Why Are Men Fleeing the US for Love? The Truth About Passport Bros
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Why are so many Western men leaving their home countries to find love overseas? Is the Passport Bro movement problematic, or is there more to the story? In this video, I share my nuanced take on the movement and feature four men from different Western countries who explain their personal reasons for seeking relationships abroad. I also break down why the Passport Bro trend is rapidly growing and reveal four major reasons why more men are looking for love outside the West.
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0:00 Intro
1:03 How do you spot a passport bro?
2:25 Sponsorship message
3:48 Meet the "passport bros"
4:20 Passport bros on why they prefer to date abroad
6:20 Reason #1: Gender roles
7:07 Social media splitting up men and women
7:54 Reason #2: exotic factor in dating
9:35 Reason #3: The supply vs demand in dating
11:50 Reason #4: Feeling seen, appreciated and wanted
13:40 Why passport bro movement beats the alternative
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If you are more conservative person and want a family, being in a liberal and progressive place will make it difficult for you to succeed in this. Leaving your home country to fulfill this dream is valid, the same thing applies the other way around, if you are more liberal and progressive, being in a reserved conservative place.
Yeah, because conservative women in the US don’t exist. It’s more likely you want to control someone with less money than you.
@@curtism-w6bthey don’t exist. Not unless your definition of conservative is only has a couple situationships and fwbs and goes to a protestant church that might as well be a night club
Meh. I think it’s more about attraction than anything else.
I don’t think it’s a really should be a political thing, I have more liberal beliefs but I still like foreign girls better than American girls , but I will say I’m a little more conservative in how women treat men and home life , and I know me personally I get more interest from foreign girls than American
@@Josh4soccer15 the last sentence is your real reason.
The fact that twice as many men are single as women should be telling you something about the culture. It’s a polygamous one. Has nothing to do with being at home
Facts. They get upset at Muslim men for being polygamous, meanwhile the 6’+ ripped guys on tinder are bedding dozens of women per year and they don’t bat an eye
I feel more welcome in Mexico, not only from the women but from people in general. And no they don’t want no green card from me (I’m not from USA), they don’t want to leave México they love their country, they don’t want me to pay for everything.
As a western woman I felt the same way when I was in Mexico. My husband is from Zacatecas. Trust me, we women are doing the SAME thing you western men are doing. We want a real man who takes charge and wants to take care of us, not be roommates going 50/50.
@irinaivanovic9792 mexican people are the best at making you feel welcome and appreciated. Both men as a friend and women as a partner.
@@irinaivanovic9792 nobody in the entire world is interested in Western women, especially not American ones
Really? I didn’t get that vibe at all
As a white American, when i went to mexico it felt like they wanted to kill me.
@@irinaivanovic9792 AMEN. American woman who married a European Spaniard 20 years ago. My children are getting towards dating age now and we are getting OUT OF THE USA. Why do people think it’s only the men? We western women don;t want western men either. I broke the mold before it was a “movement”. I would have been a bitter old hag by now. lol. Enjoy your life, but we western women have choices too. Non-western men pull out the “little girl”in us with their PURE MASCULINITY>
My first marriage with a Canadian woman did not last 2 years. I’m now with my second wife who is from Columbia. 11 years and 4 kids later, we’re still going on strong.
You can’t spell “Colombia” while married to a Colombian woman?
@@SeventhHeavenFTW Take it easy. You must have some problems🤣
11 years married to a colombian woman but you can’t even spell it properly or just typo?
@@AmorFati-n6q be cool, assume it was a typo.
@@SeventhHeavenFTW Clearly he’s a typical Passport Bro.
I wouldn’t call myself a passport bro per say, but I definitely tend to not like American women personality-wise as much and since I live here that’s a problem. I moved to the US when I was in late elementary school from Europe.
I’m about to graduate from Uni and have had my fair share of relationships and flings, and while they were fun they were also very superficial. Maybe its the Uni environment, maybe I was just bad at picking partners, but most of the time, I don’t feel like these women ever fully understood me or liked me for who I really was. It was more about them just wanting a boyfriend or what I represented.
At this point I find it way more attractive when a woman is foreign, they usually are well traveled, know more than just one language, and are indoctrinated with American news and propaganda.
I still find American women physically attractive, but past that its rare that the conversations we have or the dynamic we have is mentally stimulating. I just prefer foreign women.
I’m a woman and I don’t think anyone deserves to be criticized just because they look for love in another countries, either man or woman. If this is what they want, let them be. Why they get harsh comments just because they want a woman from different country, I really don’t get it. Choosing one nationality / culture over the other doesn’t mean that the other nationality’s women are less charming. It’s just their choice, taste etc. I wish everyone could meet with someone who is a perfect match for them. I’m just happy for everybody who finds love either within their community or abroad.
@@biggy5428 they get harsh comments because many women are jealous/want to use them. That’s why these women pretend to care about foreign women and construct some oppression narrative while simultaneously saying all these guys arent up to their standards
Butthurt people are bitter on the internet.
