Why He SUDDENLY Acts Cold | 7 Reasons Why A Man Acts Distant

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• If you always love yourself more than you love him, it wont bother you because you were fine alone before he came. You woman must learn to walk away you stay way to long. Love yourself ❤

  A man that suddenly acts cold should be the biggest turn off for you..you can not build with a man like that.

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  • Exactly 🙌🙌🙌

  • Most definitely..a huge turnoff! Real quick.. act cold, stay gone..period! Good riddens. No loss at all

• Generation of ppl who are scared to love.Iv’e had enough of this bs.

  • Me 2 😂 it just sounds like a boy who needs a mother,.we as woman are supposed to be a mans partners but they want mothers this is why I believe the divorce rate is so high..the woman are leaving

  • @@Didi-fr5ic something has gone very wrong somwhere down the line yea 😏

  • ​@@EternalflameC.L.it's social media, people not healing from past traumas, men are addicted to p*rn and men are to afraid to approach..I think its a disaster but I think we as woman can survive alone, men can't.

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• But if he feels like this then there’s no point starting a relationship! He should have thought about his feelings and the next person before getting into this situationship in the first place 🤨. Don’t you think?

  • Yes, but all men don't communicate that in the beginning 🙏

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks I also think that some men go cold because they want to get in the panties the moment you give them a look and if you try to get to know them better ….., they turns away because you won’t give them the (cookie) they don’t even want to give you a chance ….
    I’m I right?

• As a woman entering a relationship with a man it's like
  Navigating my Everest
  No explanation and growing cold ? Ah that's so frustrating
  Could u these selfish men out there break this unhealthy
  Cycle ?
  Be brave stay strong and just say exactly what's on your mind

  • Thank you for sharing 🙏

• I noticed "that moment " w/:others & w/ my child's dad( pre-conception.😅). Like the shoe dropping..it's predictable!! 😂 I didn't really like him for long term anyway & could watch the process cause I didn't care. I think it's when the guy "wants something " and your able to provide , & what he's able to do, yet he's been a "good boy" or "his representative" isnt meant for long term. And he's gotta be himself!! And his poo or humanity comes out . LoL

• This was a good one. I’m such an empath. I’ll just fall back with him. I’m not trying after that. Especially at my age. I can’t take moody men.

  • Girrrrl, I feel you! Not anymore, not at this big age. I direct my empathy toward myself!

  • Thanks 🙏

  • And most of the time it's petty stuff and expect us to be superwoman
    Am an upbeat fun person cannot tolerate a temperamental dude
    Let me now exactly what's on your mind or else get lost

  • @@user-fh1tr9zp3l right!! That’s while all of this information is great you have to move to the beat of your own drum. What does not kill you makes you stronger 💯💪🏾

• I'm tired of being told you're not my woman but ee can still do things together i really give up throw in the towel it's very draining 52 I'm retiring not gonna even try this mess no more 🙄

• Yeah sounds like what I have just gone through! But my case I needed to walk away from it! 6 years and walking away!!

• I completely ignored this video. :) But my Spiritual Guides had other plans. I watched two separate videos on an entirely different subject (medieval history), and when I clicked back to the main page it did not refresh.🤨😅 You immediately started talking which made me look down at the title. I almost kept it moving again, but I was asked to listen. The points you mentioned in the first two topics is my exact situation. Things were going fantastical and then suddenly I could feel the withdraw. We weren't physically together at the time, so I didn't understand what was happening. But energy doesn't lie. I could sense that he was feeling unsure and anxious in spite of the fact that he was clearly enjoying our time spent together and the talks we had. Fast forward a bit and I'm starting to piece a few things together through observation and things being said. And just plain intuition. People do not realize I can literally hear conversations that I was not present for. A male friend, who he has known since childhood has a great deal of influence on him. The friend and I have never met, so anything he says about me is speculative. Then there is his mother and grandmother who are in hopes that he will get back with his ex-wife. This is for financial reasons that I will not get into. Three people who have their own agendas at play, stating God only knows what (based on nothing), about me to him. It eventually came to a head. I told him that while he was a wonderful man and that I did love him immensely (still do), I was not willing to stick around for the drama. I do wish him every wonder thing! Especially the ability to think for himself and decide what is best for him, without giving into manipulative outside influences of friends and family. This I know will be immensely freeing for him mentally and emotionally. Unfortunately, the breakdown of his marriage and childhood trauma (abandonment issues), really did a number on him. Something he is not aware of consciously.

  • You are an intuitive person. God bless you!

• Far too many have this annoying obsession with "shifting the power balance". The *moment* he tries to make me the pursuer/chaser is the moment I "next" him. Not even my definition of male beauty would be worth role-reversal, let alone a nobody.

  • Every time it happens it’s this reason!! So manipulative and catty…no thank you !

  • *power dynamic (for my initial comment)
    It's not even a "challenge" to figure them out - just very annoying. Once you know that a grown male who isn't doing anything to improve your life is not really interested in you, none of them can convince you to go 50-50, let alone engage in role-reversal.

  • Exactly! Not male beauty at all.. ugh!