Why Portuguese Men Prefer to Date Foreign Women ๐ต๐น
I interview Leo from the channel Portuguese with Leo about the dating scene in Portugal and why oftentimes Portuguese men prefer to date outside their culture.
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Seems the guy lives in a different Portugal. Most men are very shy, dependent and expect the woman in their life to take of all household work. Can’t tell where his perspective derives from.
He’s talking about hook-ups and casual dating, something that’s not prevalent in the portuguese culture and the local men already know that.
Foreign women from central/North Europe are more open to hook-ups and short term dating (since they’re also in the country for the short-term) so they just go ahead.
Portuguese men are wonderful… fantastic…outstanding
We are amazing… truly we are
Portuguese women are so gorgeous ๐
Simp
@@Icu4u2nv I am
@@Icu4u2nv I am
Portuguese woman here who never dated a portuguese man.
Maybe Portuguese women aren’t into hook-up culture and if they were they would rather be with a foreigner who won’t ‘judge them’ since their not of their social circle.
What this guy is reading into ‘intent’ is thag portuguese women might be interested in a foreign man but not in a hook-up or short term fling (since foreigners are usually here in the short term) as for the men they don’t mind hook-ups and short term flings with these foreign women who are also in the country for the short-term and won’t be ‘judged’ since they’re far away from their home country.
Side note: Majority of European guys residing in Portugal are not exactly a ‘catch’ or ‘boyfriend/marriage material’ and others are migrants from developing countries with very different cultures that dont match portuguese and/or western values in general.
100%
โ@@marianagarrido6795
Clarifying some points of what this clueless guy is trying to say.
‘Village mentality’ = Not being into hook-up culture and casual sex isn’t ‘village mentality’, it’s called ‘dating with purpose’.
‘Not being emancipated as in other countries’ = Again, not being into casual sex and collecting new strands of syphilis isn’t for lack of emancipation. Portuguese women have equal rights since 1976 and is one of the EU countries with more full time working moms and female scientists. Portuguese women are using their emancipation and rights to contribute to the society not to stroke visitors egos who are used to ‘sex before coffe’.
‘They make men wait’ = We go back to ‘dating with intent’ and ‘seeking meaningful relationships’. A woman might be interested in a man but in the long term. So ‘making him wait’ just translates into ‘dating’ and not just hooking-up.
Portuguese women are not afraid of judgment but they will definitely will. It’s the eternal double binding, if they are ‘too easy’ they are sl.t shamed if they’re not they have ‘village mentality and are not emancipated’. *rolls eyes*
Preach! ๐๐ค
Ora aรญ รฉ que a porca torce o rato
Eu acho que a Marina ainda nรฃo percebeu bem.
Os homens portugueses gostam das estrangeiras… porque elas se vรฃo embora ๐๐๐
Explicando melhor… รฉ mais fรกcil iniciar um relacionado sabendo que a outra pessoa estรก cรก sรณ de passagem. Ou seja o drama de acabar com a relaรงรฃo desaparece ou รฉ atenuado porque ela acaba por se ir embora. ร que custa um bocado entrar ร maluca e acabar com a relaรงรฃo logo a seguir, parece que estamos a usar e nรฃo queremos magoar a outra a pessoa. Tambรฉm pode acontecer o homem desenvolver sentimentos pela pessoa e ela ir-se embora na mesma ๐คทโโ๏ธรฉ a vida
Com alguรฉm que mora cรก permanentemente, preferimos conhecer bem a pessoa antes de nos envolvermos… e muitas vezes quando a conhecemos jรก sabemos que ela nรฃo รฉ indicada para nรณs
Maybe you should ask yourselves why people would judge Portuguese women for engaging in hook-ups and not men. In modern days there’s no reason to wait if both want to have sex. Also, wtf do you mean when you say “western values”? It’s like a boomer who’s never left his own country and thinks people in USA, Portugal and Norway share the same “values”. Men don’t respect women who engage in short-term relationships because of sexism, that’s all.
I feel like Portuguese women play hard to get because they are so beautiful! Itโs like they can be picky! ๐
Simp
@@Icu4u2nvโSimpโ is a great neologism usually used as a term by weak men whose abilities to court a woman properly is directly related to the size of his penis, or more accurately, the lack thereof.
