When He’s An EMOTIONALLY Unavailable Man Do THESE 7 Things

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• Right not a bad person...but a very painful process. Its not worth it in my experience.

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  • I totally agree. I feel like he needs to deal with his own trauma/ past before he even thinks about trying to be in a committed relationship.

  • @@thirdeye695 it so hard once you already love them i need help with this

  • Nope!👎🏽

  • I agree not worth it

• Thank you Sir…Lord knows this video came up just in time! God bless you

  • God bless you too!

• I've already dealt with this and last year was crazy for me with my mental health. So with that being said I have remained single trying to take care of my mental health. One thing I can say from experience is don't give yourself freely to someone who does not value you or someone who you cannot trust at the first sign of a red flag address it once if they dont change let it go early on don't stay it will.cause your mental stress and I'm done with dating all these people who want to play games the longer you stay in toxic relationship the harder it is to move on . A year of being single has taught me that it scary in this dating field we have to let Jesus Lead. I just decided to remain single till I got on right medicine and got myself a job. Which I have done so I'm focusing on me but I am not going to just date anyone

  • Thank you for taking the time out to share your experience with us. I know other people will benefit from this 🙏

  • 👏🏾👏🏾 Amen I totally agree!

  • @debrastewart6275  yeah trust me dating someone toxic will end you in mental hospital trying to let go of someone you've been holding on to someone who is mentally hurting you it's not worth it or at least not for me cause I have bi polar type 1 and breaking up with my ex caused me to go into mania which is hard for us to break up with someone we want to fix but there is no fixing stupid cause honestly I was stupid to deal with him for 3 years I'm stress free now and doing well

  • Thank you for sharing your experience Sis! I couldn’t agree more with you, & you’re absolutely right !! I’m done as well with people who want to play games so called Grown Men who are really just boy’s & Toxic at that! I’ve decided to keep my mind stayed on Jesus, I have zero tolerance for foolishness !

  • @debrastewart6275  I totally agree and it makes it hard when you have a chronic illness cause I had depression for 7 months then went I to mania it was crazy last year I had not been taking care of myself and was putting my ex above everything including my health from stressing over what he wad doing . I had to learn the hard way it's hard enough to deal with toxic things then you suffer from within. I battle my illness but I got it under control by finding a medicine that works for me .

• This helps I was the one understanding and trying to find a resolve. Never attacked him and tried to help him through what I knew the issue was about and it was not so much me per se but it heavily involved his kids and the BM not allowing him to have any access to them. So much so till she tried to put him in jail. He was cool even still but at some point when our very normal relationship issues came up. It was like it amplified what he felt already. And he would lash out at me when he got frustrated. So I would have to try and regulate my emotions in order to get to the root of a problem. Until he no longer wanted to talk and shut completely down. At the end I would get triggered and I had to walk away. But now I actually get it. This hurts and I now i understand. Dealing with a fragile man is difficult, we lasted a year but I was proud of myself for being able to work with him to understand through that time. It just came to be a lot feeling like I had to regulate his emotions and also mine. Which is a very difficult to do.

  • I pray God continues to to bless and heal you 🙏

  • Same

• I love myself too much to involve in something like that. If person doesn't care about his mental issues, why should I? No no.. come on 😅 relationships like that are for somebody with saviour syndrome

• Me and my husband are going through a miscarriage and when I received the news I blamed him for not being emotionally there for me. My husband says I have my own issues too but I’m not the best at taking accountability. I’ve been telling my husband that I feel god is silent right now but this video came to me right when I was feeling hopeless. Thank you for making videos, you help me see my wrongs and what I can work on to better help my marriage. Also I’ve been watching your videos for about 2 in a half years and I always recommend you to my single girlies. May god continue to work through you! Just wanted to let you know that you truly are making a difference in at least my life.
  Ps. My husband always say your right!

  • I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience with us 🙏

• Stephan these are great tips and suggestions, BUT… women also need to remember that you are not there to be his counselor, mother therapist or internship so he can get it right with someone else. That is what many women struggle with. Being honest and open about what your needs are and accepting personal responsibility for one’s part in the connection together is what really matters.

  • Thank you for your feedback on this 🙏

  • I agree with everything you said. Women are out here trying to heal, build, support grown men already. I'm afraid that a message like this adds another layer for a woman to do more labor and stay longer in toxic relationship. If a man is emotionally unavailable, he's just not ready to be in a relationship.

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks "When He's An Emotionally Unavailable Man Walk Away" -There, fixed your title for you.
    *Because this is NOT 'Build-A-Bro'.* Women are not repair shops for broken toys. End of tweet.

  • @@larisagehmie5127 ^ Sister... it is even simpler than that. Content creators in this space make their MONEY off of policing women and selling hopes and dreams back to vulnerable sisters by manipulating us to keep upholding the patriarchy. No. The answer is just no. Read the above. ^ And do not forget that by every single statistic, men need women exponentially more than women need men. The game is to make us believe it's the other way around. No. No, no, no. THIS IS NOT BUILD-A-BRO. If a man's presence is not adding value, his absence doesn't make a difference.

• There isn’t any complete person, say your prayers, and try your best, this is all a person can ask for.

  • I respect your views on this one 🙏

  • Very well said ❤

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  • Very well said! ❤

• You simply become unavailable to him and love yourself ✨

  • I don’t think he will care because he was not interested in you.

  • @@GorillaGlue.4 exactly... and that’s why you should leave if someone’s ever emotionally unavailable.

  • 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Amen 💕💘💕🥰

  • @@GorillaGlue.4 Exactly!!! that's how you know you made the right decision to get out early 🥳✨👑

  • I tried that, I’ll block him he’ll call me off another number and pretty much lore me back in just to break my heart all over again. He did this 3 times, ever time I was pretty much healing and getting over him BOOM “here I go like mystikal” 😂

• Simply don't! Entertain him..it can save you from a lot of uncertainty, and chaos...I know this all too well!🤔😏😅