Why Are you Chasing Her? #shorts

She’s making no effort? 

Then the big question is, why do you continue to make an effort? 

Is it because you’ve made a lot of effort so far? (This is a sunk cost fallacy, where because you’ve already invested so much you’r facing up to a psychological bias now to double down and keep trying, even when the process gets less and less rewarding.)

Is it because it almost worked out (and now your ego can’t bear to “lose?)

Or is is just because she’s just really hot (thanks scarcity mindset.)

In dating you never want to send a message to someone that your interest in them is unconditional: lowers makes you less attractive to interact with and more importantly dings your self esteem, which in turn will stop you from meeting the many other women out there who will match your effort levels. ►► Get more information →

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