shaven, anyway.

• I genuinely do not fear rejection. It's more a combination of having an aversion towards the vagueness women usually display + a shame of bothering someone. The times i have seen women react with disdain to a man approaching them is real. Up to a point of pointing him out as a creep. It certainly happens regularly. Although this almost never happens to me personally ( as a quite good looking man - i'm told- and i am very selective about the occasions i will approach ), it irritates me on behalf of my brethren who do experience this treatment. It does.

  • @@Ghostrider-ul7xn Indeed. Although Kezia teaches some very valuable skills and is very nuanced about how and when to apply them ( social awareness ) , what we say here is also a sad reality nowadays. Having been raised in a ( good ) female environment , i like women and am socially good with them. Enough of them like me romantically as well. However , that doesn't prevent me from seeing reality as it is : a lot of females show some very undesirable traits when interacting with males they deem unworthy and/or unattractive. ( even with sweet , sensitive guys )

• Kezia! 😍

• Excellent video..and looking good Miss Noble

• I think you're quite the smartest dating and relationship advisor who is female here on YouTube, when it comes to this "crappy snakes & ladders game". The equally famous Professor Jordan Peterson has pointed out that to have your very genetic material rejected will create the deepest of wounds, but you've just given me the tip to tippy-toe out of it.