Why Irish Guy Doesn’t Want to Date Irish Women ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช

Paul from Dublin, Ireland shares why he prefers not to date in Ireland which cultures he finds more attractive.

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  • @marisa82 says:

    What on earth is he talking about ๐Ÿ˜‚ Im not even irish but I can tell its nonsense

  • @matthewsmith908 says:

    I get the impression Irish women just don’t want to put up with his terrible attitude

  • @yunleung2631 says:

    Yeah, itโ€™s really just him thinking that itโ€™s easy. and a lot of women would find him attractive to because of the status as a white man

  • @JackBlackNinja says:

    I’m not saying this guy is wrong, and he does come off as a nice well-spoken guy. But also comes off so cocky lol

  • @Just4Kixs says:

    He’s a bit too much himself. Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

  • @user-uz1jx3mt6k says:

    He was just too honest with his words.

  • @nb-yi1yf says:

    Im irish. Personally i’m not a fan of dating women from back home anymore either. I find we tear each other down a fair bit and pass it off as humour. Granted the jokes are usually well executed which does make them funny, but there is a feeling of constantly being reminded that I should count myself lucky they would even put up with me. Perhaps i’ve just chosen bad people from back home to date and much of the girls in the rest of my families and surrounding me on a wider level come off quite entitled, and socially and verbally abusive to the men they’re dating in public so my view may be quite skewed but I do tend to see it alot with women from back home. The last 2 girls i’ve seen long term were from brazil and gambia. Both were quite supportive of me in public and and when joking and laughing about stuff…they never tore me down or seemed to try to make me feel lesser, small, useless or like I should be constantly ashamed of myself. It was weird processing that feeling of being supported as it caught me very off guard the first time it happened at a joint dinner between friends but after I had and was exposed more to it, I realised i’d never felt happier, more secure or like i could trust a person as much as i’d ever expected to. It was really nice actually. I think for that reason I wouldn’t want to go back. I dont think its a deliberate personal choice either on the part of the people back home…i think its more a side effect of our cultural way of carrying ourselves. I dont think we reflect on it enough if i’m honest.

    • @JohnHoulgate says:

      I’ve heard it said that you are never a hero in your own back yard.

    • @rugoro says:

      Wow, thanks for your perspective ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป that’s really interesting. Similarly, I just recently witnessed a girl making fun of her boyfriend in public and constantly taking the side of anyone who was teasing him or just arguing with him. It was SO weird to me, and I felt awkward and uncomfortable having to even witness that… But no one else seemed to notice or care… (I’m now living in another culture).
      Good luck finding someone who always has your back! โค

    • @BeatniKkers says:

      Yes because in the west, women have embraced feminism which is fundamentally antagonistic towards men, and makes women prideful and arrogant.

  • @sianfesa says:

    Yes, he would be super popular in Latin America for sure ๐Ÿ˜Š

    • @flowershower6857 says:

      He would not be popular. Why are you lying

    • @I_am_FRANCO says:

      @@flowershower6857STOP F ING LYING WHY U ALWAYS LYING
      OOOO MY GAD
      STOP F ING LYING

    • @amiquigonzales7917 says:

      @shower6857 Latin American women will find him very attractive (he is), if he is talkative, respectful and smiley, they will think he is nice and interesting. So there will be so many women fighting among themselves to get his attention.

  • @Ash_Queen16 says:

    Sounds like modern feminism took hold of his women

  • @christineblack1223 says:

    He doesn’t seem like a bad guy. It’s sad how men and women can’t seem to talk to each other civily even if you don’t have chemistry. I hope he finds what he is looking for.

  • @steviewang4102 says:

    1. Whiteness is worshiped in many Asian and Latin American countries, especially the less developed ones. Itโ€™s associated with superior genes, class, wealth, and a way into better living standards.

    2. Many western white women see men who actively approach as too โ€œmasculineโ€ and dominant and would much rather a more subtle approach. Ireland is also an indirect introverted country where strangers rarely talk to each other unless under the influence of alcohol. The masculine approach is much more favorable in more patriarchal Asian and Latin American countries.

    3. Not sure if his mannerisms and appearance in this video is him most of the time but he seems a bit arrogant and gives off a douchey gym bro vibe.

  • @yespls4184 says:

    Cuz your confidence comes off as a bit fake bruh

  • @Karansharma69420 says:

    ” High testosterone”

  • @aryungurueva4083 says:

    He doesn’t seem like a bad guy for me

  • @dustywilson5461 says:

    He’s not wrong.

    Self-respecting people are attracted to those who express appreciation and respect for them.

    Lots of comments here pointing out how this guy seems “arrogant”… could it just be the lens through which your culture has convinced you to see the world ? One which has you perceiving free-spirited, upbeat people as pompous ? Perhaps the problem is yourself, having such low self esteem that you perceive anyone with even slightly more self esteem as being pompous, so you want to put them down so you don’t feel inferior.

    Let the guy be himself.
    Life’s too short to be so miserable.

    • @toomuchinformation says:

      It’s all about (cultural, historical) context. As a white skinned, blue eyed man he has greater status in Asian and Latin American countries. His approach will be viewed differently in these places.

  • @toomuchinformation says:

    This guy, being white skinned with blue eyes (as he acknowledges) has greater status in Asian and South American cultures. It’s all about context.
    What I’d like to know is how the Asian women and Latinas would react if an Asian or Latino man approached them in the same way.

    • @RosalbaMenesesEC says:

      A masculine man is attractive because of his confidence which comes from a cultivated intellect, body and financial status. We say: “you get to know a tree by its fruits”, so we consider their actions, their motivations in order to build trust.

      A man that exudes confidence/power/self control is definitely attractive no matter what his race is.

    • @loganhanson4681 says:

      Unimpressed lol ๐Ÿ˜…

  • @cedricnicholson7446 says:

    So heโ€™s like most men who want a friendly, cooperative, feminine woman. A natural woman with a touch of makeup that enjoys a man while she rests in her femininity . Itโ€™s a simple ask but hard to find in todayโ€™s dating world.

  • @aneve24269 says:

    He makes me think about me (Italian) and Italian men: I really can’t stand them! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ But on the other hand, I’ve no problems with UK or France. Italian men always complain about the typical Italian woman, but in fact this kind of girl is 100% what they really look for. So I’ m “too strange” for them ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

  • @jeng2336 says:

    Sounds like he has approached Irish women who appreciate the art of good slagging, humility, and substance over superficial qualities. And as far as his blue eyes…..it is the most common eye color in Ireland which may be why he does not get “the credit he should”. Maybe oompa loompas are not into red lobsters.

  • @yuehanbai9984 says:

    No offense but that “Wow! My blue eyes!” part made me laugh.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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