Will He Really Come Along when You’re NOT Looking?

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• It has happened with me and my girlfriend. When I gave up believing that I would find someone I met her, and have been together since Christmas last year.

• lts bs. lve been alone 10 years. Havent met anyone decent.

• When you stop looking you're being satisfied with your life. And being satisfied is extremely attractive, it attracts people like crazy. Everyone wants a person who is satisfied.

• I don't believe that you'll find someone if you stop looking. Idk how this crazy idea got popular, but it has zero logical basis. You're basically encouraging people to live alone and rely on sheer luck to find someone. Well, here's some scientifically established facts about "luck" - have you ever wondered why some people get more lucky than others? Whether its opportunities in career, jobs, relationships etc, some people just get lucky with having so many opportunities even if they barely put in any effort. It all boils down to two things - genetics and personality. Extroverts tend to get more lucky, because their energetic, confident behavior attracts people towards them. So does physical features that are deemed conventionally attractive. I'd wager the latter plays a bigger role than the former, which is why the "Halo effect" is a thing and is shown to affect all parts of our lives, whereas nobody talks about "personality effect" to the same extent.

  • WHoever you are, thank you for having some actual sense. Goodness........wow........you're a treasure. People ignorantly say the stupidest things with zero logical basis.

• No actions will lead to no results. Im a genuis. 😂

• I totally forgot about dating for a really long time now and I haven't found anyone;
  I'm OK with it and on we go!

  Sound advice here Hayley, wish all the very best to those who crave a relationship and are feeling pressured by time passing them by.
  Just be careful and have fun after all!
  👋 😊

• To any gals reading this...re-watch pt 3...I am so f'ing tired of going on "job interview" dates...and I will tell you what happens and how I react...she sits down and the "interview" starts because God forbid we have any fun...and within five minutes I have completely tunes out and lost interest...the date is over for me and I am looking for the exit...and you went home thinking "another bad date". The best date I've had in five years with a couple months ago (sadly we didn't work out) and at the end of the date neither of us had discussed, kids, jobs or anything of substance, we just laughed and had a fab time.

  • When they're looking at their phone during these interview dates? That's them referring to their checklist.

• Bottom line, have fun until you run into your person lol

• Yeah all the pressures on women there's no pressure on men

• How old is she I wonder?