Why Men Cheat Instead of Leaving

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• Never ever accepted for a petson who cheats they knew before they were married still a sin

• Cheating is very selfish. I had a very serious convo with my husband prior to getting married about loyalty... He knows not to play with me or he will meet the Lord sooner than expected. Amen. ✌🏼

• That's so true. I didn't want to break my family that's why I tried to resuscitate my marriage for a full year, knowing, the marriage was finished.

• That’s not always the case .. unfortunately some men could careless or care more about what they want than the kids regardless of age ..#simplyselfish..

• Sooo many of my male friends have told me they didn't wanna have to pay up the wazoo! And said cheaper to keep her. 😢 money...

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

• Most cheaters do not cheat because they are unhappy. Lying is a narcissistic trait, and all cheaters are liars. They do it because it feels exciting to be able to trick their partner, as well as the person they are cheating with. Inflicting pain makes them feel powerful.

  • @@PlayshotKalo Absolutely, and narcissists are by default insecure validation-seekers. They spend their entire lives desperately trying to prove that they have actual value, thus living in constant fear of being exposed as weak, being abandoned and losing control.

  • Insecurity is still at the root. Wanting to hurt your partner to gain power is insecure people activities.

  • It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

• I've been married for 23 years. The last 10 years, it'spent horrible no sex. No touch no kiss. I've been miserable. It's just marriage I thought but really no I have found another man on Facebook. That is messaging me. And is attracted to me and he is making me happy. I feel wanted.
  I stayed with my husband because we have a 15-year-old son together. I feel like we are growing apart. the last 10 years. I've been in a separate bedroom alone, so yeah, it's been bad.
  I Don't want to clean or cook are do anything for my husband because of what he has done.
  My husband is like a loner. He likes to stay in his bedroom and watch movies. And I call it the devils room because it's always dark.

  • 🙏 I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

• Once you cheat, you automatically broke your family's structure and you broke your partner's soul. Cheating and continuing to stay in that relationship/ marriage is just a coward and selfish.

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• I stayed through violence. I know men going through a bad situation and stay. What everyone doesn't see, unfortunately including me, was it was hurting the kids. You can't ever fix the other person. It's better to get out of a bad relationship. I just wish there were more resources and support out there.

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• Yes I agree that what idid stay for my kids when they got older wr got a divorced we just out grow each other cause I got married of the age of 21 yrs.of age

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