Why Men Aren’t PURSUING Women Like They USED TO

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• I really respect Stephanspeaks, very correct and genuine and sensible in all ways, bad men are more than bad women!
  Could you believe a man asking a lady to give him money without even got into a relationship? No way,

• Exactly, the first date should be for tea at a cafe not at espensive restaurant!!!
  Some men are not serious to be commited at all,
  If you are a respectable lady, you dont have to give your body to a man without any concrete or genuine relationships.
  Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, keep it neat and safe, your own husband will find you, dont be in a haste to be with these nonechallant men!
  I wish you all success in your dating journey in Jesus mighty name Amen.

• Thank you for keeping it real, always. I believe and trust that God has big plans for me. Do your part. Stay positive. ❤

• Spot on. Also, another nice color for you.

• From what I’ve seen, women aren’t dating men. We’re dating each other. Women are cleaner, safer, more responsible, and way more respectful to each other. True love is with our fellow women.

• Stephan, I feel like this is your best re-run video. I think that the comments are better this time around and I like how you changed the title a little.

• Men should take first dates for a coffee not a full meal. You don't invest in someone you don't know. Start slow. Treat them a drink or coffee, not a full meal, no way, not the first or second or third time. If you both like each other, then shout a full meal, fine. Men should know this. One coffee, or one drink, keep it short and see you next week. No need to invest in people you don't know. Get to know the woman first before investing in 50/100.00 meals I thought this was obvious for men. If they are trying to show off from the start, what do they expect of the woman?? And tell the girl/woman, I like to start gradually, be open from the start that you don't invest in people you don't know. That will sort out the unsavory ones pretty quick.

• ❤Thank you, Stephan. 😊 I think men who are interested in dating/ courting should consider early afternoon dates . If I were to get asked to go on a date, I would actually prefer a tea house or a smoothie shop so we can easily talk and it’s not as heavy or expensive for him. I am interested to hear what other women think about that type of date. I think these types of dates would allow him to meet lots of people but stay on budget. He can leave the expensive dinners for those he may feel a deeper connection with but he has to know himself and the type of relationship he is looking for. Love, peace, and many more fruitful blessings🙏🏽

  • @AngieDCreates I am not a woman, but I can vouch for a tea house because I have been to one frequently before. It wasn't on any dates. I went there for myself. I would always get a large Caesar salad, and I would get both cold and hot tea!

• Good morning! I'm new to your podcast. What you shared makes a lot of sense and was very helpful in understanding what's taking place in today's world. I'm a single senior and oh how things have tremendously changed! This was very interesting and informative. I tremendously miss the Old School dating process. But I understand what has taken place as well. I don't approve of the negative behaviors but so see how it can and does happen. Blessings and peace! ✝️🙏😊👍💯❤️

• Spend money on some one because you want to not because you are trying to get something out of it.

  • Exactly! The motive in spending has to be right. If the motive is to "get something" that's a problem and they may get disappointed.

  • @margaretgirves559 I agree.