Happy Tuesday, Marina! Hope you’re having a wonderful week! I have been told in the past that Portuguese ๐ต๐น women are more on the reserved side but I never met a Portuguese ๐ต๐น woman myself but I can only go with what I was told. Sending my love your way โค and stay beautiful
My favorite language learning channel and my favorite dating channel collaborated! Thanks for the content, Marina and Leo. โค
Portuguese people look really good โค
X-country people look really good!
Quick note: you should also interview people from the north of Portugal. There’s a big difference ๐๐
She lived in Lisbon.
In Algarve things are diferent also.
I think Lisbon is more conservative than other areas of Portugal
How so?
@chrystianaw8256ย In the north we are a bit more straightforward/fiery. We can be blunt and be considered rude if we speak the same way we do in the north, in Lisbon, for example. Generally speaking, from Coimbra down, I feel people and ways are way more indirect and sinuous than in the north of Portugal. (Itโs not better or worst, itโs just different)โจ
[this next part is referencing the video, more than your question]
Women in Portugal like to enjoy their time having fun, yes [shock]. And fun might mean to dance just for the sake of dancing, and not necessarily to find a mating partner. In the north, if bothered, we might confront the person that is bothering us or push them way; in the south they might be a bit more polite and do the circle thing to avoid men’s interferenceโฆ idkโจโจ
Nevertheless, I find the mentality of playing โhard to getโ a bit destructive for both ends. To be honest, Itโs not nice to say โnoโ and have guys insisting because they think we are โplaying hard to getโโฆ what if she really doesnโt want THAT guy? What if she just wants to have fun? or what if she is a feminine presenting lesbian?
I know we are talking about stereotypes, but stillโฆ Idk if perpetuating this stereotype of disregarding peopleโs signals/feelings is actually good and if it is indeed true or if it is rooted in the sexist idea that โwomen donโt know what they wantโ.
If it’s not a clear YES, is still a NO.
Shout out to Leo. Grande abraรงo, irmรฃo!
Portugese girls have self respect๐ Its not a big deal to be easy and have ONS, come on- everyone can be easy. ๐
They can’t decide how women should be: “valuable” or “from the streets”. Both are bad in their eyes so… There are no chances
Seems like Portuguese women respect themselves those women seem like keepers
I’m married to a portuguese woman.
Portuguese women don’t play hard to get they are hard to get and it worths it.
Portuguese women might seem difficult because they don’t want to waste their time with short flings so the man has to prove he’s up for the long run. Befriend her family and you’ll have unlimited access to her mom’s portuguese dishes๐ .
As Portuguese man, one is Saying for Portuguese women to be “easy” they make it so hard verging on the Impossible to date them that the guy loses interest even if he plays his cards right, like cooperante a little with us
@@ricardovicente5334 It seems unfair.
Iโm American but my family is Latin American , I went to Lisbon in September for the first time , I was shocked to realize that there arenโt many real Portuguese people in Lisbon . Most of the people I met were from Bangladesh and Brazil.
sad reality…
It’s because all the Portuguese people are all here in London.
โ@@nicolef4535Just as sad as not seeing English people in London. All the Portuguese are over here.
@@louiseleite3866 lol
@@louiseleite3866 at least the Portuguese people arenโt that phenotypically different looking from the British and culturally/religiously arenโt that different either . When someone comes from a Muslim or Hindu nation in Africa or Asia, they really stick out and change the atmosphere of a place , you should probably be grateful that there are Portuguese people and not people from a totally different and incompatible society from yours
So I’m very Portuguese! I don’t like one night stands. I need to know the person.
Initiative in men matters so much in life and dating. Even an independent feminist is not going to know you’re interested or have good intentions until you show her.
attempting might get you cancelled.
@@alessbritish228 Not if you’re appropriate, respectful, and accept no for an answer. Most of the dudes getting complained about don’t know how to behave and need the the lesson.
As a Portuguese man i can confirm, damn near Impossible to date a Portuguese women
Portuguese man here. I’ve had it but gotta say it even feels weird to have a ONS with a Portuguese ๐ they’re just not for that. In terms of GF material they’re VERY good tho, but after some foreigners I’m not coming back, international dating is just better
Portuguese women here. I agree that international dating is just better.
Sounds like a win for the Portugese women.
Is self respect a turn off
I have a Portuguese friend who went on some dates with an American guy (I’m also American). She told him she didn’t wanna keep dating and just wanted to stay friends. Then she got soooo pissed when he went on a date with someone else. They ended up getting together after that, and I was just as confused as he was when he told me haha