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She's dating. All the males in her family are fighting for their country. Theres equality for you.
I was once at a party where I was next to a Russian woman and a german guy. At some point she handed him the bottle of vodka with an annoyed sound and told him, in Russia men are required to treat women like a princess and that means, it's his responsibility to make sure her glass is always full π
As a woman, we canβt ask for equality and then expect men to pay for everything for us. Be independent, be money smart, donβt rely on anyone. Ever! Equality goes both ways.
ββ@@deezed6478That sounds like you want to get paid for having sex with someone. If you feel like that you shouldn't have sex with this person in the first place. Prostitution is 100 percent legal in Germany, so if the guy just wanted fuck2pay, he would go to a prostitute since he knows what he gets.
By the way, vaginal penetration is not the only form of sex.
@@SandiBrava There's still a risk plus there is no contraception without symptoms
Have you heard of contraception?
And when they donβt pay for you they have sex with you then move on to the next one and youβre stuck suing for minimal child support if you get pregnant. Equal rights does not mean men and women are the same.
Maybe she doesn't expect equality
I was once invited by a german person out for drinks to celebrate his birthday. To my surprise, I had to pay my drink.
Very untypical in Germany. Who has birthday pays. Pays the cake he brings to work, he pays if he invites for eating out or some drinks.
@@bsl025itβs his birthday the least you could do is buy him a drink thatβs the bare minimum
@@melanieg.9092 I mean no? Or he could sippy not invite. Distorted german logic π€·π»ββοΈ
I mean yeah? Or you could pay for his drink since it was his birthday? Or was it a party? A party is usually paid for by the person having their birthday but one on one you should pay for the guy who has his birthday
I am Ukrainian man and i have Ukrainian wife, we are traditional family. I do all the "money stuff", like buy a house, buy a car, pay for everything. On other side she takes care of the home itself, kids, cooking, cleaning, raising the kids, takes them to school and etc. Also my work in 4 month on work (i'm a seaman so we can afford good life only on money that i earn) 4 month vacation. So that 4 month that i am on work she handles 100% of all "home business" .For me this is more than okay, we have been together more than 20 years, from school.
but a woman gives birth to a child and loses career and other opportunities during pregnancy.
I understand you want be trad but you have to take care childs too. whats difference brats with this then?
As an African man working a good job, it doesn't matter I pay the bills my wife keeps her money. In Islam women can contribute to family sustainance voluntarly. It's my duty as a man to do it.
Comes to Germany as a guest gets paid everything from the gov but expects the locals to adapt to her culture. Thatβs called entitlement.
@@julianasilva6946 She is saying my culture but she moves to another culture without wanting to adapt? One can show some gratitude to the country receiving you by adjusting a little bit.
β@@SteveSteve7590-di2dn are you ok? She does not have to adapt. She can date a man she likes and accepts to do things the way she likes. She is dating a man from Kosovo now. Don't worry.
@@Nanshashakadi thatβs her story and the story of the other ten Ukrainian girls that I know who are among the Ukrainians that are flooding my city.
That is not the story of everyone.
One of the reasons I left Ukraine many years ago. Can't believe this attitude is still so common and not just an old stereotype
β@@Argenswissdid you read the comment above where one girl explains how it works in Germany? I dont see a problem with that
Ukraine is located in Eastern Europe?
@@marynayarmolenko it's s fact
@@ArgenswissThank you for your opinion. π€¦ββ
100% the right attitude. Western Europe is fucked up
German woman here. The German man was absolutely correct in expecting the woman to share the expenses. Women in Germany work and have their own money. Men in Germany cook,clean the house, wash clothes. We're equals and we share all tasks not according to gender, but to skill and interests. My husband likes doing the dishes, I like repairing plumbing and furniture. He like driving the car, I like grocery shopping, he likes ironing, I like washing the clothes and making the beds.
Our culture promotes freedom of choice and equal rights and tasks.
I swear western European women are so damned brained washed it's sad. Btw these two were not living together, sp you'd expect her to PAY for the privileged of this guy maybe washing the dishessome day.
@@MichelaRossini exactly
β@@helgaioannidis9365in Italy a lot of women don't work (mostly because of lack of jobs though). So if German women work part time and the do most chores, men have to pay most of the things.
@@tanja1102 I didn't write that people share the chores 50:50. I wrote chores are shared based on skills and preferences, not on gender.
Often in Germany the women only work part time and then do the bigger part of the chores at home.
From a German point if view there's space for improvement when it comes to equal share of the workload, if you look at other countries German men do a lot in the household. In Italy e.g. it's pretty common that both partners work full-time and the woman does all the chores. This seems to be common also in the USA. And this is not the case in Germany. You will find hardly any German man who thinks a man shouldn't iron or men should not clean the house, while in other countries that's the mindset.
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βIn my cultureββ¦ That better include making dinner and cleaning the house also
dinner and cleaning house is too much for dinner and nails. maybe he can pays her rent depts and nails etc so she can cook and clean
It does!
They do, tbh
Because he paid a dinner? I hope they have dinner in a very fancy restaurant EVERY DAY then.
Lol I'm dating a German, I'm earning he's better in cleaning, he's also studying so I'm paying him if I want him to do something with me. This is pure logic.
Ironically all if my girlfriends are bit messy and their men are cleaning. And not working or occasionally working.
My friends are all career dominant women with strong careers, non of us likes men who are same as us, we like masculine men, that often doesn't come with high income, more often with authority issues, which me and my girlfriends don't.
I believe that gender roles should be adjusted to one's character. Me and my girlfriends are arguably not typical women, typical roles should not be expected.