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Why Are Men Fleeing the US for Love? The Truth About Passport Bros

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Why are so many Western men leaving their home countries to find love overseas? Is the Passport Bro movement problematic, or is there more to the story? In this video, I share my nuanced take on the movement and feature four men from different Western countries who explain their personal reasons for seeking relationships abroad. I also break down why the Passport Bro trend is rapidly growing and reveal four major reasons why more men are looking for love outside the West.

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0:00 Intro
1:03 How do you spot a passport bro?
2:25 Sponsorship message
3:48 Meet the "passport bros"
4:20 Passport bros on why they prefer to date abroad
6:20 Reason #1: Gender roles
7:07 Social media splitting up men and women
7:54 Reason #2: exotic factor in dating
9:35 Reason #3: The supply vs demand in dating
11:50 Reason #4: Feeling seen, appreciated and wanted
13:40 Why passport bro movement beats the alternative

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  • If you are more conservative person and want a family, being in a liberal and progressive place will make it difficult for you to succeed in this. Leaving your home country to fulfill this dream is valid, the same thing applies the other way around, if you are more liberal and progressive, being in a reserved conservative place.

    • Yeah, because conservative women in the US don't exist. It's more likely you want to control someone with less money than you.

    • ​​@@curtism-w6bthey don't exist. Not unless your definition of conservative is only has a couple situationships and fwbs and goes to a protestant church that might as well be a night club

    • I don’t think it’s a really should be a political thing, I have more liberal beliefs but I still like foreign girls better than American girls , but I will say I’m a little more conservative in how women treat men and home life , and I know me personally I get more interest from foreign girls than American

  • The fact that twice as many men are single as women should be telling you something about the culture. It's a polygamous one. Has nothing to do with being at home

    • Facts. They get upset at Muslim men for being polygamous, meanwhile the 6'+ ripped guys on tinder are bedding dozens of women per year and they don't bat an eye

  • I feel more welcome in Mexico, not only from the women but from people in general. And no they don't want no green card from me (I'm not from USA), they don't want to leave México they love their country, they don't want me to pay for everything.

    • As a western woman I felt the same way when I was in Mexico. My husband is from Zacatecas. Trust me, we women are doing the SAME thing you western men are doing. We want a real man who takes charge and wants to take care of us, not be roommates going 50/50.

    • @irinaivanovic9792  mexican people are the best at making you feel welcome and appreciated. Both men as a friend and women as a partner.

    • @@irinaivanovic9792 nobody in the entire world is interested in Western women, especially not American ones

    • Really? I didn't get that vibe at all
      As a white American, when i went to mexico it felt like they wanted to kill me.

    • @@irinaivanovic9792 AMEN. American woman who married a European Spaniard 20 years ago. My children are getting towards dating age now and we are getting OUT OF THE USA. Why do people think it's only the men? We western women don;t want western men either. I broke the mold before it was a "movement". I would have been a bitter old hag by now. lol. Enjoy your life, but we western women have choices too. Non-western men pull out the "little girl"in us with their PURE MASCULINITY>

  • My first marriage with a Canadian woman did not last 2 years. I'm now with my second wife who is from Columbia. 11 years and 4 kids later, we're still going on strong.

  • I wouldn't call myself a passport bro per say, but I definitely tend to not like American women personality-wise as much and since I live here that's a problem. I moved to the US when I was in late elementary school from Europe.

    I'm about to graduate from Uni and have had my fair share of relationships and flings, and while they were fun they were also very superficial. Maybe its the Uni environment, maybe I was just bad at picking partners, but most of the time, I don't feel like these women ever fully understood me or liked me for who I really was. It was more about them just wanting a boyfriend or what I represented.

    At this point I find it way more attractive when a woman is foreign, they usually are well traveled, know more than just one language, and are indoctrinated with American news and propaganda.

    I still find American women physically attractive, but past that its rare that the conversations we have or the dynamic we have is mentally stimulating. I just prefer foreign women.

  • I'm a woman and I don't think anyone deserves to be criticized just because they look for love in another countries, either man or woman. If this is what they want, let them be. Why they get harsh comments just because they want a woman from different country, I really don't get it. Choosing one nationality / culture over the other doesn't mean that the other nationality's women are less charming. It's just their choice, taste etc. I wish everyone could meet with someone who is a perfect match for them. I'm just happy for everybody who finds love either within their community or abroad.

    • @@biggy5428 they get harsh comments because many women are jealous/want to use them. That's why these women pretend to care about foreign women and construct some oppression narrative while simultaneously saying all these guys arent up to their standards

  • Back in 2011 or 2010 the world passport bro was never used we just called ourselves Expats or Travelers. Some of us come from small towns where theres an extreme lack of woman, its obvious to go to a place where the supply is high and the culture is better when it comes to dating and theres nothing wrong with that I have many friends in my home town that are single in there twenties and I feel bad for them because they will probably never take that step to persue woman.

  • I am a 27 year old Brazilian man and it has been extremely difficult to establish relationships with women. Here in Brazil the hookup culture is very strong and I do not identify with it. I have conservative values ​​and would like to visit countries like Hungary. Thank you for looking at us men. Greetings! 😄

    • There's so many good women in Brazil, I don't know why you wanna find a women in Hungary.

    • Hungary conservative?
      You know Budapest is the european capitol of pornography?
      More than half of sex actresses of Europe in the nineties were magyars.

    • Dude, you'll be successful there. Europeans, especially Central/Eastern Eruopeans, find Brazilians really attractive. Meanwhile, lots of Central and Eastern European women have really good values. You'll find a really nice relationship there.

    • @Flbari  thank you for the recommendation! Are they more focused on serious relationships?

  • People trying to fix their problems by going to another country is not a grand solution, it's a sign that society is going to collapse.

    • No doubt it's a sign of societal collapse, but you cannot fault individuals for doing what's in their best interest. I, as an American doctor for example, had nothing to gain from marrying an American woman. So I married a traditional woman abroad.

    • ​@@smellypatel5272 You cannot fault people going somewhere to get a higher price, but the empires of Spain, Portugal, Mongolia, Italy, Greece, Assyria, Babylon, etc. eventually all collapsed because those people did the same thing. I hope you are happy, but eventually this will all end in ruins. Dr. can you please give me even one example of a nation where men and women have turned on each other like this and it ended up well? Good luck with your life, mine is barely worth living.

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