Things to NEVER do While Dating in Germany?

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• "If she has more money , she should pay for me , i'm worthy" i would love to have this german man's confidence 😂

  • I want a world outside Germany where women feel empowered when they pay the bill 😊🤟in most of countries in the world it’s 2023 but women are still below men… sadly… I really hope that this attitude can go further in the world, not only in Germany.

  • ❤❤❤💪💪💪

  • He has good marketing skills ❤

  • @@FBAagentit’s sad that women need to pay bills to feel empowered.

  • Agreed. Me too, would love to have his confidence, not him.

• New video is out! What do you think about the German mentality when it comes to dating? Is it for you, or is it a hard pass?

  • I like it, girls forced to approach men, love it already ❤❤❤

  • Hard pass! I like REAL MEN, not p*ssies 🐱 disguised as one.

  • Ikr 😂😂😂

• I feel like that it totally depends on the generation, the background, the self esteem,... Which makes it harder for men to know what's right because there are no strict dating rules like in the us.
  When I was at university I would only let a man pay if I really liked him, because I wanted to avoid any conflict about me not wanting to go further or meet again vs "thanks for nothing" attitude with which you could be confronted with.
  When I know I earn the same or more money it's fine for me to pay, but this can lead to a feeling of me carrying all the burdens if it becomes a habit. Let's face it, if both want to have children the loss of income and opportunities at work, hobbies, travelling etc a woman faces in comparison with the man's situation is totally inappropriate not to start with all a pregnancy can do to a woman's body... So being a bit wiser now I feel it's fair that men at least pay some restaurant bills to show their appreciation for the disadvantages women face if starting a family.
  (by a German)

  • very nicely said

  • Well said ❤!

  • well the man pays the bills when the women has children... so i dont see your point why a man should pay if he doesnt even know whether they date and will have kids with each iortther

  • ​@@LaxtovikAre you bffr right now? Pregnancy can kill a woman and you're denying what prgnancy can do to a woman's body???

  • @@Laxtovik lol bffr

• Spanish lady is very fun&lovely! I would love to have a friend like her

  • Exactly, just friends. Too fat

  • ​@@Frivalsher german boyfriend looks good tho? I'm a girl but weight doesnt really matter for me and if i were a men the weight would still not matter for me.

  • @@diofromyozgat sure 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @@Frivals why not?

  • @@diofromyozgat it's disgusting. Wake up

• Hello! I love LOVE your channel...so great! I'm married and over 50 but I would love to hear about people my age and their dating experiences cross culturally. I think it would be so interesting!

• As a German I want to say: No, dating and making compliments is not especially hard in Germany. Period. It goes by different rules than old-school-dating or in more "passionate" countries, but those rules are not hard to understand, once you get the gist of it. You want old-school-dating? Go for it. You will find Germans who prefer the old-school style. But the majority dates differently. For me personally it is a red flag, when a woman expects me to pay on a first date. This is not a lack of respect, it is just my believe in a certain equality and the girls and women I dated in the past would agree on that.
  I'm having relationships and dates since 19 years in Germany and I don't find it hard or dispassionate. There is more than enough people in Germany with whom you can have wonderful relationships.

  • So why don’t you articulate that easy rules in a clear way? You see, people are suffering:) explain what are these rules, please)

  • ​@@user-pm7ex2us8j Let me try. ^^

    - When you meet, treat them like a friend. Don't be pushy or romantic too early on. Just have a nice conversation, show interest in them and try to tell them something interesting about yourself.
    This also goes for chivalry. Just don't! Be nice and respectful but don't be "the man" or "the woman". You are equal. Relax.
    - The occasional touch on the shoulder or upper arm is okay and even nice for most people. It is more like "testing the waters" and showing comfort with them, but don't get too close on an early stage. Observe the reaction and when you get closer after one or two dates, you can become more touchy.
    Remember: Having much body contact is something for when you are already close.
    - Make compliments that aim on the person and not on their sexual value and again: Don't make it romantic too early on. Don't say "you are so beautiful" - this is something for couples. I made very good experiences with something like "you have a cool style", "you are very thoughtful" and similar things.
    - Communicate very directly. "Do you feel comfortable when I touch you?". "Did you find this compliment irritating?". It solves a lot of problems before they even arise.
    - Regarding the first kiss: To just try it carefully when you trust your intuition or to ask "can I kiss you" - both can work. I did both in the past and it was okay. In case of doubt do the latter.

    Maybe I could formulate even some more things and yes, it is quite some text but don't forget: It can seem much when the german mindset is alien to you but the most important thing is, when you get in touch with Germans, observe and synchronize with their mentality. It is a natural process that only requires some time without learning rules meticulously.

    And always remember: In case of doubt, communicate openly and honestly.

    This "manual" is only a tendency of course. Germany is a big country with a lot of very different people. I can only talk about my own experiences.

  • where are you from ? was it hard for you to adapt in the first few months ?

  • I'm Canadian I would love a German man like that. Like god its so annoying when men get all their panties in a twist when I tell them I'm uncomfortable with them paying. Its not about who pays its about respecting wishes. My food is my food. If you wanna pay pay for your own. Like why does it bother you so much if I pay for my own?

  • @@Omnigrotesque
    Your second comment should be mandatory for everyone to read it.

• My fave videos of yours are the Germany ones. Btw I fell for a Berlin boy in January. I’m moving from Toronto to Berlin next week :) SO excited. I remember watching some of your videos in the beginning just to try to understand any cultural differences. Turns out Berlin people are quite different from people from other German cities

  • Good luck!

  • Just out of curiosity, how are Berlin people different from those of other German cities, if I may ask?

  • @@AnastasiaSaenz more lax on rules and being on time, spontaneity. Obviously everyone is diff but this is what I hear from people who are from Berlin or who’ve experienced it there. And also from YouTube videos about creators making fun of differences in Berlin vs other parts of Germany. You can check out “radical living” or “uyen.” Berlin is more lax in general. People might jay walk. I’m not German and I’m sure Germans in the comment section can chime in, but I’ve also experienced it during my 4 times being there as well as visiting 6 other German cities.

  • @@gwendolynpenelope Good luck Gwendolyne Penélope! .... I guess you are of Spanish origin because of your names, two Julio Iglesias's absolute hits: "Penélope, con su bolso de piel marrón.." and "Tu nombre, .Gwendolyne".. If someone Spanish at heart finds Berlin guys are to fall for, I will definitely follow the advice

  • ​@@gwendolynpeneloperadical living is super funny

• Happy Thursday, Marina 🥂! Hope you're having a great week. We need to get your channel to 635K subscribers and it's definitely achievable and I know you're going to get there soon. I LOL at 6:44 😂, and hope you'll improve your French curse words 🤭. Sending my love ❤ from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇲

• Thank you Marina for asking about Germans. I hope that you'd continue your real person Euro trips to Slovakia!
  Because it's a leser-known country. We can be off the beaten path

• The guy at 1:00 and 8:30 is so cute! 😍