Nope. They’re looking for good FX ratę. They’re looking for free labour
Back in 2011 or 2010 the world passport bro was never used we just called ourselves Expats or Travelers. Some of us come from small towns where theres an extreme lack of woman, its obvious to go to a place where the supply is high and the culture is better when it comes to dating and theres nothing wrong with that I have many friends in my home town that are single in there twenties and I feel bad for them because they will probably never take that step to persue woman.
I am a 27 year old Brazilian man and it has been extremely difficult to establish relationships with women. Here in Brazil the hookup culture is very strong and I do not identify with it. I have conservative values and would like to visit countries like Hungary. Thank you for looking at us men. Greetings! 😄
There’s so many good women in Brazil, I don’t know why you wanna find a women in Hungary.
Hungary conservative?
You know Budapest is the european capitol of pornography?
More than half of sex actresses of Europe in the nineties were magyars.
Dude, you’ll be successful there. Europeans, especially Central/Eastern Eruopeans, find Brazilians really attractive. Meanwhile, lots of Central and Eastern European women have really good values. You’ll find a really nice relationship there.
@@StateFlow-ns4mg go to poland
@Flbari thank you for the recommendation! Are they more focused on serious relationships?
Very fair and balanced take in this video.
People trying to fix their problems by going to another country is not a grand solution, it’s a sign that society is going to collapse.
No doubt it’s a sign of societal collapse, but you cannot fault individuals for doing what’s in their best interest. I, as an American doctor for example, had nothing to gain from marrying an American woman. So I married a traditional woman abroad.
@@smellypatel5272 You cannot fault people going somewhere to get a higher price, but the empires of Spain, Portugal, Mongolia, Italy, Greece, Assyria, Babylon, etc. eventually all collapsed because those people did the same thing. I hope you are happy, but eventually this will all end in ruins. Dr. can you please give me even one example of a nation where men and women have turned on each other like this and it ended up well? Good luck with your life, mine is barely worth living.
Not really a passport bro but I have had better experiences with foreigners than American girls. I found that I have more in common with Germans, Italians, and other foreigners. Also they are much more upfront about what they want. Bit of a background: I spent most of my childhood around foreigners.
As a 38 year old guy, I just want a loving caring communicative understanding girlfriend who actually wants to be with me and talk to me. I want something real and long term.
As a 48 year old guy, I just want a functional body
Get your passport if that is what you want
❤ one of the few people being compassionate toward men
I am a conservatively woman. Another big problem that has taken over is the dating apps.
I found it difficult to find the kind of man that I’m looking for
The temptations of the phone (entertainment, social media, dating apps) has ruined even normal relationships let alone romantic ones. Society is a whole lot less cohesive rn. When the dependence on phones goes society will return to a semblance of what it was pre mid 2000’s.
Sorry, but any woman who has ever been on a dating app is immediately undateable.
Dating people from other countries can be lots of fun because you learn from one another (language, culture, etc).
American men are far better off overseas. They are actually treated with some respect.
Guy from Netherland here. Girls here dont look interested in a guy. They already know plenty of guys. Women here have big friend groups and they meet each other all the time, but when you try to set a date with her they are always busy. Never a girl approach you here. And if you do, you are creepy. Im fed up with it
Hi John, I feel the same. I did much work on myself, improving throughout the years (mentally, spiritually, phyisically) and still I find myself going on mediocre dates. When I was in South America I met such great, feminine, warm and sweet women. It was so refreshing.
I heard the opposite that women approach men there, also in Germany
@@IvoVandenReek that makes two of us. Last months I started to give dating another chance. I went on 10+ dates with different women (mostly Dutch). These were all forgettable experiences. What I miss is the feminine energy. It feels like I’m more talking to a dude, a bro. I miss the bubbliness, if that makes sense. The few dates that I do remember are those with expats from abroad. One was a girl from Persia. She was so great, hard working, ambitious ánd feminine. We didn’t click on others levels so we left it as it was. Yet, I remember the great talks we had.
@ I heard that too from someone in Australia, but that is a myth. It happened to me ONCE, it is very rare. Perhaps if you are extremely good-looking, who knows.
@ very rare indeed.
11:15 & 13:45 you said everything Marina! Thank you 🙏🏻
I’m from Holland and man, dating is not so fun here. Girls aren’t terrible, but really mundane ánd extremely picky. For years I tried to improve (gym, meditation, reading books) and I got better as a person, yet the women are mostly the same and may give you a chance, but because of their endless amount of options they call it a day pretty soon. When I visited South America I felt the work I have put into myself finally paid off. I met some amazing women I am still in thouch with today.
I had great experiences with women from Eastern Europe. I had the best connection with those that weren’t too conservative, but did retain the femininity. I find that lots of Dutch women have lost that part and are more behaving like men. I am just not attracted to that. And the few Dutch women that are feminine and would make great girlfriends, these are already taken or extremely picky.
I believe there is a great match between Western men and East European women. Western men are respectfull and kind and lots of women from Eastern Europe reciprocate and find that attractive.
I used to date a girl from Ukraine. Her energy was so amazing. Women from my country (Netherlands) don’t even come close to her sweetness and energy. Too bad it didn’t work out. She is now in a happy relationship with an American guy and I am genuinely happy for them. I wish her well and have great memories of our times together.