These Confusing Phrases are Actually Major RED FLAGS | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs
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The “I’m a loner kind of guy” phrase. He was all in and wonderful for about 5-6 months. And then he remembered that he was a loner, and he didn’t want to be in a relationship so he pushed me away.
Yes!!!
Girls! Wake up!!! He’s flattering you, he’s using you…he was into you for 6mths, remember he’s been hurt before too. Stability, constancy with actions not words, balance in your own life will ultimately attract the right person 🎉t
my bloke who was consistently (CON) ,busted cheating (in my brand new BED )to date he has been screwing 4 different girls s after the first few months of being together. Stupid me said to myself 😂 he is so down sue due to his mum passing away he is finding comfort in ot😢er Girls his just very lost at the moment But that is so running out of battery and its now been over a year now and l am a good person and have never cheated on David.J.T. my so called boyfriend whose also fkg 4 other girls at the sametime l also cop his lyes and regular daily beatings . But no no poor David he has had to deal with so much
When someone physically hurts you especially abloke that you thought you are or was in a serious relationship with you was just lying to you the whole time and really wants to have four or five girl friends at once . Has no respect for anything or anyone My sincere honest loyal and faithful blokeWell What can l say lm Honestly starting to hate his guts and have just decided to start seeing other blokes . l believe you have No relationship once you bust hm having sex .
l so have made a conscious decision today that l am looking for anew Man Because l think i finally deserve and need a loyal Real, Honest and loving relationship. So Over The Cheating an Violence that l deal with in a daily routine
much
Oh I left him almost a year ago. I was just giving an example. 😏😉✌🏽
Ohhh! This is soo good! I just dated a guy (3 times) that he started excusing himself for speaking without filtering on 2nd date. something in me felt it was wrong. On 3rd date he showed no filter also in actions. Thanks and, next! 💫
I think it’s good to point out that movies and books present the idea that love will change a person who shows red flags. Do not forget. We have fallen for or had a crush on a man we were not in a relationship with. Men are no different. When they are head over heals, it has nothing to do with sex or how hard you try. It happens apart from those things. Now once HE desires a relationship, it’s important to be loving and and supportive. But never stay too long thinking love will change his ways. He’ll only take you for granted. Love CAN change a man. But only when he already is in love. And he knows to have you, he needs to be a good man. It has little to do with if you keep doing loving things even though he does not love you.
>>> And he knows to have you, he needs to be a good man. <<< You know - that only lasts so long also. A tiger doesn't change his stripes - he may camouflage for a while, but eventually - the real man [or woman for that matter] comes out. IMO - the only way a person changes permanently and for real - is when they realize that their behavior is not in harmony with their own moral compass. They want to change - because they are not happy with who they are or who they have become. A good partner may help them come to that conclusion and support them in their endeavors, but cannot be the sole reason for that change in order for it to stick and last.
“I could be open to a relationship” is mostly used by men in dating apps. Basically it is a catch to bring you to meet them sometimes including having sex and then telling you there is not sparkle, so no relationship.
Ohhhhhh 😮.
The worst part is when you realize that you have said one or some phrases like these ones 😣
3 years ago I dated a guy who said: “I eventually want a relationship”. My gut twinged when I heard that and I ignored it. Or the “I will…(eventually). I just need to do( this) first” in reference to taking control of something like his debt. Needless to say, it didn’t last long.
Love this Mat. We as women need to hear and believe what men tell us about themselves. No fantasy! Great list❤
These are great!! I’ve had one guy (now an ex) repeatedly tell me he’s an as*hole sometimes, or the phrase – “you know I’m a real c**t at times”. This was reiterated when he would say extremely insensitive things and then blame me for feeling hurt, saying i overreacted. I should have realized this was a massive red flag.
I remember a key piece of advice that Maya Angelou gave Oprah, she said, “Believe him the first time!” It tools me years to learn that one! I would also add, “You didn’t break him, so don’t fix him!”
The “ my ex is crazy”, and “I love you the way you are” phrases
Let’s go with the flow
I’m currently under the strong impression that we women need to have the guts to raise the quality bar in all areas so that men have a better clue on what to aim for. It will change the world… 🎉
Red flag for me (especially when the guy is older):” Ich habe die Richtige noch nicht gefunden.” (it’s german: “I haven’t found the right one yet.”)
Because that puts the responsibility on being the right one on you. It sounds like a challenge for you to become the right one for him.
I know because I tried exactly that and I didn’t get it when my last boyfriend said it to me.
Turns out HE wasn’t right for any woman (lying and cheating a.o.).
Greetings from Germany – I love this channel even though I’m happily single 😁
Beware of the one who says, “I’ll be happy when….”! He will never be happy. Once he’s in the marriage, it’ll be, “I’ll be happy when…..” whatever the next thing is. There will always be something, and he’ll never be happy.
Truth! That was my ex husband 100% “I’ll be happy when…” Was his catch phrase 😂
I went on my first date in several years. I was meeting the guy at the restaurant and it was in an area I was unfamiliar with. I texted him to say I was still looking for a parking spot. He texted me back that there was a parking garage, just as I saw the garage. I pulled in and parked. As I was walking away from my car, he texted and said, “Meet you outside the restaurant.” When we were walking out of the restaurant – he walked me to my car, but he was leading the way, which I thought was a little odd. Turns out that I parked right next to him. He saw that, but instead of just stepping out then and saying Hi, he chose to follow me to the restaurant. I thought that was a little odd and seemed like a red flag to me. Other things ensued – he grabbed my hand and at one point attempted to put his arms around me – things that couples do, not things that people meeting for the first time do. Ultimately, I decided that I wasn’t interested in a second date with him.
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I texted a few times with a
guy I met at a bar where he was actually the security guard. After texting only twice I mentioned that I had been staying in the house a lot lately. He responded with stating how much he “loves a homebody”. Red Flag 🚩 I felt like he was implying that he only wanted and respected a girl who stayed inside. This made me feel as if he wouldn’t like me if I went out occasionally. Ironic considering he met me out at a bar. As a single women I felt like I shouldn’t be shamed by a man and looked at as not date worthy for leaving the house from time to time.
He said on our first phone call…”I don’t know if it’s worth a tank of gas and the hours spent to come to dinner with you.” 😳
Damn that’s gotta be 3 flags in one