When You Stop Caring So Much, Results Come
When you stop caring so much, you get a lot better results when it comes to dating. However, you can't just "pretend" you're not interested in women because that doesn't work either…So, in this presentation, we cover what not caring REALLY means when it comes to dating and how continuing to implement dating success principles AND caring less at the same is what will get you what you want.
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This is a good refresh for men who already know how to deal with women. If you are still young or inexperienced the key word is experience! Knowing how to show interest in a woman but create a situation where she chases you is an art! However a man must know what to do when the woman is in the palm of your your hands and how to keep her there all while keeping her interested and your interaction with her fresh.
Amen
Sounds like too much effort
Speak English, doc!
Jesus Christ dating today is more complicated then college math class.
dodopoopinpoop lol
You have to ask yourself is it even worth it? We have video games!
Aubrey Rex agreed 😂
Once it becomes second nature it will be automatic and effortless
Damn l knew it!Jerry McGuire was full oh sh@t!
This is true wisdom. 🙏
I follow a couple channels and i love yours a lot. Great practical advice.
I agree with this 1000% When you have a life that is great, it doesn’t matter if some girl says she’s busy. I would go one step further. Since most girls are going to make up some bullshit story instead of saying no to spare your feelings, you don’t have to worry about a blow out. It’s more like a soft cushion to land on. So if your landing will mostly be soft, you might as well, just jump jump jump. Put the burden on her to catch your fall and never fear failure!
Just AMAZING. Your videos will make a lot of women happier.
I’m getting my self there.stop caring.when u show people u care about them .they just turn hurt u.
Jup activly being in love seems out of this time. People just take a piss of you
They get scared they will be trapped too soon if they don’t know you well enough to be with you.
@De Nacht Conducteur like they did..how nobody knows..you gave it out yourself…but youve not lost…you gave and thats good enough..my opinion.
@Wanyamu Thimoo Kariuki thank you my good man
I have to accept that i have learnt a lot from your videos
Relationships and basic interaction between men and women, have become too complicated due to the change in morals and lack of role models to emulate what a loving and caring relationship looks like. To many men and women are playing games that lead to failed relationship’s.
Albert Baza true !!! 👍
I totally agree….this is not how I want to be dealt with. This kind of thinking won’t work on me. I hate games
Accurate
Couldn’t have said it better bro. This dating scene nowadays is all about who is willing to chase more and tolerate the mind games smh.
you are wrong buddy. what we are witnessing today is the results of the deregulation of the sexual marketplace. these modern interactions between men and women are actually primitive. we’ve taken out religion, morals, society and norms out and what we see now is unfiltered female nature on full display. the women from our parent’s and grandparent’s generations where societal constructs. our ancestors knew goddam well how to keep women in check and that is also why we had social conventions like arranged marriages (still existing by the way in certain parts of the world and within certain economic classes).
Watching this video + taking action = life changing
This is totally true and right as our Rock is something we know we did for ourselves and that we achieved on our own and become and are good at and one knows is always there as it’s aligned with us as one isn’t so vulnerable and reliant on someone 🙏 this is raw and brilliant 🙏 thank you so much it’s so so true 👌😇
I cared her so much by my real actions,she knew I like her and always gave me hopes. the result was that she chose someone who she just met a few months ago, and said “you are one of my closed friends, you are like my brother and a part of my life” to me. I was almost faint, and felt she stabbed my heart one by one.
I hope you are feeling better bro. I know your pain.
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I understand bro
Cheng, how was the relationship between you and her? There was affection, you dated, had sex, kisses? Flirting? Because if your answer of most of these questions is “yes”, I think she was cruel giving you false hopes. If not, the main problem was maybe that you acted too fríendly and she finally sent you to the friendzone. Caring too much and above all when she is not yet yout gf is a tragically ver common mistake.
I don’t have to try to lose, it just comes naturally.
I understand what he’s saying and I’m learning a lot, but there is a time for patience and understanding. It can take time, even a year or so. Also, how can you be more ‘aggressive’ but still avoid chasing or being too clingy. Last video I watched was about ‘LERR’ I’m learning and it’s definitely dangerous to care too much too quick.
Dan, you truly teach from the heart! You are a class act sir! This information is worth so much more. I wish you all a Prosperous and Happy New Year bro.
Great video, ive been binge watching in my quarentine, wish i knew all this before my heart break . Needless pain i went thru after 4 years. However Now i feel i can learn from it combined with this channel. Thank you
Good advice! I think the main thing here is to be focused on your goals and creating the life that makes you happy. Women are just icing on the cake when you already have a happy life. You will naturally be more confident and attract more women when you are working towards your purpose and goals in life. Some guys can fake confidence or play the game. But if they have no purpose or goals or their lifestyle don’t align with their values or goals, they won’t be able to maintain relationships with women. Women want a man to be authentic. It’s easier to not get hung up women or come across as needy when you have created a great life for yourself. There is one thing that I find most non-needy men struggle with (including myself) when attracting women. As the video mentioned, many men tend to not show enough interest and come across too aloof with women. Women take this as a sign that the guy isn’t interested and they won’t chase the guy because not enough attraction was initiated. The push / pull method is a good strategy to build attraction although it is takes practice to pull it off. I feel this comes across more natural the more compatible you are with the woman. Meaning you share common interests, values and goals. But it is difficult to walk the fine line between validating/complimenting her and qualifying her.
YOUR LOOKS MATTERS, Your height matters. Your job. Your watch. Your shoes. Your style. Your experience. Everything matters. But what matters more than anything else is your non rude yet assertive and authentic IDGAF rock solid frame. The minute she feels you need her validation, that’s the minute she is GONE.
She could be head over heels for you, but this mistake can undo all of that in a second. A lot of women are really some thing else man 😪
Self care always produces results.. keep your mind and body healthy